Why are my friends so boy crazy?
All of my friends have boyfriends or some kind of guy in their life, except me. But they go crazy and start acting different and give up their life for a guy and I get ignored. I think it's stupid and I don't want to have to depend on a guy, but I feel left out because I don’t have a guy in my life. Is this normal? Is there anything I can do to meet guys?
I have gone crazy over my friends wife, and I can not stop thinking about her, how can I stop?
My friends wife is a very beautiful, intelligent woman that is a blast to be around, which is why he married her in the first place right? I have always looked at her from afar, but of course would never do anything to act on this because it is not right. One day I was using their PC, both of them were busy so I had some privacy. I was saving a file, and just to be nosy I check out their pictures, and then I discovered that she had many sexy, and even nude photos on there, so I sent them to myself. Now I am obsessed with her, it is hard to be around them without acting strange. I often masturbate looking at her photos, and even when I am with my girl, I just pretend she is her. I can not be the only guy who has ever gone through this, the whole "forbidden love fantasy". How can I go back to normal and stop dreaming of her before it kills my friendship?
My friend is acting so weird?
To clarify, I am a guy. My female friend has been acting like such a crazy b**ch recently (pardon the language). She acts so cold and aloof towards me sometimes which makes me think that she doesn't like me at all so I avoid her. But then I'll talk to her friends, and they say that she talks about me to them all the time in a positive light, like about what a good guy I am. Another time, she said how she couldn't really consider dating any guy that she knew already but then when she found out that I had a serious crush on a girl (which IS NOT her) she kept asking me over and over who it was. And she takes the p**s out of girls that I have been with in the past. So what the frick does she actually want? I just really don't understand the way that she's thinking. Any perspective or guidance would be greatly appreciated.
What is this song???? Please help. It goes: All my friends say, I started shouting doubles when you walked in.
It goes: "all my friends say i started shouting doubles when you walked in. All my friends say its kind wierd seeing you with him." (i think thats how it goes). (By the way, its a country song.)
I made my friend mad and I apologized right away but he won't forgive me and now he doesn't seem to care anymore. Is there anything else I can do to seek his forgiveness?
Dude here is the thing .Firstly stop chasing him.the only thing you can do now is to relax for a while and I know it hurts a lot when some one you care ignores you . So give him a little space in this context you reAlly have to give him some space and you should not irritate him more with text as he was not in mood to understand as he was hurt by some reason.Just let him know that whenever he needs you, you will be there no matter what and you are sorry for whatever deeds that you have done .I believe you can go to any extent to keep him happy.tell him that you won't disturb him and will wait for him to get his thing (for whiCh he is angry or moody or whatever that bothers him)done by his own.After that don't text him continuously as it is going to get worse if you do . So wait for the time to flow and heal his pain or emotion that he has.You will get your friend back definitely for sure but stop disturbing him .I have lost mine and never wanted anyone to feel the same emotion so just wait.everything is gonna be ok.Until then try to stay stronger
Are my friends being rude or am I just annoying?
They are being rude, a bit. Not so much when you jumped into the conversation, but it's definitely rude to invite someone to your house and then spend your time having a private Skype session with someone else. It is possible that Abby doesn't like you and is being a drama queen by making it into an issue with Kat and Elise. It's also possible that they're enjoying having a secret and acting like drama queens about something that has nothing to do with you. But it sucks to be excluded and have to wonder if you're being talked about. Kat and Elise are not being great friends when they put you in this situation repeatedly. My advice would be to keep your distance from Abby. If she is talking about you and trying to convince Kat and Elise how annoying you are, then it'll take her off-guard if you suddenly stop showing interest in her. Her comments to Kat and Elise will seem petty and mean when it's clear to them that you aren't giving Abby any reason to hate you. In the meantime, try to find ways where you can hang out with your two friends without Abby around. If you find time to hang out separately, there is no reason you and Abby should be forced to like each other or why Kat and Elise should be forced to choose between you two. I'd also recommend trying to meet some new people. Even if these girls aren't talking about you, they have excluded you a few times and it's possible that this will get worse over time (for any number of reasons - it doesn't necessarily mean you're the person who Abby hates). Even if you don't make friends easily, take a few steps to broaden your social circle: reconnect with an old friend, invite a new acquaintance to hang out, join a club that gets you outside of your school group, etc. You might even find that if you develop new friendships, your relationships with Kat and Elise (and maybe even Abby) improve because they won't feel like you're socially dependent on them anymore. So regardless of what is really going on, I don't think you can go wrong with trying to meet some new friends. Good luck.
How should I respond to friends who unnecessarily make fun of me? I really can't ignore them, as they are either my friends or fall in a friend circle. I sometimes try to fight back but I fail at their level of making fun.
There is a good chance they are doing it because they are insecure. If you want it to stop, use operant conditioning - basically, train them to stop. Here is how.1) figure out something you can say in retort that lets them know a) their comment didn't bother you and b) that it was pretty stupid.This can be - "thank you very much for that information" (in a deadpan voice) or "that was a mean thing to say" in a matter of fact tone of voice. I know someone who simply says the word "respect." and leaves it at that. As long as it is calm, not rude and lets them know what they just said wasn't ok with you, but that it didn't rile you up either.2) Practice saying this so that you can deliver the line/retort in as calm and matter of fact way as possible. You aren't mad at them, it just isn't something they should continue doing or saying.3) practice making eye contact when you deliver the line. If you are incapable of making eye contact, look above their head or at their ear.4) Whenever they say something mean or stupid, say your line, the same line. EVERYTIME! No exceptions. They will most likely be confused at first and then they will try to make fun of you for actually responding in a way they don't like. This is their attempt to get you to go back to the old way of responding, which they clearly liked. Don't go back. Continue as if you are a broken record and repeat until they stop. It is the consistency of your response that will get them to stop. If you sometimes do this and sometimes don't you will be variably reinforcing them and that will cause them to get worse and escalate their behavior. (The dynamic you are triggering by doing this btw is called an extinction burst).5) Whenever they behave respectfully and nice, smile, talk and engage with them and basically positively reinforce their good behavior.Hope this helps. If you want to learn more check out http://thebullyvaccine.com
Why does my guy friend act so weird around me?
Because there might be a very tiny possibility that he doesnt wants to be just friend. Thats the most common one. Maybe he likes you in a different way but is unable to express himself or his feelings. This might be because of him being afraid of losing you as a friend as well in an attempt to go for something more. Or he might feel insecure of himself. In cases like this the friendzoned guy starts to feel that he doesnt deserve the girl and thats because she doesnt feel the same way as he does. Its a thing with guys(good guys) . They are practically dumb. They are afraid of everything. Specially expressing themselves.Though their can be other reasons as well like he doesnt like your attitude towards certain things or the guy you are dating or maybe somehow unknowingly you have hurt his feelings and he is expecting you to realise that. Or are you sure you did not forget his birthday.See just because he is a guy doesnt mean he has got no feelings. Feelings which you are not able to understand. So the best solution for you right now is close the app and go to your contact list .. scroll down his number. Give him a call and when he picks up talk to him. Ask him what the hell dude. Whats your problem.I really hope you get your answer amd things be like they were.. all the best..