My sister's boyfriend is turning her against me and driving me insane, what the hell do I do?
My older sister and I have always been close. Recently though, my sister got her first boyfriend and at first he seemed like a nice enough guy. I was always protective of her so I've had a tendency of snooping around whenever I saw a guy getting close to her and since I'm kinda big for my age I guess I scared some away, but she always said it was fine cause she wasn't interested anyway. So this guy, after a couple of weeks of dating, went from ok to complete douchebag toward me and only me. From what I can see he treats her well but he gets insanely jealous of me because I get along so well with her. Recently he started dropping comments about how he's banging her every night and going into detail just to annoy me, he even follows me if I try to leave just to make sure I hear about all the things they do. My sister hears this sometimes and just laughs it off as him joking around and tells him to jokingly stop. But this was the start of it, now he constantly insults and belittles me every time she's not around or in ways she can't see and whenever I try telling her about it she says that he's saying the same thing about me, that I hate him and constantly mess with him AND THEN TELLS ME TO STOP! Worst even was yesterday, where I tried to just avoid him, he grabbed me and I pushed him back hard enough that he fell down, he went to tell her and now she's pissed at me for assaulting him...WTF!? I so want to beat the hell out of him, but it'll only make it worse for me...
My boyfriend drives me insane, but he's so good in bed?
hes sooo hot and great at sex so i wanna keep him but when we're not doing it i wanna KILL him hes so arrogant and makes everything into some sarcastic remark and urghh i hate him
My boyfriend's mom is driving me insane?
I am 17, he is 18, and just a few days ago he graduated from high school. His mom has always been this controlling, but even after he graduated his mom still needs to approve when he can come over even though he shouldn't have to. It is just the two of them, and his mom seems to treat him like the husband in the way she makes him go to her office parties or do things such as clean out the garage. I understand that its normal for kids to do chores at home, but the things she has him do are more than just, say, cleaning the dishes, and again, even though he is 18 and doesnt need her approval to come over she freaks out if he comes over without asking her and she lets him come over maybe 2 times a week and only for a few hours. If we want to do something during the day for more than just a few hours she needs two weeks' notice so she can see if he "deserves to go out". I have talked to him about it many times, and I have expressed how because of it Im not happy, but he refuses to do anything about it and instead says its fair because he still lives in her house (even though her control is completely inappropriate). I dont know what to do, his mom is driving me crazy. I am going through hard times as it is, and because of his mom not letting him have any freedom he can't be there for me like i need him to (or even understand that its his mom causing some of my stress). Im at a complete loss. Please help
What to say to a boyfriend who drives fast?
like he drives fast and he got pulled over for it 2 times this week. like i dunt know what to say either b on his side or tell him to slow down ...i dunt know so far he has 2 tickets.
My boyfriend doesn't help around the house and it's driving me insane. Please help?
In the beginning of our relationship, I moved out of my dads house because of an argument and I ended up staying at my boyfriends house. I helped out over there without complaining and doing the best I can do. My dad and I are a lot better now so I moved back into his house and my boyfriend is staying with us. I love that my boyfriend and I live together but he doesn't help me with the house work. If I ask him to do a simple thing like help me with the dishes or sweep the floor, he'll b***h and do it half a**. It gets to the point where I'll be like, "nevermind I got it because I don't want to deal with your bitching" and he'll walk off and watch tv or go to sleep and he'll ask why I'm mad. Or I'll let him b***h and I notice that he didn't do such a good job (fur still on the floor) and I need to do it all over again. I go to school full time and I also work almost full time. My boyfriend works full time but his job isn't as hard as mine. He can sit down and sleep at work while I need to stand up the whole time and deal with customers. I understand that he works overnights because I used to have that shift but he will sleep the whole day. All he does is sleep, eat and watch tv. He doesn't do anything to help me around the house. I cook for him, clean, wash his laundry and provide for him. Yeah he'll buy me food here and there but that's it. My dad doesn't ask for rent, all he asks is that he helps with the yard (whenever possible) and to try to find a better job and a car. I've told my boyfriend that so he knows what'll make my dad happy. He doesn't help with the yard. Wait, he helped once when he saw my dad doing it. He doesn't care about finding a better job (he's 35 and working at McDonalds....). His car is broken and we've been using my car for the past 6-7 months. He doesn't help much for gas either. I have 3 dogs at my house and yes, they shed fur. He's always complaining that fur gets in his eyes or in the food and drinks. Well, if he helped me more then there wouldn't be this problem. I love him and I want to be with him but idk how much more I can take. I would tell him to go back to his parent's house while I stay here but he'll take it as me breaking up with him. He's thought that before. I've talked to him nicely and I've also cried because I don't know what to do and he'll ask why I'm crying so I'll tell him but he doesn't change. Advice? Anyone?
My boyfriend still hangs out with his former crush and its driving me insane. Idk what to do. Any advice?
Well there's this girl named Rebecca, who he used to have a crush on, and he still hangs out with her. At first I didn't care that much, but as I came to like him more, I guess I became a bit more protective. See, I trust him, but the way I see it is that people can't control their feelings, and I'm afraid that if he continues to hang around with her, his feelings for her might come back. He sees her once a week at his church for youth group. Well the other day I was joking with him, and asked if he was cheating and he jokingly said that he's not but that he had a great time with Rebecca. I got a little upset but he quickly said he was joking and that he hadn't even seen her. Well the next day his friends showed me a picture of him and her. It wasn't anything bad, just them posing for a church play that they did, but he still lied about being with her. I was hurt and when I confronted him, he told me that he lied because he knows that I feel uncomfortable about the fact that they hang out. He also told me that he doesn't purposely seek her out, she just happens to be there on Sundays and that there is nothing going on between them. I gave him the silent treatment for a while, but he ended up getting really sick, and I felt bad so I apologized and made up. After a few days, I realized that I wasn't over it and now my bf is insisting that we talk about why she bothers me so much. I know he would never cheat, and he seemed genuinely sorry, but idk, I'm just so saddened by this. She seems like a great girl and I don't wanna ruin their friendship but I'm just so scared that he's gonna fall for her again. Advice?
My boyfriend's trust issues are driving me CRAZY?!!?
My boyfriend trust issues are driving me INSANE. He’s always accusing me of cheating, always asking me who I’m with, blowing me up constantly all the time. He even accused me of creeping around with my best friend (who happens to be a guy) and gotten into a fight with him. At first I thought it was cute how he’s over protective and get’s jealous sometimes but now it’s annoying. I never cheated him at ALL even when he has cheated on me in the past or made me upset so where all this is coming from I have no idea. I’m so close to just calling it quits but I do love him and it’s hard I don’t know what to do.
My boyfriend and I argue every day on every call. It’s driving me insane and I don’t know what to do anymore. What does this mean?
It means you both don’t know how to properly communicate, and honestly, that you may not have the things in common that you need to make a relationship last.It depends on what you are arguing about. Is it just little petty stuff? Then its a communication problem. Is it over larger broader viewpoints on life like religion or politics? It may be an unsolvable situation.If it’s the petty stuff, stop and really think about your part in any conversation. Are you looking for compromise? Because relationships are all about give and take when there is a disagreement. Are you going into the conversation hostile and argumentative? Make sure you’re not provoking a defensive or argumentative response by choosing your words carefully and making sure they are on track with resolution and compromise, not winning. The real win is the happy compromise that you both can live with.If you want the relationship to continue, then put in the work to save it. Do your part to defuse volatile conversations. Suggest compromises. Keep your tone in check even if the other person is losing their cool. If you keep your head, your boyfriend will begin to realize he’s the only one left arguing and will calm down too.Remember to do and say the nice things to each other like you used to do in the beginning of the relationship. Appreciate what you have. Most relationships die at the stage where both parties get too comfortable and take each other for granted. We slowly stop doing and saying all the endearing things we used to. We stop putting in as much effort. Don’t let it turn sour at that point if you want it to work in the long term.
Boyfriend twitches while asleep every few minutes! Driving me insane!?
Your boyfriend could possibly have RLS better known as restless leg syndrome. This could be causing a rhythmic twitching or bouncing of the legs or be on a much larger scale of full body jerking. This may also be diagnosed as periodic limb movement syndrome/disorder (PLMS or PLMD) in which case other parts of the body twitch as well. On another note, and take into consideration that your boyfriend may have BOTH of these conditions. Sleep apnea is a condition where one stops breathing during sleep for a period of time. This can cause a severe drop of oxygen levels in the blood also causing the twitching / jerking when his body starts breathing again. Take him to a sleep clinic, they will have him stay overnight and monitor his sleep patterns being able to help him. It may be driving you crazy, but twitching all through the night causes for a bad night of sleep, whether your boyfriend remembers doing it or not.