What is a contradictory personality?
We all are contradictory at some point. As humans, that is expected. We have complex emotions and thought processes which can be logical or irrational. A person who is seemingly good-natured but turbulent at home is considered contradictory. Yet it is normal because we all present a facade in society but in the comfort of our homes, we're allowed more freedom of expression.
Do you ever feel like you have a contradictory personality?
I don't feel like I have a contradictory personality, because I know that I do.*introspection on*I am judgmental and open-minded at the same time. There are some qualities I really dislike in people and I form assumptions of others pretty quickly, however these are not solid opinions and I think ((that doesn't mean it's obviously true though)) they can be changed really easily, the person just has to prove that my preconceived notions are wrong. However sometimes I really don't like the automatic thoughts I have about other people because I know these things are not based on facts and evidence but on my own personal irrational prejudices (for instance, is someone talks a lot about things I consider meaningless I tend to automatically think they are not very smart. I also tend to feel like introverts are smarter than extroverts though I know this isn’t true.) When this occurs the next thing that happens is usually this:But in general I am tolerant because I can accept and understand most people, however I can be seen as intolerant too because I cannot cooperate well with others sometimes. I can be seen as open minded because I usually strive to see all sides of an issue and I’m aware that I’m not infallible and I might be biased, but I’m still attached to some of my opinions. I like but dislike people at the same time, I feel inferior to others but I feel superior as well. I can be really shy and insecure but also highly confident and uninhibited depending on the situation, I like and dislike myself at the same time. A part of me is highly caring and compassionate and supportive, but the other part just doesn’t give a fuck. Productivity and self-improvement are exceedingly important things to me, but I engage in thinking about meaningless stuff too often, and I don’t feel like I’m actually improving. I value logic over emotions, but sometimes I can be really emotional. I feel like I’m smart but I think I am unintelligent. I am serious and mature but also childlike and goofy. Sometimes I can express my thoughts really eloquently in speech, but sometimes I just can’t put my ideas into words . Sometimes I have great debates with people when speaking to each other, but sometimes I say “do you mind if I write it down in a text later? It would make more sense if I explained it through writing”. So yes, I kind of identify as a walking contradiction.
How do you reconcile contradictory aspects of your personality?
Acceptance, for starters. “Reconcile” could mean one aspect or the other is wrong, which isn’t a premise I’m eager to buy.In addition I might prod evolutionary psychology for insight.See, the truth is we’re a species still built for a paleolithic (or earlier, probably) lifestyle, meaning we’ve evolved to deal with a world far different from the one in which we live. Yet this is the world we live in, the one wherein I can yammer on Quora about things I’m utterly ignorant of.Thus, I’m programmed to think like a dude who has to do things I don’t want to do, would never do, couldn’t ever do, such as, possibly, kill another dude over a mate. But at the same time I feel guilty when hatred burns in my core upon watching that one guy at the gym hit on that girl I’ve never talked to. Get it?Anyway, we’re loaded with such contradictions, given that societal norms and technology, among other factors, have evolved faster than our brains. It’s no good beating oneself up over stuff we have little initial control over. The key is recognizing the contradictions and evaluating them for the future.Of course, this could be a cop-out.
What do you call a person that contradicts himself?
A hypocrite.Cambridge[1] dictionary defines ‘hypocrite’ as, “someone who says that they have particular moral beliefs but behaves in a way that shows these are not sincere”An example[2] of a hypocrite is a person who says they care about the environment, but are constantly littering.Footnotes[1] hypocrite Meaning in the Cambridge English Dictionary[2] Hypocrite dictionary definition | hypocrite defined
Is it contradictory that a nihilist person seek a hobby or hobbies to increase his satisfaction from life?
Nihilists love board games. You should try scrabble. I am in a nihilist scrabble club. We all hate it and find it terribly boring. It's awesome!
My 2 main personality traits are contradictory?
my general personality is weird on 1 hand i hate people ive grown up really cynical angry and honestly just unsocial to the point where excluding 1 friend all my other friends being around them feels like baby sitting where i gotta put on a happy act till i can find a excuse to leave* though nobody but family and 1 friend knows this as far as other people are concerned im always happy and glad to see them witch is very wrong ... on the other hand i have this weird hero complex that makes me want to help everybody that needs it and when i cant i lose sleep over it ..like how i just saw someone i have not seen since high school ended and they are not doing so good ..knowing that ruined my week since its been bothering me not being able to do anything or at least keep people from trouble .. so yeah its weird im always cynical and irritated with people in general to the point il hide to avoid my friends yet i have a weird ..urge to protect / help others a lot is it normal to have such polar opposites as my main personality traits?
If your chart has contradictory aspects, how do you make sense of the two conflicting descriptions?
like sun square moon, and sun trine venus which description do you prioritize more? how much importance do you give the square? what if the description of both placement contradict each other so much, you have no idea which descirption to follow? I understand stars impel, not compel. but I get frustrated with these contradictory placements, is there a site that looks into mixed aspects that contradict each and give an accurate interpretation of the mixed placements?