I feel so lonely, depressed and suicidal. Help?
You should talk to a therapist. Everything in life is temporary. We've all been in bad places in life but they do make us stronger if we strive to make ourselves feel better. I can't resolve your problems for you, but I know they're there and weighing you down. If it is something that is still going on try to distance yourself from it if it's possible. If it's something that occured in the past, try cognitive behavioural therapy with a therapist. You're worth much more than you think and you're NOT alone. You're beautiful from the inside and out and people do care. Just take Yahoo Answers for example, we're people too even if it's just a text written on your screen. We're people that have all been through things and we as a human kind care about each other. I don't want you to commit suicide, I don't want you to feel sad. Nor do people here, or people in real life that love you. Your friends or family, we ALL care. Just reach out and keep holding on. There will be change when you take action, there will be hope if you allow it to be. Like you did just now, you wrote this question in hopes of feeling better, and I genuinely hope we've helped you. P.S Here are two quick tips to feeling better almost immediately: Fake your happiness. Try to be happy and do things you normally would not. It doesn't have to be something big, just say "Good morning, you look great!" to somebody, and that sort of thing will definitely brighten your day. Don't listen to depressing music. It will affect you, try to listen to upbeat music and most likely you'll feel better then as well. Good luck!
Depressed & Suicidal thoughts, help?
Though I'm not a psychiachist, or anything, I've been through it all, and I could listen to you if you would like. I'll give you my phone number if you email me at vincent.sikes@yahoo.com. If you are uncomfortable, dont' feel that you've offended me. Its ok. What matters is that you get help, whatever you may do to get it. Best wishes, my friend.
Feeling suicidal, trapped and depressed?
I'm 16 and have been suffering from depression for 3 months now and it's really affecting my life. I was just having a few weeks of happiness but i seem to have hit rock bottem again. The main reason for my depression is how worthless and useless i feel. Everyone is growing up and i still feel young and behind everyone else. The thought of growing up scares me a lot. I also have anxiety which affects me. I feel so nervous for social situations and can often end up being physically sick with the nerves. I have begun to feel i can't do anything anymore and that I'll be trapped like this forever. This morning was extremely bad and i couldn't get out of bed. I didn't go to work placement (a nursery as I'm a childcare student) and i will probably be kicked off the course. My friends are all happy and enjoying life and i just feel trapped and lonely. I've explained it to them in the past and though they remained my friends they weren't really supportive and they didn't understand. I'm not eating and just wanted to sleep and cry all day. I just don't know what to do anymore :( I've spoken to doctors and councillors and even had an advocacy worker. Nothings helped and they're refusing to put me on medication at the minute. Is killing myself the only option to relief my pain? Will I be like this forever?
Help me please, suicidal/depressed girlfriend?
I know what you're going through,I have a boyfriend whose severely depressed and he does and says some of the things she says,but he sleeps all day and all night.What I can tell you to do is to keep being the loving and supporting boyfriend that you are keep letting her know that you'll always be there for her and you won't never give up on her and that you love her and that she's important to you.Try to encourage her to seek help because you are worried about her and that you hate to see her so sad. Offer to go to her appointments with her if she does decide to seek help.When you are away from her maybe call her,text her,or email her to check on her.The more you support her about going to get help the faster she will seek help because she'll realize that you do love her and that you do care about her.Tell her she's not stupid and that she's an intelligent young lady. I think it is so sweet that you are concerned about her and that you will go through great lengths to help her be her cheerful self again.Just keep doing and saying and she will eventually get better soon because she'll see you do love her!! I wish you the best of luck!!
Urgent Help needed! Gorlfriend is depressed and SUICIDAL. HELP.?
Im getting desperate... Ive known my girlfriend for seven years, and we've been dating for three. i love her, shes my best friend, my other half, my everything. shes 27 and i am 29. She has had a rough life, her sister died in a car accident, when she was 17 ( her sister was ten, their car was hit by adrunk driver) and when i first meet her she had just gotten out of an extremely abusive relationship, and from both of those led to her developing major depression and before i met her she had tried to commit suicide using drugs and slitting her wrists, she was hospitalized and put on anti depressants. well, shes gotten better since then, until three months ago, when on her way to a friends house in the city, she was attacked by three gang members who raped and abused her. they caught them but now shes more depressed and suicidal as ever. shes in therapy but she doesnt trust psychologists so she doesnt talk about it with them. i cant imagine what she went.through. last night she tried to OD. i brought her to the hospital, and when they had her wear a gown i noticed fresh cuts, deep cuts, up and down her arms. i love her so much, and i tell her everyday. im always there for her as her support. im doing everything i can to help her, but now i just feel like i wasnt there enough for her. what else cani do? im desperate. i love her so much, her friends are here for her, she has her horse and two dogs and a puppy and she cuddles with them a lot. Money's a bit tight right now but if I had the money I'll take her on a nice vacation to get her mind off of it. I'm not gonna take away her blades or anything jut because I know that would make it worse. I tell her everyday how beautiful she is and how much she means to me... please help.m