What are some good things to do in a hotel with your girlfriend or boyfriend?
I think I am best qualified to answer this.It was a trip to the Capital. We checked in at Radisson. We took the room on the 4th floor. This had the huge french window fitted with glass. The view - AWESOME.The moment we both checked in… the first thing I did was give her a hug from behind and gently kiss on her neck. (The mood was set.)Then we had a shower bath (for almost one hour) together. - We were filling up mugs of cold water and splashing on each other (we requested for mugs from the room service).- Rubbing shower gel over each other’s body with our hands back.- Pushing each other under the cold water shower.- Dried each other.After getting refreshed, we ordered a very light lunch and after lunch we just jumped over the bed under the sheets.(I had the AC control on my side of the bed, so had set the temperature to the minimum).With the cold atmosphere, we hugged each other and kissed each other profusely.The rule was - we were on a role play; The play - Trapped under snow and we need to keep ourselves warm.Later in the evening we went out on a shopping and came back to the room.I carried scented candle with me - So arranged the dinner at room and made it into a candle light dinner by the side of this huge 7 feet tall by 6 feet wide window.(DAMN.. it was so beautiful - the city view)Later we played the game of snake and ladders.The rules are.- For every snake bite - Player had to strip one piece of clothes- For every ladder - Player can wear back a stripped piece of clothes- Winner is the one who a) Reaches 100 with atleast one piece of clothing on bodyor b) If both reach 100 naked then the first to reach is the winner- The best of five games - The loser will be tied to the bed in the night while the winner could do anything of their choice for one hour.(We had ribbons, feather, chocolate syrup, ice cubes in the fridge and a blindfold.)The game ended around 11:30PM. She won, I lost. (Damn it!!)We started the ForeP and I remember sleeping around 6 in the morning. (No S - E - X)Had one of the most amazing foreplays.(This was day 1 people) and 2 more days to go.
Is a 10 year anniversary really that big of a deal...?
In the modern so called world we live in today, any time you have more than one anniversary, it's a big deal ! Have been married for over forty years. With out a lot of love and understanding mine could have gone the way of the wind, also. Congratulations to you for your tenth ! I wish you many many more. My wife and I do not plan anything elaborate for any of ours. We are just thankful that we have done whatever we could, to keep us together. We took our wedding vows straight form the Bible, and to heart. Till death do we part.
How do i ask my girlfriend to shave her downstairs?
ive been with my girlfriend for 4 months, and recently i ventured downstairs, to find out that she hasnt shaven at all, this is a HUGE turn off for me, and pretty much kills my mood. I love her alot, and dont want to hurt her or offend her, but its the worst thing for me on a girl :( im seeing her next weekend, and want to ask her to do something about it, but i cant think of a way to even get onto the subject, im well and truly in love with her, and i dont want to screw our realtionship up. any suggestions? p.s. im shaven downstairs so im not being hypocritcal
My boyfriend of 1 year told me that he still loves his deceased ex who died in Afghanistan. They had been dating for about 4 years, and he had proposed to her the month before she was deployed. What do I do?
Well, of course he still loves his deceased ex. I'm engaged to a man who lost his first wife to cancer. He still loves her. I wouldn't be with him if he didn't. If they had been divorced it would be different, but their love was cut short.They didn't choose to break up or end a relationship. My fiance loves me. I'm not ever made to feel as if I'm in a competition with a ghost. I can't be. If I were constantly being compared to his late wife, things would be different. We talk about her. She was a strong, faithful, kind woman. We talk about their marriage. It wasn't perfect and my fiancé doesn't put her on a pedestal and pretend it was perfect. They were happy. They were in love. They had a good marriage - which is how I know he is capable of being a great partner. He's already done it. They had their issues, like all married people.The difference is, when the "til death do us part" time came in their marriage, he stuck by her. He took care of her. He loved her and was her advocate. They were supposed to be together until they were old and grey. That didn't happen. Instead they were together until their 30s. Now, I get to live "til death do us part," with this man. Love doesn't stop just because someone dies. It continues. He knows how to be a good husband because of her. I get to reap those benefits. I'm grateful to her for the man she helped mold him into.I don't have any resentment towards her. That would be competing with a ghost. Again, I don't get compared to her either. I'm not her, I'm me and he knows that.There are only two of us in this relationship, but love doesn't always travel in a straight line. Sometimes the bumps and curves and u-turns shape us to be better and kinder. She will always be in his heart. But I wouldn't want to marry someone who didn't honor a love he lost too soon. I'm lucky I get to know and love a man who knows how to love like that. Eternally.