How do you know if your instict or gut feeling's telling you something?
I’m not sure. In fact oddly, I was just thinking about this with regard to writing.But, this is what I feel:When someone here on Quora gets 32 upvotes for a five word comment, has thousands of followers, more than 50 upvotes on most answers (which I don’t come near to having on more than one) and receives those upvotes on one sentence answers, he or she is probably really a writer. I mean a real writer.If my gut instinct ever told me if I was any kind of an artist it would be a writer, (which it has) I would sadly have to correct it to say that is nothing but a function of thinking, as per the evidence of my life.Gut instincts make us just know because we feel so deeply inside we don’t recognize it as feelings. It comes back as instinct. It’s like flinching when a fist flies toward your face.What your gut instinct is telling you is the truth which has to be measured against the evidence of thinking.Thinking doesn’t make a thing so. Knowing lives in your gut.I have thought I may be a writer. The evidence does not support that, no matter. It is more like a dream in my head than a knowing in my gut.I’ll keep trying to sell houses and write too but not hang a dream on it…
What does a runner twin feel about chasers during a separation?
I began as the chaser so while he was silent I drove myself crazy and was angry thinking wow I'm dying over here and he's living his great life as if I never existed. So I thought. Here he comes back one year later….have I stopped loving and thinking of him nope not one day yet he's attempted to contact me 3 times and failed. I'm not mad anymore I'm not crazy or dying to reply or speak to him….I look back and realized it never ended, nothing had & it never will. I can't talk to him I don't know why but I can't reply but it doesn't mean I don't feel anything anymore so now I see and feel what he was feeling its not up to him to give me what I wanted….Its in Gods timing. He had to reject me or I would have been still clinging on to his every word waiting to get my fix desperate to see and talk to him….I had to be weaned off this physical longing for him and be deprived to see he was still there and with me always….now I truly feel he's going through the fire at this moment its his turn to heal and find me without seeing or feeling me in the physical. If they're your true TF they'll come back maybe not when you want but they will. It hurts like hell because you don't know where to start to let them go but you have too. I couldn't do it I felt like I was at a rehab and he was the drug I couldn't quit… locked in a room of memories and asked to forget him like this is a sick joke I don't want this …this is hell. So I prayed consistently I asked for signs answers and my mistakes what was it why was I still stuck in this …I asked to be shown my pain and the pain I've caused…not just with him but everyone ever. He became my ultimate karma wrapped in a beautifully adorned box. I saw everything I ever did wrong and asked for forgiveness and forgave. The only answer is surrender and God will take it from there. I guess I'm now the runner…I still feel him…everything… love pain his struggle but it's necessary. Everything that's solid and strong started as weak small broken pieces. I am unable to respond to him and an urge to stay silent…but even though now I'm considered the runner he's on my mind every day I still love him nothing has changed
What is something you want to "get off your chest"?
I got gang raped.Gang. Raped.I'm going to give some details… so I guess trigger warningI went to a fish market with my uncle and grandma. My grandma is old and can't walk very well so I was waiting with her for my uncle to get some fish. This huge man comes and picks me up from behind. I'm pretty strong, but this man was much stronger. He grabbed me and ran as I screamed for my uncle to help me. He came too late.So. The big man “A”The other men are “B” “C” and “D”A grabbed me and brought me to a cornerB C D take turns throwing me against a fence as they all undress. They all are on me at the same time. One would be one my face making me suck his dick. One would be masturbating on my chest. One would be doing whatever he wanted on my vagina. One would be holding down my legs.They tied down my arms above my head, stripped me naked, did their rotations, and broke my ankle.I kept squirming so they punched me, gagged me, and stabbed right below my ribcage with a knife. I stopped moving and they rotated a few times. When they were done, about and hour later, they tied to me to fence.They would grab me from behind, touch all over me, cum on me, and then forced me to masturbate. They stuck their fingers up my vagina, put their dicks in my mouth. They made me masturbate on the floor, and then would smack me with their dicks wherever they felt like it.It was torturous. I was in so much pain. They ran Away. The police were searching everywhere, and then one found me on the floor behind a trashcan in an alley. They took me to a hospital, and it gave me so much emotional trauma.Right now, a year later, I am crying in my room, too scared to go anywhere, ripping at my thighs and stomach with a blade. Burning with lighters. I never told anyone else. The only people that know is my grandma, uncle, mom, and dad. I'm too scared to tell anyone.
What is the best thing about someone born under the cancer sign?
Positive Traits: kind, loving, emotional, intuitive, imaginative, shrewd, cautious, protective and sympathetic. Negative Traits: changeable, moody, over-emotional, touchy, untidy, clinging, unable to "let go," and a tendency to wallow in self-pity. Likes: hobbies, romance, children, parties, home and country. Dislikes: failure, opposition, aggravating situations, being told what to do and being given advice...whether good or bad. Natives of Cancer are probably most in tune with those governed by Pisces, since Pisces is prone to moods just like Cancer, but of a less volatile nature. This is a couple who will find peace and harmony throughout the majority of their relationship. Scorpio, another Sign ruled by the element of Water, would also be favorable since Scorpio is equal to the moods of Cancer and capable of great understanding. Cancer finds the Scorpio depth of character intriguing and will certainly appreciate the rich view of life inherent in the Scorpio nature, to say nothing of the awareness and perception associated with that Sign. This is a couple who will likely provide everything either has ever wanted in a relationship. The physical chemistry here is quite amazing...it is long-lasting and only gets better with the passage of time.