Please read and help....guy friend flipped me off!! What the....???
Today a guy (supposedly) "friend" of mine who has been acting weird lately (ignoring me one sec and talking the next) flipped me off at school. I asked him why he did it later and he said, "I waved!" but he DIDN'T. he flipped me off. i couldn't believe him. and in front of everyone too. so i was walking away and he hit me. so i said, "i'm not your friend anymore". he goes, "ok!" then when i'm walking with my friend he jumps out at me and pushes me. then walks away. he's 15!! i'm 14. i don't want to be his friend, but i like his best friend. and his best friend has no friends except this weirdo flipping off guy. p.s. i met bothh guys a month ago. p.p.s if you check my earliest question (the real long one!) it's the same freaky guy, M. summary: he used to be a new kid & my friend, now he sorta ignores me. his best friend (my crush) WAS nice but lately has been ignoring me too. M keeps saying i like his best friend. teases me bout that. i dunno what to do??
I am depressed so why won't my friends help me?
It's not that they don't understand...it's just that no one likes hanging around with someone who is depressed all the time. It's depressing...a real downer. If they are truly your friends then they have probably tried to help you to cheer up. If they tried and failed they have probably just given up and decided that you're no fun to be around and so they have decided to avoid you, at least until you get over your funk. Put yourself in their shoes. If you hung around with someone who was depressed all the time would you want to continue being with that person? I wouldn't. It's a real downer. Either get professional help or stop acting like a wet blanket around your friends. If you want people to like you then you need to develop an upbeat, positive attitude.
Is she really a friend to me?? serious answers please....?
my so called "friend" of 3 years is cool to talk to via phone, email, however she never hangs out w/ me..but she is always in need and i know they were valid reasons, so i helped her, but im investigating if she is just using me , & now ive found that she is, b/c this memorial day i invited her over & the entire day she kept calling and had me waiting thinking she was coming over my house & never showed up,not the 1st , but today she emails me like nothing happened telling me about her birthday event & yet never invited me to hang out, nor did she mention anything about not showing up. we are both adults here, why is she acting like we are in high school? im feeling as if im her pen pal or something and that's not what im looking for, if she doesnt view me as a friend dont you think she should tell me? how should i tell her how i feel w/ out sounding like a control freak, i never once wanted to tell her what to do, but how to be a friend is what she needs to know...help please..
I asked my friend for help but he's ignoring me. What does that mean?
This means it is time for you to find new friends.Regardless of what kind of help you have asked him. He owes you an answer. He should either let you know if can help you or refuse citing his reasons. Ignoring you is something unethical and cowardly and chances are , in the future, he might ditch you again when a bad situation arises in your life. We are humans and as humans we go through ups and downs at various stages in our lives. It is during these situations we realize who our friends are. During your success, you would be having a lot of people who would be willing to be your buds. The same cannot be said about failures. That is when the trash in your ‘friend circle’ gets cleaned up and you get to see people like your so called ‘friend’ who is ignoring you as of now. Look, if he is a friend and he cannot help you, he should say it out loud and still offer you words of encouragement and wish you well. You could still be kind to people when you cannot help them .Make new friends, regardless of what their age, race, class or gender is. If you cannot make new friends, make books and spiritual leaders your friends. Read, go online, listen, listen to what successful people or motivators have to say, read books of great minds. You will be at peace. I really hope your current situation gets better without your ‘friend’s’ help, maybe you could do it yourself now? or think of new ideas to resolve it?. Good luck, my friend.
My friends did a luigi board.. and it mentioned me! PLEAS HELP!?
It's a Ouija board, not a luigi board, and it's JUST A GAME! Your friends were messing with you and it appears they were successful. Brush it off ... this board game is easily manipulated and doesn't mean anything. Remember ... you are what you attract, so if you remain freaked out and scared, those types of energies will be projected into your life. If you forget about it and focus on positive energy, that's what you'll have in your life. You'll be okay!!!
A Friend at school is annoying and follows me everywhere!!! HELP!?
A Friend at school is annoying and follows me everywhere!!! His the most annoying friend i ever had and i dont want him to follow me around the school, cos his soooo embarssing. he makes lame jokes which arnt really funny and he dosent let me talk to my other friends since his talking about some random lame jokes which i dont evan care, im loosing friends cos of this looser. its like as if im the only friend to him, cos he only talks to me and i dont wana talk to him cos i hate him is there anyway to get this freak out of my life i dont want to tease him or make him upset, ive tried ignoring him for a week but he still talks to me and stuff, its really annoying and pisses me off sooo bad, the other people in my school think that we're best friends now cos he only talks to me. PLEASE HELP ME!! PLEASE!!!! I HATE THIS FREAK!!!!