Am I wrong for this?
Looks like the joke’s on them. You moved away and became successful with your life and they didn’t. They see this and now want to get back into your good graces again. They’re jealous of you. Don’t let them bring you down again. Stay away from them. Keep living well and showing off:)
Why am I always wrong?
I bet you are right a lot more than you think! Is someone telling you that you are always wrong? Life has a way of happening in ways we didn't expect or didn't want. Maybe these "wrong" decisions are actually God's way of steering you in to a better path. Chin up!!
Why do we do things we know are wrong?
We do things we know are wrong because-1) of our 'strong DESIRE/WANT to DO it.' 'Desire' is very powerful. It is a fuel for our ACTIONS. When we are so deeply submerged by our WANT/DESIRE we don't care and think less about the consequence and we even stop thinking and being aware of if what we are doing is right or wrong. My real life example- I lie to my parents for buying books other than educational book. That is- Novels, autobiographies,etc. I know lying is wrong but I lie because my 'I WANT TO READ THIS BOOK' is so strong that I can't see any other option than lying.2)We are afraid to face the consequences if we know its not something we want it to be like. Just like in point no 1, I gave you my real life example of lying. I 'EXPECT' my parents to understand to me that I love reading but they don't. Their thinking is different from mine, they think one should read only books related to one's education. Hence, I lie and I know its wrong.3) We are conditioned to take short-cut paths in our life and choose the easiest, simplest way to do anything. Cutting a tree is an easiest task but time taken by a tree to grow? It is hardest one, it takes many year.We know most of the things are wrong before we even do it and yet we do it because of our desires, wants, needs, and conditioning of our brain. I read one beautiful story on Quora- The lowly clerk was caught red handed for accepting bribe..Miles away, at home,his wife waited for her husband to bring the money for her daughter's cancer treatment.Some people may know the reason about why they are doing the wrong. Just like in this above story, consider it as an example. "Things are as they are. Looking out into it the universe at night, we make no comparisons between right and wrong stars, nor between well and badly arranged constellations. "-Alan Watts.Thanks for A2A Rahul Burman .
How do I not get angry? Are they wrong or am I wrong?
Hi there,It is important to controll your anger and not let it controll you. In terms if someone is right or wrong that is a matter of opinion. Its best to hear both sides of the argument before you pass judgment and try to understand the other person's point of view.I have written a course on anger management that has some great hints of what to doDo Your Thing
Which one is correct, "What did I do wrong?" or "What I did wrong"?
Neither you're not wrong, you're right
Am i wrong for sleeping with my ex's cousin?
me and my ex were together for 5 years. we broke up about a year ago but remained friends a few days ago i had sex with his cousin and we are liking each other alot. am i wrong for having feelings for him or is it ok. by the way the reason me and my ex broke up was he cheated with 2 girls.
Am I wrong for not wanting to give up my cat?
My husband and I are moving across country. He is already there as His mom was having some medical issues. We hav been planning to move there for over a year now to help out. Up until a couple weeks ago it was perfectly fine to bring my cats down but as soon as I purchased my plane ticket they are saying I can't have them. They have helped us get into a house that needs some repairs and I am planning to keep the cats there since they are no longer welcome at their house as we need to stay there until all the repairs are done. However I am now being told that I'm selfish and immature because I won't give up my cats especially after they helped us get a house. I love my cats and I know myself and I would be resentful towards my husband and his parents if I had to get rid of them, I am already a little resentful about it as they led me to believe it was ok for over a year and now they say it was a misunderstanding when it has been brought up multiple times.
Do you defend your spouse when they are wrong?
I find sometimes my wife is a little sensitive and gets offended by things that do not happen or she misinterprets...and when I try to explain them to her it always seems to come back to me not defending her. Consider the following examples: -at the movies, there was a slight technical issue and they had to rewind a couple of minutes of it. In the end we didnt miss anything, but it was an inconvenience. My wife wanted to speak to the manager to get free tickets but when they explained calmly their policy, she started being rude to him about it, and then was upset with me for not defending her -at family gatherings, my wife doesn't talk to anyone or participate in conversation unless directly asked and then after, she says my family hates her because they don't talk to her (yes, there has been drama between her and my family in the past) -my mom tries to be nice and polite (at least when I am around) when we are over at my family's house but my wife says she is being fake and doesn't actually like her -my family is moving and they asked for my help on the moving day. My wife says they should just hire movers and shouldn't expect me to help. When I say hiring movers is dumb as my parents have sons and I would love to help, she says I am choosing them over her and doesnt want me to go help So these are just some of things that I am talking about...the wife is number one without question, but how would you guys react in situations like these with your spouse/partner?
I lost a friend, was I wrong in this situation?
So we were hanging out for a few months, I’m 19 & they’re 21. I had issues going on and they came over and we’re there for me. I genuinely cared about them but one day they texted me asking if I could come by & we could do something because they were going through stuff with their family. I didn’t get back to them because I wasn’t okay mentally myself, how could I be there for someone when I am not even good myself?! I wasn’t being fake, and I told them this, & they blocked me. I have to put myself first &a if someone doesn’t like that then that’s their problem. What do you think??
Why do people get angry when they are told they are wrong?
Many people spend their lives thinking that reality doesn’t apply to them - that things are different simply because they wish it.When they’re told that they’re wrong, they don’t ask “why?”They get offended. And insecure. And rebel against the very nature of reality.They get frustrated by the fact that you’ve called their bluff.Unfortunately, many people don’t want to think. They don’t want to make mistakes, or grow, or learn the truth about the world. They just want you to leave them alone, to let them enjoy the false reality they’ve erected. When they do that, you’re better off not bothering with them. Just scram. It’s something they need to discover on their own.Of course, you might have done something that made them angry.So be sure to look at how you have approached the situation, and whether you are partially to blame. It doesn’t absolve them of responsibility for getting angry… but it might not be entirely their fault.Make sure you didn’t call them out in front of others. Make sure they’re actually wrong, don’t just tell them that because you have a different viewpoint. Ask them how they came to their conclusion, learn their thought process. If there’s a flaw, you can help them find it. They’ll be more likely to accept the feedback in this form (though its still difficult for most).And if they do get angry… ask them, “Why?”