I'm convinced my PE teacher hates me and he made me cry?
okay I'm going to be completely honest here and point out that I wasn't a very committed student in PE, I would make up excuses to not do PE; my stomach hurts, my knee hurts, blah blah blah, and I think that's one of the reasons why my PE teacher hates me. but something happened yesterday and it really set me off the edge, including all the other times he treated me like a totally different person compared to the other people in my class. yesterday we were playing 4 corner soccer (and i actually tried to make an effort in playing this time) and they assign you numbers and call out the numbers and try to hit the other 3 teams benches to get them out. my best friend was reffing and my number wasn't being called out so I just went and sat beside her and started talking to her. after probably 10 minutes (we only had time to get out numbers called once and mine was already called so I basically had free time for 40 minutes) my PE teacher came up to my BEST FRIEND, and started getting mad at her and saying "she is supposed to be playing while you are standing here socializing with her!" and after all he's treated me, this really sent me off the edge, because he didn't come to me, he went to my friend, who had no control over it. so I yelled back "MY NUMBER WASN'T CALLED, I WOULD'VE BEEN DOING THE SAME IF I WAS STILL IN MY CORNER!" and he just yelled back "so what?" and turned away. I was so mad that I threw my pinny down and ran outside into the washrooms and cried. he tried to barricade the doors with his arms so I couldn't get out but I ran through them. I never went back into the gym afterwards, I just stayed in the washrooms until the period ended. what should I do? I'm leaving this school this year but I really can't stand him anymore. I can't drop out or anything because my school is a lot different and we only have two teachers, one for PE and another for all the other subjects.
I think I'm in love with my math teacher. Is that wrong or not and why? How can I deal with these complex feelings?
I won't say it is wrong. I will say that it may be infatuation. If I knew how old you are it would make it easier, but since I am a student, I know that students are not always or only in high school or in their twenties.So, the only thing that I can say that can keep you safe from getting your heart broken is to make sure that you ask yourself a few things, like "is he married?" and more, "are you sure you love this person?"Love is complex, even as it is the easiest thing to be in when it happens. I am guessing that you are probably a young person, in their twenties, or perhaps your late teens, and because I know what it is like to be both of those, I can offer you this - you will meet a lot of nice guys in your time, and then one day you will meet one who you are just so very curious about. He might not even be your "type," in any other way than that you are crazy about him, and don't know why.What we don't think about is that in our young minds, power is very sexy, and to a student the idea of being with their teacher, even as I just do not understand it (it is probably because my father was a teacher when I was growingup) is seeing this man's power as you are perceiving it.Really, this is what I know to be the truth. I hate sounding so crass, but you will likely get over it sooner than later. It is likely just a passing fancyALOHA
What should I do? I'm 16, and I fell in love with my teacher (28). He often treats me as a very special student for him, like wipe my hair (2 times), calls my name at class. He's single.
It is not unusual for teenagers to fall “in love” with their teachers however if your teacher were to acknowledge your feelings and act on them he would be crossing his personal and professional boundaries resulting in dangerous consequences for both of you. You could ruin his life and he could just as easily ruin yours ; he could also ruin his own life by responding to you ! None of those outcomes are in any ones best interests !. ..It is possible because of your intense feelings you are imagining that he is treating you in a special way ; it is also possible that he is singling you out. It is therefore very important that you examine your feelings honestly before jumping to any conclusions that could have terrible implications for both of you . It is irrelevant that he is single ; he is your teacher and out of bounds because of the law and because of his position of power, authority and trust over you.I must confess the “wiping hair” seems strange to me and he should not be doing it , but he may just be acting thoughtlessly and impulsively to wipe away a leaf or some dirt that is caught in your hair and though his actions are unwise you may be reading too much into it….however if wiping your hair is a gesture of affection from him ,then this is wrong whether you like it or not.As to calling your name in class ; this is not so unusual and because your focus is on him in relation to you ,you may not be aware that he is using other students names also. There maybe other reasons such as finding your last name hard to pronounce or it maybe that you give smart answers he finds valuable to the class. It is important not to jump to conclusions.In answer to what you should do ? The answer is you must keep your feelings to yourself . At 16 you have to be mature enough to accept that your teacher is out of bounds and it would be wrong of you to act in any way(at least until you are no longer a student and have finished school)that could unjustly compromise him simply because you have a crush on him …..However if you are certain he is genuinely acting inappropriately towards you and taking advantage of your feelings then you must report his behaviour to your parents and to another teacher (or the Principal or school counselor).
Why does my teacher keep asking if im ok?
like everyday she would ask its hot why wont u take off ur jacket. or is every thing ok at home .i usually stay quite most of the day unless some 1 askes me a question. even at lunch my friends r acting like they hate me now. my teacher asks questions like that everyday . im 13 if it matters
Male teacher hugged/kissed me?
Uh oh! this is NOT a good thing for a teacher to do. Your teacher has over-stepped his bounds by acting the way he did and has passed the line of acceptable moral behavior. The fact that you posted what you did only confirms what he did was wrong because, in your heart, you know very well teachers are not supposed to get that close to their students, not in that way anyway. You really need to discuss this with your parents and let them handle it in any way they feel is appropriate. If this teacher is not made aware, one way or another, that what he did was inappropriate, then things will progress to the "next stage" and you'll wish you had done something to stop it when you had the chance. By you saying: "He's such a nice person..." shows that he now has you under his spell and he feels confident he can do whatever he wants to satisfy his "agenda" with no repercussion or consequence.
Can I report a teacher for calling me a disgrace in front of the class because I laughed at a girl who was shaking and acting really awkward during her presentation?
I’m a teacher and I want you to know that was disgraceful. Do, however, notice the subtle distinction between what you’re alleging your teacher said and what I said.You are a disgrace.That was disgraceful.Which response would you have felt worse hearing? They say the same word. Yet they have a slightly different semantic meaning.The first attacks the person. The second attacks the behavior. While the behavior is still a choice made by the character, most would feel better hearing the second option. It means that you screwed up, but you’re not a screw-up. I think and expect better of you than you presently are acting, instead of you’re doing exactly as I expect of you.It took me a few years to figure out how to separate the behavior from the person, but I’ve realized that thinking and expecting the worst isn’t going to fix the problem. Reminding the student that he/she ultimately good, made a mistake, and is disappointing you right now, can turn them around.Now, to answer the original question, I want you to think long and hard about whether or not the teacher said you were a disgrace or you were being disgraceful. If your teacher did in fact say you were a disgrace, it’s not good, but nothing will happen to the teacher should you turn them in. That’s about the equivalent of letting an obscenity slip… for the teacher, it might be a 2 minute conversation with their supervisor and then never heard from again.
My teacher makes me uncomfortable am I overreacting?
Yes and no. as far as the cleavage part goes, put a shirt on they doesn't show it. Ur going to school and theres is no reason why ur shirt should be that low in school. anyone esp men can't help but notice that, as a woman I can't help but notice that on anyone it's inappropriate. men automatically look its instinct. Secondly, are u misbehaving in class? Usually when a teacher wants certain students up front it's because they don't behave in class for example maybe sleeping talking not paying attention etc. sure he wasnt being sarcasticby saying that seat wouldn't work cuz it was to far to the point he couldn't pay attention to u all at the same time. Was ur friendcrying hysterically about her grade? Is that why he hugged her? Her grade suggests she's not paying attention??????? Maybe she was too upset she needed a hug and as a professional, he gave her a hug and said it would be ok. Those are signs of comfort, not hitting on her. Is sex education part of his curriculum? Was it a topic in a book? Did a student make a joke and he jokingly agreed to it. Iv think if he was that had he'd have every student in the class reporting him by now not just u and ur friends. Heres my suggestion pay attention in class wear shirts appropriate for ur age and don't stay after if it isn't required I know young girls sometimes have an overactive imagination and tend to be promiscuous. Be a lady!!!!! Don't complain if you wear low shirts and someone looks, and I bet ur 80 something old neighbor notices too. I don't see u complaining about boys ur age staring, no I don't!! Its funny how ur click only has this experience and the rest of the school has no problem with the guy. So yeah I don't think ur overreacting, I think ur being a drama queen. Would u find it weird if a female teacher hugged ur friend or would u accuse her of being a lesbian haha nonetheless nobody should feel uncomfortable in class. I hope ub take my advice