I'm confused about what to do with my situation with my girlfriend?
OK, here's how it looks to me. Firstly I think you are correct in concentrating on your studies form then time being - I also think it is sound advice you are passing on to you GF about her looking to improve her academic background also. The problem of course is, she looks at things a little differently. Firstly either her (or her mother) are starting to worry a little if you will ever marry her - I'm sure there has been a mention/doubts at times about being together 5 years and not marrying ( which is I believe sensible at your age, but again, her and/or her mother may see it as a waste of her time if marriage and a family does not eventuate) . Also on the academic front, it seems perhaps your GF is thinking more and more about a housewife/mother career rather that one in the workforce, as even with your help and support she doesn't seem as motivated as you are it that direction. So what's the answer - Rushing into a marriage now just to keep her happy is certainly not the answer. I get the feeling this girls is also rather possessive, one night gaming should not be a big deal - so be prepared for your personal freedom to become very limited if/when you marry. Probably her mother dotes on her 24/7 and she will expect the same for you, which if your are studying/working in a high profile job will not be possible.I would suggest then to keep the peace ( and to keep this girl, if that's what you really want, although I wonder if perhaps already you aren't starting to grow apart a little? ) that you set a wedding date, but make it well in the future, say 2 years time at least.That then gives her a date, lets you get on with studies/find a good job, and in the meantime see how keen she is to improve herself. I wouldn't be surprised if the gap between you however widens, and before long you find perhaps she is not the ideal/motivated long term partner you are looking for.
Confused about the sun's light in this situation?
Ok, so the intensity of light from a central source varies inversely as the square of the distance. So if you lived on a planet only half as far from the sun as our earth, then how would the light intensity on that planet compare with that on earth? And how would it compare to a planet ten times farther away than the earth?
Am i bi? Really confused situation?
I think lots of people have a strong gender preference. And I don't think it's uncommon for someone to be in your position, where gender sort of supersedes a person's biological sex. I'm just the opposite. I do have a strong gender preference for femininity, but it does not take precedence over my preference for females. Males do not turn me on and their genitals are a huge turn-off. The thought of being sexual with a man, oh my gosh, it makes me queazy. So, even if a male is really feminine, the fact that he is a man outweighs all of that. But, even though I do find myself most attracted to feminine females, it does't mean I couldn't be (and haven't been) attracted to quite masculine females. Yeah, Emma in 'Blue is the Warmest Color' has incredible sex appeal. But....it's different. She makes me feel like "She's just so cool. She's so confident. She's such a gender-bender. She's so bold. She knows who she is, and she doesn't compromise who she is for the sake of the status quo." Of course, I know she's just an actress. But, I think she did an awesome job at capturing that 'je ne sais quoi'. Also, it's easy to spot a poser, of which there are many. Girls who will get a short haircut, put on a flannel shirt, and suddenly think she's Shane from the L Word. So, it makes it so satisfying when you come across that rare breed of a girl who is genuinely androgynous 'to the core'. But with feminine women, I have really good chemistry, and think of them as girls who I'd like to date and eventually live with. I can't really imagine living with a masculine woman. Could it happen? Sure. But I'd be surprised. Anyway, on to your questions: - Could I possibly be bi?: I'm assuming you're referring to bisexuality. And, yes, you could be. It sounds like your guiding preference is for gender. In your case, masculinity, whether that manifests in men or women. - Where can I meet lesbians that follow the above criteria? Try online sites. Lots of lesbians meet through tumblr. - Are there chat sites for gay/confused teens?: I'm sure there are. I'm no expert, though. Be careful though, for online predators.
What should we do if we get confused and emotional in every situation of life?
**Think about it. If everything made sense to you all the time, how would you ever grow?Confusion does serve a higher purpose.When you feel confused, it is a sign that your mind is expanding a little more. It is a sign that you are allowing your heart, mind, body and soul to make room for something that wasn’t there before.Being confused is really a process of opening up.If you do need to make an immediate decision during a period of blissful confusion, the best thing to do is tune into the wisdom of your heart.When you are stuck in the fog and you can’t see clearly ahead, the best asset you have is your gut. Go with how you feel, and go with your truth.Begin taking a step forward and see how it feels. If it feels good, keep walking in that direction. Keep it slow and steady until you are ready to take that leap of faith.The beauty about being stuck and confused in life is that there really is no wrong turn or wrong path.Every road traveled is a blessing in some way, so take the stress out of life’s decisions and trust that all roads really do lead home.That's all..Stay happy & calm..Thanks for reading..!!
I am in a situation in life where I am totally confused about my future, what I am doing, and what I want to do. There is a constant fear of what my future holds, career options, etc. I am not able to overcome this fear. What should I do?
I would like to quote Robert Frost's poem "The Road Not taken"..Whenever i am in dilemma like you,I just go through it... Hope it helps you.."TWO roads diverged in a yellow woodAnd sorry I could not travel bothAnd be one traveler, long I stoodAnd looked down one as far as I couldTo where it bent in the undergrowth; Then took the other, as just as fair,And having perhaps the better claim,Because it was grassy and wanted wear;Though as for that the passing thereHad worn them really about the same,And both that morning equally layIn leaves no step had trodden black.Oh, I kept the first for another day!Yet knowing how way leads on to way,I doubted if I should ever come back.I shall be telling this with a sighSomewhere ages and ages hence:Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—I took the one less traveled by,And that has made all the difference."Finally I would add that just enjoy the present...Future will follow as per your present..Worrying about what future may hold is like worrying about the possibility of a war which might happen in future if things didn't work well between the then President of USA and his peer in USSR.. So just live your present.And even if you take any wrong step,by chance,then am sure when you think about it in future,it will make you smile thinking that may be it was necessary for the good things that came on your way....All the best...
Engaged but very confused, not your typical situation....Please help!?
Are you sure you weren't just incredibly horny? Well... if you want the new guy, and you clearly not only DO want him but have also chosen him... then I fail to see what the question is. Do keep in mind that this Guy B fellow intentionally pursued and conquered a young woman who was engaged to another man and sexually frustrated in her situation. And, has, very quickly, turned her head around to the point that they fantasize together about co-habitation. Sex can make you do crazy things. There is a world of difference between a man who wants to marry you and a fellow who quickly convinces you to shack up with him. Seems like you've made you choice. But understand that there is a world of difference.
I am very confused and at a very critical situation of my life?
Hey guys I'm19 and this year I will be 20 I failed in my 12 grade and then pursued for diploma studies and for some personal reasons in 2nd sem was not able to prepare for my exams and got detained.I cleared my 2nd sem last month. And I have next 6 - 7 months totally free and nothing to do. I am at a such low point in my life where I feel that I am 3 years behind in my career and school life. I have had many low points in my life but this is the worst. I am very ambitious but the fact is the thins never go the way I have planned or imagine and I don't know what i'm doing wrong. People have always disappointed me. I don't have any real friends. I have lost my touch in communication a bit and feel very awkward around with people it's not that I was good before but now I suck even more I planned to work somewhere but got rejected due to my visa problems and I planned for doin a course but I don't have money for that i'm not good at online courses, I like to be taught in as a person. I have tried many thins but don't know what to do I feel very lonely. Due to my failures I have lost my self esteem. I really don't see any future for myself and I have nothing to show for I lost my interest in my past hobbies and I don't have any new ones I am bit tired of my self and very mentally stressed I really have no idea what should I do and how to overcome this situation I have failed many times in such a young age heck i'm even tired of watching self motivational videos on youtube
How do people become less confused with emotions social situations?
“How do people become less confused with emotions social situations?”Did you mean how do people become less confused with emotions in social situations? Or how do people become less confused with emotional social situations? Did you mean your own emotions, or those of another person?There is no question that emotions can be confusing, and having to deal with them in public can be even more difficult.As you mature, you gain experience and it becomes easier.A technique that can be helpful in dealing with your own emotions is to give yourself a time-out to sort through them. If someone is expecting an immediate response, tell them you want to think it over, and don’t let them push you into responding until you are ready.I’m not sure if this article relates to your question, because your question wasn’t clear, but you might find it helpful:It's Complicated: Why Relationships and Dating Can Be So Hard
I am unable to take any decision and get confused every time. What should I do to improve my decision taking ability?
This is a very common problem and you are not the only one facing it. We have all felt this problem.Here are some of the most important factors you should take into consideration before coming to a final decision.Is the decision you are taking going to affect another person in any way? If not, this makes the decision taking process easier. Now you only have to think about yourself.Now its only about you. So how to make a smart decision? Well, as it happens, more often than not, its not the decision taking ability that fails us, its this thinking "Is this really the right decision"? When your mind is tasked with taking a decision, it automatically begins to anaylse all the variables involved. And then the logical part of your brain comes to the best decision taking into consideration all the ramifications of your decision. So far, no problem.The problem arises after you have already reached a decision. You now know the best route to take. But you can't convince your mind that its actually the best route. Its this "convincing" that you should work on.I suggest what I call the "No regret method". Stop thinking about the things that could have been. Instead focus on what you have chosen. Whenever in doubt, just remember that you took the best decision you possibly could at that time. No need to reflect on it any further.Someone rightly said " Think twice before taking any action, but dont think thrice".And yes, if your decision has repercussion for other people, its best to consult them all before arriving at any final decision.Hope this helps. :-)