. My ex girlfriend of 25 years won't give me my furniture and personal belongings. What can I do??
Alright now when you say ex girlfriend of 25 years do you mean she is your ex girlfriend after being your girlfriend for 25 years or you have not been together with her for 25 years If its the first you call the police. If they do not help you you should sue her in small claims court for the amount of the furniture or the furniture itself. You do not need a lawyer. Call your local court house for more info. If its the second one then you are out of luck. Abandoned property.
Can my ex girlfriend take the furniture in my house?
My ex girlfriend moved out of my house (only in my name). She has some furniture which is in her name in my house which she is still making payments on. She also owes me around $1000 (not on paper but I may have enough evidence to prove it). Was wondering if she can get this furniture. What does she have to do? Call police? I really want to keep the furniture and just trade off the $1000 she owes but the furniture would still be in her name.Any thoughts or suggestions?
Put it in storage for a month and give her the addressSend her a letter and keep a copyDonate it it if it's been more than 6 months and she made no effort to pick it upYou need to have sent her a few notices first. Please keep copies.Don't do anything to her stuff without giving her ample time or notification to remedy the problem. Keep copies and postage receipts.
Buying house with girlfriend, am I wrong?
Let me offer this from a bad experience. My ex finance an I purchased a home together. The money for the down payment came from his parents. My parents gave a gisft of $5,000 as an early wedding present and we used that to purchase furniture and dishes, etc. I was in severe debt at the time and I couldn't afford to pay anything for the house, bills, grocieries, etc.). When I left him (for being a rage machine among other things), I took MY furniture paid for my MY parents. I signed a Quit deed and the home is 100% his. With all of this in mind, let me ask you this. If you don't move in with her when she purchases this home, where will you live? I assume you will be paying rent some where?? You may as well pay it to her. You can't afford a home on your own, said so yourself. So you pay her rent, or pay the utilities, or how ever you want to justify it. I don't think she's wrong at all. However, if you move in, get married, etc., at that point, she needs to add you to the mortgagee paperwork and make you a full "partner" in the ownership of that home. I'd say this - if it bothers you that much, it doesn't sound like you're in it for the long haul. And with that, don't move in. Go ahead a split up now. Money kills relationships all the time. If you aren't mature enough to see this for that it is, then you're not at a good point in your life to be shacking up with some one anyway!
My girlfriend wants to redecorate my house.?
I don't know about whether you should let her change your home or not--that depends on how much of a permanent fixture SHE is, I think. However, I can tell you that just as men have an innate need to buy the biggest TV, women have a need to "nest". That is we all have a need to decorate our surroundings. Can't change it--it just is--just like you buying a 55" TV! On a side note, ivy seems innocent enough, but the roots can and will get into the side of your house, no matter what type of siding you have. The roots can get through brick as well as any wooden or vinyl siding. It will ruin that side of your house.
Jesus H Christ, Lardass, Ever heard of the word “exercise”?
You must have done quite a few terrible things for your girlfriend to put you out of her house this way. Did you cheat? Did you pay your share? Did you make a positive contribution in the household and in her life? Did you keep your promises? Did you kick her dog?If she put your stuff on the lawn, your girlfriend could not take your presence for a minute longer.Be smart about this. You can wait weeks for a moment in court to see if she did anything wrong, meanwhile it will rain on the stuff left behind after people have carted away your furniture and other stuff. This is the pathetic, ridiculous path and will make strangers in the courthouse laugh at you. They will go home at night and talk about you at the dinner table and everyone will laugh.Or,you could rent a storage locker and a van and make a couple of trips to retrieve your things. This is the smart path. This decision isn’t as funny.If you owe your girlfriend money, pay up.Learn how to be a better adult so this doesn’t happen again.
You can call the police, but they won’t get involved. Your ex didn’t steal your key, you gave it to him. As such, this is really not a matter for the police. The answer to your problem is to change your locks.I am going to write this to everyone, not just to you.It is a very bad idea to give out keys to people. If you have one emergency person to whom you want to give a key, great. But otherwise, if you give a key to someone and then want it back, you have absolutely no way of knowing whether the person copied your key. Or lost the key. Or who knows what to do with the key.I think the best solution to key problems is to have a keypad. You can assign numbers to people and then delete those numbers if you no longer want people to have access. I understand this is not always available. Especially if you live in an apartment.Be very slow to give your key out to another person. And again, change the locks if you no longer have a relationship with the person. All that actually needs to be done is for the lock to be rekeyed. Apartment complexes will do this for you. They will charge a fee for it. If you are in your own home, you can hire a locksmith to rekey your lock.Rekeying vs. Replacing Your Locks: What Is The Best Choice For Your Home?Never, ever hand out a key to someone else’s property without permission. It is absolutely not your right to do that. If you do give out a key to someone else’s property for some reason, then you absolutely need to tell the owners what you did and reimburse them for the cost of the rekeying and the copies of keys they need to replace their keys. Yes, even if the owners of the house happen to be your parents.As far as his house key, put it in an envelope and send it back to him, if you want. Wrap it in a piece of paper to hide what it is before you put it in the envelope. You don’t want to send an obvious key with an address that could let people just walk into his home. Or toss the key, if he hasn’t asked for it back. Especially if he has changed the locks.He doesn’t want to communicate with you. You’ll just have to respect that.