What do you think about your best friend?
Thanks for the A2A.I had never thought I will have some best friend in my life, I was very reserved till my college and there are no much friends whom I could consider as my best friends, my friends in college are more of acquaintances I can say…True friends come into your life when it is the right time…I have two best friends from my training days in my first company, one from Tamilnadu, the other is from Kerala and I am from Andhra. Since MNC's have people from almost all the states and I was having interest in learning new languages… Training took place in Coimbatore where I had to meet my first best friend ever Prashanth.Prashanth is an introvert only till he becomes close to you. . He is very caring when it comes to his friends, he knows how to value relationships, nourish them, nurture them, which I had learnt from him… He knows to not spend too much on what he doesn't need, He is having a good vision about his life, He is the one who started asking me to read books, he is a book freak… He is more responsible about society, knows how to encourage his friends to achieve greater things in life… If you ask me to stay with a friend forever and be happy I can say he is the one… Because it's been so long I met him and those often visits say still we both are holding same friendship… Bro come we will go have boost wala… LOL…!!The other guy is Vipin, I met him in my training too, Vipin is more of the other side of Prashanth… He is not a book freak, lazy but active, 0 sized he calls himself because he looks round in shape. . Holds no grudge on anyone, he is always positive about his life… He opens up and says stuff to me or Prashanth whenever something worries, forgets everything easily, He always suggests that we go somewhere and when we are already on the way to somewhere he starts saying “Bro we should do this or what. .?” He lives a life which saints live, Nirvana stage always… Never looses his cool… If you had to forget all your worries and be happy, you should be friends with Vipin Ayn Vijayan…!!!PFB Vipin.Did as you said bro… Vipin Ain VijayanOkay Right…?!There are other friends too whom I share my best time with but these too I had spent much of my time… So I say about them…
Do you think the bond between two best guy friends is stronger then two best girl friends?
I agree. I think a bond between to guy friends is stronger than with two girl friends. Girls are always in competition with each other and have way too many mood swings and hormones flying around to actually sit back and be true in their friendship. Also women gossip toooo much and that is always a big down fall in the friendship department. We are also tooo sensitive. I have found that my best friend has always been with a guy and not another girl. I am not saying I am an exception to the things women do, but I am not blind to it and it definately irritates me.
Why am I suddenly, constantly annoyed by my best friend?...?
Living with somebody is never going to be easy, and there's always going to be differences between you and your friend, it's like living with a sibling almost, right? The differences are the ones that stand out more as you get to know your friend, every day you'll learn something new about her either good or bad, you've just realised certain behaviours she does around you and others, and they may be less than admirable, However the one way to nip it in the bud is to talk openly with your best friend about the issues with how she makes you feel sometimes, as you should always feel like you can talk to her about anything. Open communication should help stop you from bottling things up and gives you a chance to lay down boundaries and being mature about living together, because you both are independent women with your own opinions, views, and ideas, and it's okay to have them clash at times too, you just have to know how to handle them. You just have to try respect each others space and opinions, because believe me you will have disagreements and arguments, it's unavoidable. Though I imagine it's the same kind of thing with her about you at times too, nobody is a perfect living-together- partner. Sometimes you have to get over your differences, cast them aside and remind yourself about the good things about living with your friend, weighing the good against the bad and things won't seem as bad as you'd think they are, after all, most things are trivial and minor and aren't worth getting bent out of shape over. If you let the issues like how she can treat you at times carry on without mentioning anything to her, you'll end up resenting her for every little thing that happens, you'll constantly be focusing on the bad things and ruin your living experience with your friend. Not everything has to be seen as an issue, if you see it as something you can work through together you'll become happier together.
Can a person have 2 best friends...really?
you can have more than one best friend...a best friend is a friend that you know you can always count on no matter what. that you can tell your secrets too and she/he will not judge you...that when you need a place to go they help you out...you may have more than one of these types of ppl...if you feel that one of these friends is not that person you can count on then they are def not in the BEST friend catagory, but if you can count on both of them equally then you have 2 best friends and it's not a crime...every person has their good points and bad points no matter what...you may like frient A because she's fun and outgoing, but friend B is smart and helps you keep your head on your shoulders...but when push comes to shove both of them would help you in a pinch and give you a shoulder to cry on or throw you the best bday party ever...that is considered a best friend...if they both can do that then they both deserve the title.
My two "best friends" always gang up on me?
im the one who introduced them to each other and they are constantly making jokes about me, its so annoying! im sick of it! i have put up with it for too long! and sometimes they do it over facebook. they will post embarrassing pictures of me they wont delete. or write mean comments about me to make look like a loser. i need to drift away from them. what should i say next time they make fun of me?
Two best friends have boyfriends. What do I do?
GIrl, I totally get you. I've been the lonely one out before, and it's never a good feeling. However, the solution isn't to look for a boy to make out with. If you got into a relationship just for this reason, you'd be using them. Furthermore, you wouldn't be doing yourself any favors. Why get intimate with a boy you don't even like? Let it happen naturally; if you meet someone you like just for being himself, then go for him. Don't go for a boy just because you don't want to be the odd one out. With that being said, I know you feel lonely and left out when you're hanging out with your friends and they're all over their own guys. Don't they know how embarrassing they're being? Draw them aside and have a quiet talk with them. Let them know that their actions make you feel embarrassed and upset. It can be as casual as you want -- "Hey guys, don't forget about me too!" You know? They're part of the problem too, so they should be part of the solution. If next time they don't heed your request and keep making out anyway, then they're not being very good friends, are they? Hanging out with everyone, including the guys, doesn't have to be all making out. You guys can just have fun together and chat. I'm in college, and all of my friends in my group are mature and respectable enough not to PDA when we're all hanging out, because we know it's embarrassing and awkward for everyone involved.
Why am I always 3rd wheeling when I’m with my two best friends?
Your personal choices, you're choosing to do the things to say the things to act in a way that brings your personal difficulties and problems into your life.I know it's not a fun thing to hear we like to believe that we are victims. You're not a victim up anything other than your own behavioral patterns.Start deciding what kind of qualities you want in the people you're going to be friends with and the person you want as an intimate personal friend. Start to decide what kind of qualities these people are going to want him you and develop them. It's work, yet it's worth it and you'll be glad you did it.Books to read12 rules for life an antidote to chaos by Jordan Peterson Mentally tough by James E Lowhr The Happiness Advantage by Shawn Anchor Making hope happen by Shane L Lopez Grit by Angela Duckworth Mindset by Carol DeWitt Daring greatly by Brene Brown Rising Strong by Brene Brown In the realm of Hungry Ghosts by Gabor Mate Fat Chance by Robert Lustig MD The hacking of the American mind by Robert Lustig MD The Mind gut Connection by Emeran Mayer MD Brain maker by David Perlmutter MD Sugar Salt, Fat by Michael Moss The Obesity Code by Dr Jason Fung Portraits in Courage by John F Kennedy senator