My cousin is acting weird?
So, my cousin and I were very close when she came to the states. We used to talk about everything, and could relate on a lot. But lately, she's been acting weird. She stopped talking to me for no reason whatsoever. It's really weird, she's not the type of person to hold grudges. But recently, she's been copying me. I've been taking Spanish classes to learn how to speak Spanish and, as soon as she found out I was taking Spanish classes, she decided to go out and buy some Spanish books. I don't have a problem with her learning Spanish but, a few days ago she said she was trying to learn Korean or French, I'm not sure, then, she found out I was taking Spanish and decided to do it too. And not only that but, I've decided to create a daily excersise of mine and while I was finishing up, she came into the room and started to excersise. Keep in mind that she only did it after I did it. I've also been realizing that she's been trying to make me jealous. Her dad bought her a new phone and shes been showing it off to everyone in the same room I'm in or sometimes even to me. She doesn't even touch it when no ones in the room, she usually goes on her laptop. She also has been trying to show off her "splits" (which aren't even proper splits) to everyone in the room I'm in. I really don't know if I'm misunderstanding..
Is my cousin acting weird? help...?
seriously help me on this one... basically i have this older cousin and i think that hes been acting really strange....for instance..he always plays with my hair when he passes, and he sometimes grabs my arms really tightly and squeezes and puts his arms round my shoulders. ive seen him stare at me for a long time, but i try to ignore it. and when he thinks hes upset me, like one time he hurt me by mistake and i went into my girl cousins room just randomly and he like came in and was like sorry and kissed my cheeks. also if i want to go somewhere he would go out of his way to drop me off with his car and then drive really dangerously and fast and ask me if i was scared and then he'd boast about cars he wants to buy the next time i come to visit. and when he arrives back hed ask were i was...and hes tried to wrestle me by putting me in a head lock and stuff..oh and he always tries to come to were i would be siting..sometimes he tries to make me compliment him as well and he always topless around me...its really weird.i don't know what to think.. it just really worries me sometimes especially because im 16 and hes like 22... i hope its just me over analyzing but ive noticed his sudden behavior change over the last 2 times ive visited my aunts. oh im a girl btw.... ahh help!
Firemouth cichlid acting strange?
My cousin has a south american cichlid tank with 2 severums 3 convicts he recently add 1 firemouth when he had place the firemouth into the tank the fish swimmed to the rocks for a hour then my cousin just saw that the fish is badly injured. How could a 3 inch severum and convict injured a 6 inch firemouth? My cousin gave the firemouth to me but I am worried that the firemouth will destroy my 150 gallon community tank with 4 angels 5 buenos aires tetra 5 serpae 6 blackskirt 1 dwarf gourami 3 blue gourami 3 platies 2 mollies 1 swordtail 1 archerfish 1 bala shark 1 dojo loach 1 common pleco and 1 chocolate pleco the tanks decorations are 7 pieces of driftwood 2 small rocks 5 anubias 3 aponogetons and some plastic plants. When I have added the cichlid in my tank the cichlid then hide on the wood I am very worried so I watch the cichlid for signs of aggression after 5 minutes the firemouth came out of the wood because the shark entered so the cichlid moved to the middle of the tank when my tetras passed by the cichlid became scared. after a month the cichlid acts like it is a community fish and its injuries are now cured. so can I keep the cichlid in my tank or shall I return it to my cousin?
I find my cousin attractive. Is this normal or am I just extremely messed up?
Age 5; me with my first male cousin @ my house. Mom: What game are you two playing? Cousin: Happy family. Mom: So, you two play siblings?Cousin: No way, she will be my wife. Age 9; at the restaurant. Me: This dish is yummy. Cousin: Yeah. I could eat it all day. Me: But its costly. We can't buy it here all the time.Cousin: Yeah, you should cook it for me then someday. Me: But I can't cook. Cousin: Learn it for me, then.Me: Okay. Only if you marry me!Cousin: Of course. Who else would be my wife? Age 13, at my grandpa's residence. Me: I have a crush on *****. Cousin: *sad face* Oh, great! Me: Would he ask me out? Cousin: Will you say yes if he asks you out? Me: No idea. Why? Cousin: You won't marry me then?Age 16, at my cousin's place. Aunt: Can you go to the grocery store and get me something?Cousin: No way. I'm busy working. Aunt: You're not. Playing video games is not an activity that should be considered as a work even. Cousin: Okay. *points at me* Tell her to go! Aunt: Why her? Cousin: Because I'm busy.Aunt: *hmmph* Who will shop for the groceries when you get married then? Cousin: My wife, of course. Aunt: What if she refuses to?Cousin: I'll marry my cousin then. *looks at me*Aunt: What???Cousin: Nothing. I'll go. Age 20, at a family reunion. Me: You okay? Cousin: Yeah, good. You? Me: Mm. Fine too. Cousin: I am in love. Me: With?Cousin: A girl. Yet to tell her, she might yell at me. Me: Hey, congrats. Who? Cousin: Well,... I. She is...*sighs* If I tell you, will you marry me? Me: Haha. I will. And we laughed for two whole minutes. That's my cousin, my best friend, my first love and my best enemy who loves me with all his heart and soul. We never went out or professed our mutual attraction towards each other; but if there is one soul who will give his heart and soul wholly to love me, it'll be him. The kind of love which will hold my hand to a visit down our favourite candy store. Or the one who will playfully tickle me and make me laugh at some silly jokes. The kind of love that would not hurt me in any way even if I throw hurtful words at him. The love that would bring a spark (and chocolates) everytime he visits. And the one who could lie down beside me all night with no bad intentions and talk to me. He loves me, and I love him too. But we could never be together. Not in this birth, even if we'll continue to love each other endlessly. :') ~Just that.
My cousin is acting weird? long story short?
my cousin is freaking me out im gonna try to explain in as short as possible. any suggestions/ comments are appreciated. so basically my cousin is 15, im 16 and we are closer then most cousins i guess you could say. she has sleepovers a lot and ever since i was 11she has slept in my bed. (so in my opinion i think it is normal). but the other day she came over with a dress because she was at a party. and she asked to sleep in my bed, i said yea idc. im bout to go asleep and she says turn around im gonna take my dress off......uhmmmm wtf am i suppose to do? i was like what and turned around, but she already had it off and now i have dirty thoughts about my cousin........she said she diddnt have any PJ'S and i offered her my boxers and a short but she said no.....so yea i could barely go to sleep, and when i did i woke up with my cousins beautiful *** exposed................O M G ......i have a girlfriend but i guess the whole her being my cousin made this moment so much better because idk.......but what do i do??? Now i have all these nasty thoughts about my cousin and i cant get rid of them.... i told her i woke up and i could see her but but she just laughed and said maybe next time i wont be wearing anything.....i swear to god!! i am so sexually frusterated right now....my girlfriend and i are great and we are sexually active, i mean its all good, but something about thinking about my cousin just gets me so..... how do i say...wet? LMAO im being totally serious and i know she was joking about seeing everyhting next time because she is a tease/..lol i honestly just want to stop thinking of my cousin this way what do i do.
Caught my cousin and sister in the act...?
First of all, get so drunk that you forget. No, I'm just kidding about that. I would almost suggest that you wait and spy on them for a while and if you see them do it twice more, discreetly tell your aunt or uncle or parents in some way that makes you minimal and unimportant to the situation. That, or if they get into a regular routine of where and when they do it, direct your parents in such a way that they "just so happen" to walk in on it. If it's seriously incest, you need to stop it immediately for their sakes. I'm sorry for your situation, but you need to do something to help them - and save yourself further torment of knowing what is happening.
So why does my cousin act so FAKE?
she used to put me down alot, id find her staring at me with a bit of a dirty look, she always makes fun of my room for being pink, me for liking disney, say mean things about me being "old" and how my life is "over" after 21...also that everyone hates me & im "short"... but now she suddenly acts different, like i dont know if shes really changed or if shes being fake? she tells me secrets, she says her mom would be mad if she found out, yet she tells me them (even tho i might tell)? she tells me alot ...shes also told me im pretty (8.9/10) and even said i have a perfect life.. everyone tells me shes jealous but sometimes she doesnt act like it? is it possible that shes being fake, how can i tell? whats a way to test whether shes faking it, because i really want to know if i should trust her again..so i need to somehow proove it to myself! any ideas? think she mightve gotten over the jealous? is hiding it better? what are reasons for both?...THANKS1
Husband acts weird with his cousin?
My husband has a cousin who is his age and he is always texting her 'i love you and I miss you". My husband and I were out of town to visit his family. My husband is vey close to his cousin who is his age. he hasn't seen or talked to her since he was a teen, in which he is now in his 30's. We saw is cousin and it is just weird the way they act together. She hangs all over him when we saw her ( which isn't the first time) and after we got to our hotel roo fro seeing her he texts her "I will always love you" and then texts her " i miss you already". I just think this is weird to text your cousin in the middle of the night. He used to facebook her all the time and tell her all our problems and about how jealous I was of her (which made me feel like crap). He hasn't seen her in years. How can he be that clo to her. He doesn't do anything like this with his other cousins. I told him that it bothered me that his cousin i hanging all over him and he just laughed and then his phone rang and said " it's my cousin" "Hey baby, what are you doing?" and it made me soo mad because I thought that it was her, but it was someone else. He did it to be mean and make fun of me. I just think it's weird that he would act this way with his cousin and have no problem ignoring my feelings about it. Don't you think it's weird?? I know it's his cousin, but I don't act like this around my cousins. This didn't all happen until we had been married for a few years.