How do I tactfully tell someone that they smell bad?
I stank a lot during early high school, it resulted in me ostracised from everyone. I had horrible habits, my parents didn’t teach me about hygiene and I wasn’t financially independent.Eventually I started showering daily and it lessened.However I moved to a different school and my last few years weren’t too bad. My self esteem developed and I had a decent variety of friends.However I apparently still did have issues on some days, where I forgot to shower or wear old clothes. And some of the days my close friends would make subtle and snide remarks.And honestly, that hurt really bad - like a slice of a knife. I was clenching my teeth and trying not to shake during class. I guess my self esteem wasn’t as strong as I thought it was. I also was HIGHLY conscious of my smell.They were trying to do good I guess, to let me know in a discreet fashion but they couldn’t have been more clueless. Discreet doesn’t mean to make remarks about it in a classroom full of my classmates! Not to mention my crush!After graduation, a friend finally directly told me in private - sincerely, carefully and delicately. The tone was of caring and concern. I appreciated it gladly.Even better he recommended advice and good hygienic habits. I asked him if it was fine if we could meet up together so he could do a ‘smell check’ - basically just hanging out and confirming I didn’t smell. He agreed and seemed relieved that I was taking it seriously.I was also laid a bomb shell upon me. He told me all this time, everyone noticed my smell and it wasn’t just him. I was shocked and confused. I asked him why didn’t anyone tell me directly and he replied that ‘because you wore the same clothes we just thought you were poor and accepted it’.He reassured me that he and everyone else still cared for me as a friend and that I was loved by everyone.So that was perfect and I’m glad to say I had passed his smell test haha! Even to this day I feel deeply indebted to him and we’ve both stayed in touch and grown closer since graduation.So the moral of the story -Tell the person directly and privatelyMake sure the tone isn’t of criticism but of concernOffer advice and an outline of your own techniquesReassure them that they’re still lovedOffer a confirmation ‘smell test’ of sorts
Can someone tell me whether entity ab ability perfume is a male or a female perfume?
If it says eau de toilette its female perfume if it says parfum its male I think.
How can a commerce student become software engineer?
Of course YES.If you are in India, most students learn programming no matter what is your stream.I worked with MBBS graduate turned into Software Engineer. Commerce guys are common. Chemical Engineer becoming Software Professional after 10+ years of successful chemical engineering career. Many Automobile Engineer becoming Software Experts. All this is common.Many commerce grads learn software programming and venture into software jobs.A classic saying, “Engineer needs to be born” is True. Same for Software Engineer.Don't worry, “you become by doing it”, unless you are absolutely misfit by nature.You become coder by Coding not by swimming.Software is big global industry attracting talents and is open for all problem solvers.Are you software engineer by heart or more precisely a coder by heart? That is true about top notch Coder Talent.Software Engineer is profession that involves coding. Like any profession less than 1% are truely born for it and shine very early on. Like nerds in any fields.Learn coding. You will need help. Every nerd needs. Learn coding good. Remember 10,000 hrs rule. Unless you practice how will you become good in anything. Unless you try how will you get into Software Engineering.Demand and Supply is still very favourable for candidates than employers.Commerce education is helpful to be a Software Expert in a BFSI domain. Coding everyone learns.Some don't even excel to be good Coders even after 10 years. But they are still coding and shaping global productivity by constructing useful software.Welcome to Software Industry.
What do young teenage boys find attractive?
As a teenager boy I can answer this honestly. (Opinion based, I’ll arrange from thing I notice most to least)Face: Pretty face is a given. A girl who takes care of her skin and face is one to be taking notice of. I am not talking about girls who suffer from acne being worse. No I have dated a girl with acne, but she was able to manage it.Personality: I get bored easily, so this is a must I cannot talk to anyone who doesn’t seem unique to me, if you’re a carbon copy, I won’t take interest.Humor: This ties in with personality but its more of a highlighted thing. If you can’t have a laugh or make me laugh, I cannot date you.Intelligence: I’d love to have a girl who knows what I do at work, however I am an IT technician. Most, (I SAID MOST) girls have no clue what a IP address is. As long as you can entertain me with your intellect I am game.Goals: If you plan to be a secretary your whole life because you enjoy the environment and the position that is great, I am not one to judge. However, I find girls with goals in life so much more attractive.Body: God, I can see someone commenting now “you should love all sizes”. Look, I like skinny to thick girls. Anything beyond skinny, or thick, I lose interest. (Thick as in you are curvy)Butt: I am an ass man(young adult male) over boobs. Boobs are great and all, but they aren’t appealing as ass to me. A girl in jeans with an ass, oh lord.Boobs: I like boobs, but as I said above. I would date you even if you had none.Height: You gotta be smaller than me or same height, I am 5″9 so its difficult to find a girl smaller than me. Fucking being small by the way.These are my primary things I look for when looking at a girl, or speaking to her.Some honorable mentions, which I won’t go to into detail:Not clingyIndependentMatureTrustworthyLoyalAble to understand me more than anyone elseSo here’s my list, do with it what you will.