I’m dating a married woman. Will she leave her husband for me?
I’m dating a married woman and her and her husband have an open marriage. It was supposed to be just something fun and casual but we fell in love. She keeps saying that she’s planning on leaving her husband but she’s not ready and needs more time. She tried to leave him once but ended up going back to him. He’s an emotional abuser and treats her like crap; for those of you who are thinking home wrecker. She’s in an abusive marriage. I’ve asked her to go talk to someone and she keeps saying that she will but we will see. We have been seeing each other for a month. I’ve tried to break it off a couple of times and she begged me not to and asked me to be patient with her. Am I wasting time? Should I just move on??
Do married men leave their wives?
I agree with you. I don't see any reason why men would leave their wives for a "gf". Why would he need to? He already has the best of both worlds. Furthermore, why would any woman want a man who would cheat with her on his wife? When she becomes wife what will keep him from cheating on her? Nothing, that's what. Honestly, I think any woman who is convinced that her "man" will leave his wife for her is deluded in at least one way--first of all--she SETTLES for him. Who wants to share? Besides, if she is so "important" to him, why is he still married? That's the other lie--that she is important enough for him to leave his wife. The other lie is that all men cheat--cuz they don't. I am convinced that if a man is truly unhappy in his marriage--if he is worth having at all--he will wait until he is DIVORCED before he gets involved with anyone else. A guy who will get involved before he is "official" is not trustworthy.
Am I a bad person if i leave her?
Am i a bad person for wanting to break up with my GF. i have been with her for 3 months.She is almost everything i was looking for.We never fight,We have fun when we go out and all that stuff friends do.she was my best friend before being my girlfriend. She is always talking about us getting married and having kids and living together,but i know deep in my hearth that she is not the one that i will married.I feel trap because i don't want to break her hearth if i leave her but if i don't i will be fooling my self. I'm I a bad person if i break up with her for those reason? Or should i stay with her? what should i do?
My wife used to be fun and exciting but since we got married she has stopped trying. How do I get her back?
You can bet she doesn't enjoy being the person you have just described. Her world, has turned dark, meaningless and she has no idea why! I don't know how long she has been experiencing this "lost life"... but I would wager to say, you are probably in for a long haul. Thank God your such a caring and understand person, that loves "HER". I realize how hard it is on you. But you sound like your made of really strong stuff, so be patient. When a person is mentally sick, (and I don't mean she is crazy) they hurt just as bad as someone that is physcially sick. I really don't have a solution for you, but I think maybe I can shed a little light on what she is feeling. First off, for her not to want to come out of the bedroom, is in equavlent to a normal person taking on a mountain climb, everyday. It takes that much mental power for her to do normal things that is a breeze for normal people. I am sure she feels like her life is so complicated and not much of one, because of the quality of it right now. The best example I can tell you, it is in comparsion to a person being buried alive. Her mind and body still works, but she is mentally confined. Meds can help to a certain extent, and counciling wouldn't hurt, but to get her to go, would probably be next to impossible. This sort of mental "shut down" usually just has to run its course like a virus. Infact, the research I have done on this, tells me that she probably has a physical virus, and if you know virus's you know you have to let them run their course. She is caught between worlds actually. And the worst part is, she doesn't even have an idea what has happened for her to of gone from a free loving spirit, to a mentally and physically challenged disorder. Always include her in family things, but never get upset when or if she declines. Make sure the kids, each one of them, goes in to her and talks to her daily. You keep being the great person you are and allow her the time it takes to heal. Lean on God, and ask for his help and understanding. God knew what he was doing when he sent you to her! He knew it had to be a very special man, and you my friend are the chosen. Time and God will see you thru this. Bless all your family.
Disciplining a 2.5 year old ???????
When my Daughter was 2, She would do the same thing. I would put her in one of the cart buggys with the fun seats, our store has fake cars attached to the carts so they can ride along, and if she would throw fits at the store, i would give her one warning, and if she didnt adhere to that, i would pick her up and put her in the seat Right in front of me, and push all the groceries away. my daughter thought of going to the store as, getting a free cookie and i told her if she were good i would get her a cookier from the bakery, but the moment she blows it she blows it, as for the fits, i tell her, we are leaving either way, and explain to her that her throwing a fit will mean a longer time until she comes back. For a whoile i had a problem with my son, when he wanted something and i said no, he would Yell and screram that i was trying to kidnap him when i would move him to the cart. at that extremity. Dont give er ANYTHING she wants until she calms down, when she gets home, its a time out in the corner. Tell her that if she is having that much fun, you can make it longer, when she giggles or touches something she shouldnt, thats another WHOLE MINUTE MORE. mmake sure that a timeout is somewhere she cant look around o rhave fun with. My time out is a corner and a chair, if i catch her turning around from the corner i add 30 seconds, Hop it helps, and also, if your daughter wont leave the Buggy, try by not putting her in it, and letting her Walk like a big girl if she holds the cart. engage her by letting her bring you the oreos from the next shelf over, or grabbing the Jelly, if you Grab The Peanut Butter (Same Aisle.) My Son LOVES to help carry the light groceries, as i will get him a cookie sample if he does/
My girlfriend makes fun of me for wearing pantyhose,?
My girlfriend makes fun of me for wearing pantyhose, and is ready to leave me unless I stop I started skiing at age 12 then started again at 20. I started having leg cramps and needed new equipment because the rental equipment never fit right. When I was being fitted for new boots I told the woman fitting my boots that I was having leg cramps. She instructed me that the new boots should help. Then she said to me the skiing secret was to wear support hose She told me a few brands to try, and not to tell my friends because they would make fun of me. Now I Wear them all the time because they feel so good What should I Do