My best friend is friends with my enemy?
Alright, sorry, I don't take on my friends burdens especially when it comes to other people. If one of my friends doesn't like someone doesn't mean I don't like them. In fact my naturalness on this subject has allowed me to remain friends with everyone in fights, divorces, separation, etc.. It has allowed me to be a better friend. And in many cases helped me to mend broken relationships. I think maybe part of your problem is that you might feel that when they are together they gossip about you or something like that. If you have a good friend then this is not the case, & you shouldn't worry about it. You can't tell someone who they can & can't be friends with. Actually I'm in a similar situation right now, with one of my best friends is good friends with a girl I no longer care to associate with. I have my own reasons for this, but I don't expect my good friend to stop her association because of those reasons in fact I'd be very upset with her if she did. Your problems with another person aren't anyone else’s problems but your own. You just have to accept that, know that your friend is not doing this to hurt you, and be grateful that she cares enough to be both of your friends, sounds like a very good friend. Maybe she can even mend your broken relationship. Take Care & Good Luck!
My best friend is best friends with my enemy?
I cant take it anymore. Look Im usually not a jealous person, but my so called best friend is really good friends with my ex-best friend. Look it used to be the three of us best friends. It was Maria, Rebecca (me), and Chantel. Me and Maria got into a huge fight, and now we hate each other. Now i became a lot closer with chantel, and maria is still friends with chantel too. I always go crazy when i see them hanging out, cuz i feel like maria is trying to steal chantel from me. I mean i just wana talk to chantel one say and say: "Look, you cant be friends with the both of us, just choose who you want to be your best friend already". I never said this to chantel cuz i know that it is wrong, but its something that i have been urging to say for a really long time. I just always have this feeling that chantel lieks maria better than me.. help me get rid of this bad feeling and this jealousy, because i know that if it doesnt go away, i will probably get into a fight with chantel over it, and then lose her as a friend.
My Best Friend is Friends With My Enemy!?
Me and 'Rinny' met in 7th grade. We became really close, and we consider each other to be sisters. We became friends with 'Mai', another girl who I intruduced into the 'group' in 9th grade. The three of us became like sisters. Then, in 12th grade, Mai decided to leave us because of a really stupid reason. She didn't simply leave, and caused considerable damage to me and my family. I was really emotional, and attempted suicide a few times (I was already an emotional wreck from school work and all that jazz). Because my sister just stabbed me in the back, I got really depressed. Rinny stayed my friend. However, I just realized now that Rinny had a secret friendship with Mai, despite knowing - and even SEEING - what she did to me. After everything I did for Rinny, helping her fight all her battles, and ending friendships with people who hurt her. She is still friends with the person who hurt me most. I asked her, and she said that if I hadn't found this out, she would have continued the secret friendship with my enemy. I said I didn't want to be her friend if she was friends with Mai, and she said she'd end it. Rinny wouldn't let me stop being friends with her. She is probably gonna keep the secret friendship with Mai, knowing how much it'll hurt me. She thinks that what she's doing is helping me and Mai become friends again. However, I have tried MANY times to be Mai's friend, and she has shot me down every single time. Plus, she's not doing anything to help us be friends again, so that's another lie. She also knows (from experience) that its better for us to be apart for a while. Not to mention, Mai doesn't care about anyone but herself. This has been proven. I just thought Rinny was a loyal friend. But she's freinds with the one person who's hurt me the most. It really hurts. Everyone I talk to just shoots me down , and tells me that I should ignore it. I can't do that. I'm an insecure little ****, and she knows that. She knows that I can't handle her betraying me. But she does it anyways. She says I mean a lot to her, she says she'd do anything for me....but its all a lie. I don't know what to do anymore. I want to end my friendship with Rinny, but she won't let me. If I try to be Mai's friend, Mai won't let me. I just want a best friend who will stand by me, and won't be friends with the people who hurt her sisters!
My best friend is friends with my enemy...crap?
Long story short... I love my best friend to bits. We even consider ourselves sisters! But, I rarely even see/talk to her since we don't take any classes together. Now she is friends with my #1 enemy. My enemy is jealous and bitter that Im realllly close with her ex boyfriend. It's so stupid... He is like my brother! I would never ever be interested in him. But anyways, she started to spread nasty rumors about me and we were about to fight. While this is going on, my best friend was like don't worry about her. But I do! I hate seeing them walk around the hallways laughing and what not... I think that my enemy is replacing my spot...since me and my best friend are drifting apart I understand that I'm being selfish...and yes...my best friend can be friends with whoever I'm just upset at the whole situation... So my questions are: 1) why am I so upset? 2) do I have any right to be upset? 3) what should I do? Should I give up on our friendship and let my enemy win? Or should I stick it out and continue to be miserable? Damn, im in such a dilemma.
My best friend is friends with my worst enemy?
One of my best friends is friends with my worst enemy. My enemy called my brother with a learning disability many bad offensive names and my best friend knows about this but still wants to remain friends with me and my enemy. Now my enemy purposely is trying to interfere with my friendship by trying to tag along when we hang out. I've talked to my enemy about this and she said she wants to make my life a living hell. Thankfully at the end of the school year she is moving to the other side of the country. But what should I do.
Best friend is friends with the enemy? Should I be mad?
So I have a best friend, probably like any other girl. We've been best friends for 4 years. I stayed up really late last night so I didn't wake up till about 6pm haha. I wake up and I have two missed calls from her and a text just saying hey. I text her back and tell her I lost my phone but I found it now (she always gives me crap about staying up late and waking up late though I don't do it often). She was like oh okay we were suppose to hang out today. I said omg I forgot, because I really did. She said yeah me too until I just remembered now. I asked why she called and she said she was gonna see what I was doing today and I said oh okay cool. Then she told me how she went tubing with lets just call her A and a couple of other ppl that she is friends with. And I said oh. cool. o_o. The girl she hung out with, my ex boyfriend cheated on me with, she always gives me dirty looks and one time I was walking in the hallway and she shoved me. She tells people she hates me all the time. When shouldn't I be the one that hates her??? I have done nothing to her. Obviously I do not like the girl, and neither do any of my friends for what she did and still does. My best friend went to go hang out with her today, she's one of the people who hated her the most. When a week earlier I was defending her from girls, that my friend and the girls boyfriend did "stuff". I defended her and almost got beat up, even though she might have not been right. If I went and hung out with those girls who actually didn't even do anything to her she would flip **** and probably never talk to me ever again. So why is she doing this to me? Then acting like she's too cool for me? The other week we snuck out and we didn't have any place to stay so we stayed at her friends house to happens to be a guy. I had to friken sleep on the friken floor why they made out/ did stuff and I could hear them moaning. What kind of a friend does that to another friend? I mean seriously WTF!? Anyways, do I have a right to be mad about this or am I over reacting?
My boyfriend is best friends with my enemy what should I do?
A few summers ago, me and my used to be best friend (enemy) got into a fight and my boyfriend is best friends with him. Whenever my enemy is around us I feel awkward and tense. I haven t told my boyfriend he s my enemy because I don t want to upset him or ruin their friendship. I just really don t know what to do in this kind of situation and need help..
How do I act when my friend is friends with my enemy?
Your friend can be friends with whoever they want. You either deal with it by being civil in their presence ( until your enemy is not), or avoid the situation by not attending the same events.If your enemy chooses to deal with it you may end up putting your differences behind you for your friends sake. Either that, or they will be a dickhead first and you are well within your right to retaliate. However, If you are a dick from the get go, then your friend is more likely to side with your enemy; since they aren’t the ones making the situation difficult.I would suggest NOT avoiding the same events. If you do, then you are effectively trying to emotionally blackmail your friend into following suit. This won’t work; you will lose your friend over it
My best friend is becoming best friends with my enemy.?
So I had this friend of mine who I used to get along with. We were kinda good friends but overall, he had a really cocky and pretentious personality. Over the years he started to become condescending and disrespectful towards me and would constantly insult and put me down. I started to doubt his friendship. Whenever he went too far, I would stop talking to him and eventually he would kinda apologize and treat me like a human again but within two weeks, he d go back and start again in an endless cycle. After about a year of this crap I finally had it and stopped being his friend as I knew he d never stop. However, my best friend who is also friends with him seems to not care about this. When I told him all The things he did, all he ever said was "he never did anything to me" and that pisses me off. I haven t really expressed my annoyance but this school year they ve been hanging out more and my friend seems to almost prefer him over me and its ruined my year. I can t believe that my "best friend" doesn t care even when I ve helped him with his probelems with other people all the time. My friend is so ignorant that he even talks about him to me as if everything is all good. It s like he s choosing to ignore the fact that kid bullied me. How should I deal with this? Is my friend a true friend?