I have a friend, and we got into a fight and we stopped talking. I miss her very much, but I don't know if she wants to talk with me again. What should I do?
Same thing happened to me. I made a joke and she just stopped talking to me. May be she felt bad. So i thought i should apologise to her. So i called her, but she being too stubborn didnt pick up my calls. Told me that she is going to sleep and i should text her.I replied that I only need 2 minutes, she still replied to text her, she told me that "Cooler chal raha hain, awaz nahi aayegi" (which according to everyone is just bullshit...what type of cooler would make such a noise that you cant even talk on phone) Still i texted her... And she was online the whole time but didn't even read the texts and then finally I told her "Text karne to bolti hain, reply to deti nahi hain.."She was still online, didnt read the texs and then the next day just gave a reply that she slept...nthg else.. I mean we were so good friends, who would behave in such a way with a friend..Now when we see each other in office, we just ignore each other...act like we dont exist for each other... I really miss the talks I had with her, we were a great team, helping and motivating each other in time of need.All my friends now tell me to let her go as she doesnt need me, she is happy without me...but i dont know the truth..I cant lose a friend like her...Now i dont know what should i do..i have this big interview and her motivating words will definetly make my day...but I dont think she will ever talk to me. :(What u should know is she really worth all the trouble..? Does she always care about you when you need it? Or she only comes to you in need? People will always tell you that ego will ruin a friendship, but what u should know is never ruin your self respect for someone who isn't worth it...if she is worth it...then go and talk to her...she will talk to u..apologise to her..
I have a problem with my best friend and I need and advice?
of course he is on her side, he loves her! If she ends up being the woman he marries, would it be weird then that he chose her over his best-friend? No, of course not. Put yourself in his shoes. He loves this woman and he cares about her feelings. It sounds to me as if your main problem with her is that she is with him. Maybe deep down this is more than friendship for you? Either way, his priorities are in the right place. My question is, are yours? A true best-friend gets it and doesn't judge and aims to get along with the significant other. She may have "started" it but you didn't have to "finish" it. If everything she does is under your scrutiny and judgment than she is going to always be on the defense when you are around. You also have to consider that you are an important person in his life and she may feel uncertain what your history is together. If there was a romantic past between you, it makes it hard to be around someone you know was very intimate with your current love interest. I say, be a best-friend and give him some space. The best thing about besties is you can go weeks without talking and pick right back up where you left off. He will reach out to you eventually and when he does, don't judge him for being in love and putting them first. If you keep pushing the "I should be more important" or the "she started it" buttons you are likely to lose his friendship altogether and if he's that important of a friend you wouldn't want that to happen.
What should I do? I know it is long.But please read, i need the help :)?
So here is my problem, thanks in advance for reading cause i know it is alot.And i seriously I dont know what to do. My friend and i have been best buddies for a while now.I have told her stuff i wouldn't even think of telling anyone else and vice versa. I trust her with my life. Lately i have noticed a few things about her, no matter what she never stays single. (she told me she has alwasy been use to having someone there, and she likes having someone there.There fore she wont go longer than a week without a boyfriend.) The only reason this bothers me and her friends is because things go wrong in the first couple of weeks and she winds us up asking us what she should do. We have told her stuff like 'this is what happens when you race into relationships and dont know the guy' however the same thing happens with the next relationship.It doesn't get through to her.Not to mention 90% of the guys are drop kicks and are in it for one thing. She quiet often knows this but likes to try and make it work.Therefore hides the truth. I have also noticed, she uses guys to make them feel jealous about other guys, so they spend more time trying to please her. For example when she will say something like 'Oh this guy is texting me, i might go see him tonight he is really nice ect ect' she does that kinda stuff everytime! Annoys the hell out of me. My other mates have told me she does it to them as well. As much as i love this girl, some times i feel like im not helping her at all.Because it just doenst work. She is addicted to drama and cant go with out being in a relationship. I tried ignoring her for a couple of days about a month ago, just to see how it went.But she continusly text me and tried to call telling me how sad she is, and i was everything to her yadda yadda yadda. I am thinking of doing it again, because in all seriousness i am the only one she can really talk to about anything, im the only one that will listen really.I know it will be really hard to do, and it will eat me up inside but i think i can do it. So here is the question. Do you think this is a good idea, now that you know what she is like? Will it prove anything? Will it make a difference? Thank you for even reading that cause i know it is proablly one of the most longest things you have read on here hahaha.
I had a fight with my best friend a few months ago. We haven't talk after that, I have tried to talk to her but she rejects me. We both had our birthdays yesterday, she wished me a happy birthday, but she still isn't talking to me. What should I do?
I had a best friend who I'd known for about 7 years. She was someone very dear to me, close enough for me to call her my human diary.We were going through a rough patch for a while now. And I'd clearly expressed her importance in my life though during this period. But one fine day, suddenly she snaps and it was clear that we're done. We stopped talking. Days became weeks and even months. She's a Virgo, her birthday comes before mine. I had to decide whether to wish or not, because wishing would mean that I still give a fuck(which I'm not really into), but I decided to wish her very non-chalantly and pretty late in the day by a simple “HBD”. Hoping it'd light a spark but nothing happened other than receiving an equally bland “thanks”.Then it was my birthday, late into the year, I received a call I'd nearly expected, it was from her. She has a habit of wishing people by calling them rather than texting. I pick up, after the wishing, she continues by a “sorry”, we talk a bit, reconciling, getting the vibe again. It has all worked out now, we're good friends again, supporting each other like usual, but obviously things have changed. Maybe that's how life works.But it all started because I let her know that she is an integral part of my life, and this butterflied to make her understand our shortcomings and make an effort to get back an important bond.So tell her what she means to you and give her some time. Things will fall into the right place.
How much should i sell friendship bracelets for?
Ok so i maje friendship bracelets and at school people just keep on asking me if i can make them a friendship bracelet... But the problem is that i dont have enough money to make them bracelets and buy the string, and it also takes a long time to make... So i was thinking about selling them... But i dont know how much to sell them for.. So can you please give me some suggestions on how much to sell them for.. Thanks :)
Haven't felt this sad in a long time?
2013 just isn't my year. I mean, in a social aspect, life is great. I graduated high school, got accepted to nursing school, started a job on salary. It's my family and friends that are really getting to me. It's a long story but my brother got a girl pregnant and they had the baby and their married now (their both very young). Well now no one even notices me anymore. No one went to my graduation, at my birthday they all sat around and talked about her baby. Not a word to me. My mom and I do not get along anymore. Everyday she puts me down and tells me Hailey (my brothers wife) was the daughter she never had. My best friend that I knew for years and years and years hooked up with my boyfriend. So I don't even have a close friend to turn to. I sent my dad a card (haven't seen or talked to him in two years) and poured out my feelings and he didn't even acknowledge it. I feel so unwanted and like no one would care if I disappeared. I'd be lying if I said I didn't feel a little suicidal (I have depression). I'm very lonely and no one cares about me anymore. They may, but they have a funny way of showing it. I'm overwhelmed and my heart just hurts. I'm sorry for it being so long I just need someone. Thank you.
How long does it take to make a best friend?
And is it rare to make a best friend? I really need one, I haven't had a true best friend yet and is high school too late to make one? (I'm going to high school in the fall) And I have had terrible luck with friends, plus I'm an only child so I'm really alone. Please help?
Is it okay for my girlfriend to have a male best friend?
It all depends with your girlfriend. What kind of a person is she? If she has many guy friends and doesn't fear telling you about them, especially the ones who hit on her, then it may be OK.But if she has few guy friends, and doesn't tell you about them, that is a red light. If she has many guy friends it means she knows how to handle herself around guys. She knows boundaries. If she has few guy friends, it means she doesn't really know that much about guys, and one of them may just sweep her off her feet.My best friend is a girl who has a bf she loves. Normally we talk about almost everything. But when it comes to her rship, she changes the subject. We can only talk lightly on it. She doesn't even tell me about her rship problems. She sorts them out with her bf. She also refuses to flirt with me, lol. If I initiate it, she laughs and either leaves me on read or changes the subject. She her boundaries.She has many many guy friends. She's overly friendly and knows how to handle herself around them. Even those who hit on her, she knows how to refuse, and they still remain friends.So, yes she can have a male best friend. But you need to be confident that she knows her boundaries and won't end up falling for him. And the amount of communication she makes with you and attention she gives you should be twice as much as what she gives him.Good luck.
My best friend is too clingy? (long question)?
I have a friend just like that. Like legitimately to the needle point like that. You have an advantage because you go to different schools so you need to play that out. If she says wanna hang or whats up tell her sorry i cant im busy. If she says with what tell her something that a) she wouldn't want to do or something she cant do. Start hanging out with other people and get more friends so you guys aren't so close.Say that you're busy or have other plans whenever the friend tries to get together with you. Don't make promises. However, don't always say no to her, say yes sometimes.Don't be too harsh! Try to drop subtle hint like "We always hang out". she will probably respond positively but respond with one word like sure or yeah. When she tries to tag along say " im so sorry" (emphasize on the so) " its sorta a thing thats just for me" and if she is smart she will understand. Keep all your personals hidden and when you take a shower lock the door to your room or/and the bathroom or take everything you need to the bathroom. Put things like your phone, ipod, letter and journal in your pillow case or under your matress. in your pants drawer. Maybe even taped to the bottom of a nightstand. With the same same job applications get an application and tell her you probably arent gonna apply... just drift lowly but be supportive time to time maybe once a week.