How can I control my jealousy on my husband?
I dont think there is anything wrong with being jealous, even being honest with your husband about it. Explain to him what your fears are, and tell him what you need, hopefully he will understand that to keep his marriage, he has to work a little at helping you feel secure. I am sure that with his reassurance and your love for him, you will understand that he does not have to stay with you, he wants to be with you, otherwise, why stay? What my husband and I try to do is even when we have a discussion, at the end of it, we tell each other how much we care about each other. And he is very reassuring explaining to me that he chose me to be his wife and he cares so much that he would not lose that for any woman. I hope this helps, if not I recommend you speak to a professional, before its too late.
Am I wrong to be jealous of his "baby mama"?
Not sure if "jealous" is the right word but let me explain quickly as possible..10 pts to first best. If you're gonna tell me this is a bad idea please just move on because...well duh, of course it is, it's called "baggage". This guy and I recently started falling for each other. It just fits/works/ is wonderful. He "wanted me and only me from the moment he saw me." I think he's falling in love with me cuz I can just feel it & he tells me his feelings. Here's the big problem: he lives with the mother of his 3 year old son (& one other roommate, a friend of mine). They sleep in separate bedrooms but act as a family for their son. They've been broken up for 2 years but living together. Their son was NOT a mistake...they "decided to get pregnant because the timing was right and they were in love." Then apparently 6 months after his birth they broke up because his heart was actually "only 98% in it". Well now of course his baby mama sees me as her enemy & still tries to control this guy's life, even though she says she is fine with us dating, she tries to make him come home early, gets mad, etc. Even worse, I'm sick with jealousy when I picture them planning their family together. Would you be jealous of such an intimate bond too? And how could he possibly have no feelings left for her?
Why do I get jealous when I am drunk?
Alcohol is a drug. It affects different people differently and varies by the degree of intoxication. For some it can intensify emotions and behavior that is otherwise suppressed, for others it may suppress them. Each person is different as I've had friends that are "loving drunks" while others are "angry drunks" some can become moody, sullen or solitaire while others may become more aggressive, out going or energetic. I would say that in your case, you are exhibiting an emotion that is definitely there but may be controlled to an acceptable level until you drink in which your ability to control your behavior and emotions is greatly inhibited. I would recommend that you first drink less, and second have a serious talk with your girl about your feelings and why so that she realizes that you are very concerned about her and your relationship. If it's a serious problem counseling may not hurt. Good luck.
I'm jealous of my girlfriend's guy friends. Is this wrong?
Just a year back I went through almost the same situation as you are in. My girlfriend was talking to this guy who I assumed was her friend since they went to the same school and she told me it was just the new guy at her class they were just friends. Long story short I spoke to the guy and amazingly he was not the "new kid" and was infact my girl's ex who was trying to get her to break up with me. Even though I was really mad at her and wanted to break up with her for lying to me but I didn't because I knew she choose me over him anyday. Fast forward 6 months and we were still together and everything was fine except we didnt see each other as much since we both had finals and I had to focus on soccer. She was talking to 2 guys and just like last time had me convinced that they were just friends like "brothers". But I had my doubts and one day I pretended that I found out something about her from somebody she was good friends with. I told her that I knew she was cheating on me (though I knee absolutly nothing). She obviously denied ever cheating/lying to me so I was like fine then let me see your phone and after telling her I would break up with her if she didn't, she gave it to me. Ha and surprise surprise there was messages from one of the guys i shr talked aboout and the message said how beautiful and "perfect" she is anf hrle was asking her to come over. Also when I checked her snapchat story there was the guy, laying on a couch together with my girl at getty party (get together). To this day that picture is pinned in my head. As much as I loved her and STILL wanted to be with her, I knew what bad for me and I broke up with her. Moral of the story: Your girl is always going to end up with the people they told you not to worry about. I learned the hard way. If she doesn't understand how much you love her and won't stop something that you're uncomfortable with then break up with her bro because she don't deserve you. Just tell her that "I'm gold but you want silver and that's fine go get your silver."
How can I stop being jealous of my girlfriend?
i feel your pain, man.What a struggle, because your passion, she wants.Your possessiveness, she definitely does not need.Your comforting presence is a treasure.Your investigating her business and making up rules for her to follow is poisonous and will infuse your relationship with resentment and anger. Eventually, things will get ugy.Jealousy is all about you. It’s not about her. It’s about the imbalance inside. I’m going to say something that’s going to sound like transcendental information from loo loo land, but just bring awareness to your jealousy to bring it into focus.You need to see your jealousy, the size and the shape and the color of it, in order to do anything about it.Right now, you can’t separate your jealousy from your better emotions, like your faith in another human being to remain faithful.When you pause before you call her, just to ‘say hi’, not a ‘check up’ call. Think about whether your intention is to share a moment with her, or are you really trying to see what’s going on when you’re not around? That PAUSE to check, it’s how you bring your jealousy under control. You are watching it like the rabid dog it is.You should name it. Jealousy, the rabid dog who thinks he owns the whole street, not just his backyard. Name it and call him out when he’s pooping in someone else’s yard, when he’s barking at the postman, or when he’s trying to hump the neighbors dog.Yep, that last part is the clincher. The real reason you feel so insecure is you know within your heart of hearts what you would do if a girl like your girlfriend came along, too much time on her hands, feeling a little insecure about her relationship… That’s the ugly truth of Jealousy. You don’t feel faithful, so how could she?
Why is my girlfriend so jealous of my daughter? Am I in the wrong here?
My girlfriend [Ashlynne] and I get a long really well. Our personalities are perfect for each other and we just seem to mirror each others emotions a lot. We get a long really well and compliment each other in more ways then one. It's hard to describe. We've been together for about a year now. My daughter just turned two in June. Ashlynne had some minor jealousy issues with her at first. I will admit that I would break a date if my daughter was sick, or leave early if she couldn't sleep, etc. I assumed that everything would mellow out after we were together for a bit, but it's almost gotten worse. Ashlynne seems to think that because we're dating, my daughter won't be in my life. It's not like I put her to bed and she disappears and I can go out. I've tried to explain this to her but she gets mad and claims that I care more about my daughter then her. Which I probably do. It's a different kind of love for each of them though. I've tried so many times to tell her this - both that her being jealous of my two year old daughter is ridiculous, but also that my daughter couldn't and wouldn't replace my feelings for her. I don't understand why she's so jeoulous. I'm new to the whole lebian thing [and I don't mean that in a mean way - although I realize it sounds strange]. Ashlynne is my first real girlfriend. There was two girls before her, but neither one lasted for more then a month. I don't want to lose Ashlynne but there is no way I can put my daughter last in anything. Am I wrong here? For taking my daughters "side" over Ashlynnes?
Why does she get angry if I get jealous?
Dude:The answers given before mine are all good. Jealousy is a sign you fear losing some person or thing you've got, or not getting some person or thing you want. Take a look at yourself and ask what it is. You aren't required to tell anyone else what you find so be as honest with yourself as you can.If you can avoid it, don't shrink from looking at something because you don't want to know it. You already are the guy you are, so you might as well know as much as you can about what makes that guy tick.It's not bad news, it's just news. It's just information. Don't put yourself down about what you find. Accept it all as the way you are, and if there is something you don't like see if it can be changed. You'd be surprised what can be changed if you really want to change it.You're basically ok, I'm sure. Most people I've met in my life are. You are just a bit of a rough diamond. So now it's time to start polishing.One last word. So far every answer has assumed the girl isn't interested in the other guys she's talking to.I don't know either of you. Maybe she is indeed giving undue attention to another guy. Who am I to say? Be observant without judgment. If you need to take care of yourself do it without inflicting her with your suspicions in the meantime. She isn't a possession, she's a girl.
How can i stop being jealous of girl with big boobs?
i'm fourteen with a size 34B breast.. there are plenty of girls in my class (freshman) that have C's and D's, and here i am with B's. not having big boobs has lowered my self-esteem and i am never really happy. guys don't like girls with small boobs. i hate being jealous. i need a way to stop. either i stop being jealous or i wait 4 years to get a boob job, which i really don't want to do cause i am really impatient. are there anyways to make my boobs bigger. i can't do push-up bras or these victoria secret bras cause i don't want my mom to think i want bigger boobs cause then she'll think i'm a sl*t.