She slept with her ex while we were on a break?
don't get married. put it off. doesn't mean you don't love her, just means you wanna make sure she is the one...and, she needs to know you are the one. There is no hurry....
Who were on a break, Rachel or Ross?
The most cringe worthy romantic relationship in the entire history of Television is the Ross and Rachel relationship.They made us laugh by their antics and misunderstanding perhaps it was a bit of Ross’s mistake because he misunderstood that Rachel was breaking up with him.But I believe even though it was a break it doesn’t necessarily mean you can sleep with the other girls that’s where Ross went wrong. Ross may be nerdy and intelligent but when it comes to Relationships he is a novice.Rachel’s reaction was natural but she could have been more considerate.She could have made amends with him first( which she did but it ended in a failure).In short nobody was in a break it was a clash of ego between the two who didn’t approve of each other’s mistake.Just a simple misunderstanding which took 10 years to resolve.
How do u "break-up" w/ a bed buddy?
If you still want to stay friends: Start putting the sex on hold. Go out like you normally do, just don't go back to your or her place at the end - no sex. Meanwhile, start looking for a guy friend to hook up with your bud. Then go on a double date with her and her new boyfriend. Once she is involved with someone else, she will not sleep with you anymore (until she breaks up with him that is) Good luck.
Girlfriend had sex while on a break?
Repost, but i wasn't clear about some things. My girlfriend and i are very close and always were. After 9 months i went through a depression and broke up with her, which hurt her. Anyways she thought i liked another girl and she went ahead and had sex with a friend. We got back and are very happy. It pisses me off that she had sex with her friend. Hes out of her life, and i feel like we aren't even. I know she hasn't done anything wrong and it's unreasonable to blame her or be mad at her, but i feel like we aren't even. She now has had 2 partners and me 1. It's really annoys me and i want to get over it, any advice?
My girlfriend cheated on me while we were on a "break"?
me and my girlfriend were going through a rough time in our relationship in which i decided that i wanted to break up with her. we did not talk for about a week and after that i called her and she told me how hurt she was and that she did not think she could forgive me. i decided to give her time and work slow at our relationship. we did not talk everyday but i did speak and spend time with her when i seen her at work. recently we have been talking more and getting along very well. i thought we were on our way back to getting together, we still were not back together but we were working toward it. two days ago i was showing her some shoes that i had ordered off the internet on her iphone. and i came across a text message from some guy i asked her about it and she said they were just friends. eventually she admitted to sleeping with him but she said that we were not together when it happened, i walked away then she called me and told me that she was sorry and that she did not think that we were getting back together at the time and that she was willing to end it with him because she did love me and she did not want to lose me. i told her no and she began to beg and cry on the phone that she only did it because she was lonely and vulnerable at the time, what i need to know is am i wrong for being mad because at the time we were not together or should i leave her alone. p.s. i did do some dirt myself but i did not get caught.
Did Ross cheat on Rachel or they were on a break?
Eh, neither! Ross's sleeping with that copier girl was a reflex. Neither highlighting it as cheating nor saying that they were on a break justifies it. When a person cheats, he/she is 100% aware of what he is doing. His judgment is not blurred or clouded by a mix of plethora of emotions like Ross's was.Being the loving and kind boyfriend that Ross was, and his unquenchable love for Rachel, accusing him of cheating her is baseless and partial. He could never cheat her. Period.However, this not entail that what he did was right. Spending the night with someone else just because you had a fight is in no way a right thing to do.He was jealous. And why wouldn't he be ? His 10 years of love life with Carol dropped into a pitfall, without any mistake of his own. And now Rachel was spending some time with her colleague Mark which brought back his (Ross's) fear of loosing her. He even tells about these fears to Rachel. This shows how honest he was to his feelings. It takes honesty and courage to tell your lover that you dislike something they do. Later when he stormed out of Rachel's apartment after their “we should take a break” fight, he was devastated. With Joey and Chandler's suggestion, he called Rachel to mend things but when he heard Mark's voice from her side, things were sure to turn sour. He trusted Rachel but had his doubts because of his past. The stress, the jealousy, the heat of the moment and on some parts, his hurt male ego generated the impulse and he slept with the copier girl. Plus, he was too vulnerable at that moment to make a right call of actions.It was not cheating. It was not that they were on a break. Emotional stress, hauntings of the devastated past, blurred judgment call and vulnerability made Ross do what he did. Everyone makes mistakes in relationships. The only difference in this case was that the mistake was sexual, which immediately jumps to categories of “cheating”.
My girlfriend slept with another guy during our break due to miscommunication. How do I get past this?
Damn…this is a tough one. I can only imagine the confusion, pain and betrayal you must feel. I had a similar situation, but the girl slept with 3 guys during our week long “break”. I couldn’t blame her because we broke up, but it hurt knowing that she was so quick to have sex with other guys…I guess that’s what’s most bothersome. You should consider if this is a deal-breaker for you. For some it would be and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. You have to protect yourself too and if she is completely guiltless and doesn’t understand how this hurt you, than consider the following:Breaking up with her; tough choice but I’d be pretty rattled after something like that as well.Forgiving and trusting her; she may not be sorry, but you can choose to forgive her and trust her regardless. This is actually the tougher choice out of the two because you’re putting yourself back on the line for her.Do what will make you happy in the long-run. If you feel cheated, jealous, angry, ect. I can’t blame you. I don’t want you to hurt more, but it’s likely she knew this guy while she was with you, before she slept with him. Women don’t generally hop on the first dick that pops up, it takes time. If she is still in contact with this guy, she needs to cut him off or you need to leave. This situation could get more complicated if he’s still in the mix.I hope you make the decision that works out best for you.