My friend wants me to steal. What do I do?
Okay, so once when I was younger me and my friend stole some stuff from a store. About a week later I went back and paid them back, and got my name on a list of people monitored while they shop. Now the friend, like two years later wants to steal more. I tried to tell her I don't want to, but..well, I said "I think I'm kinda to scared to.." And explained all the bad stuff that happens and she was like "I won't hate you..I'll be REALLY REALLY pissed though." She always does this, make me feel bad! what do I do!?!
My best friend steals from me, what do I do?
*this is all from personal experience* I have had problems with stealing before. I have taken from friends. I took pens and pencils, occasionally a lip gloss or something small. I also took ipod giftcards. I then started stealing from target with another friend and we took eyeliners and makeup and nail pollish. So i know where your friend is coming from. People steal for mmaannnyyyy reasons. They cant afford what they want, they need to feel a rush to be happy, or they dont like you. I suggest you bring this up with your friend and ask her if she has taken anything from you. If she denys it, tell her how you found out and all of your suspiscions. If she gets mad at you, i suggest you tell her that you arent the wrong one. But if she apologizes you need to tell her you deserve to get what she took from you bavk and that your parents are mad with her. I would also say she needs to apologize not onky to you, but to them too. People dont steal just to steal sometimes too. It can also be for psycological reasons. Try to not cOme off as mad even if you are. Tell her she will need to make up for it, and that she will have to re earn your trust if she still wants to stay as a friend. She could be mad at you for something you may have done, so you need to give her a chance to explain herself before you come accross mean otherwise she will close up and lie more. Hope this helps (; email me if you have any other questions.
What should i do if my "best friend" steals from me?
I left my friend's house the other day. When when i got home i noticed that my make up bag was gone. I called her and asked if she had seen it and that it's a gold make up bag. (she knew it was mine.) She said no and said that she would look for it when she cleaned her room. So i looked around my house in my luggage, the car everywhere more than twice! I called her the next day and she was with her friend and said they cleaned up everywhere and didn't see it. yeah yeah whatever this is when i sort of knew it was BS. I asked her another time too and told my mom to help me search again. ugh. Then after a few days she invited me back over to her house and i was sitting near her desk and saw some of my make up in a clear bag and i said "hey thats my make up why is it here? didn't i ask you several times if you'd seen it??" She was like oh it is?? i didnt know. i told her everything she had told me and i knew she was lying. most of my expensive make up was missing (3 estee lauder brushes, mascara, 2 gel eye liners, and mac lipgloss.) she told me her little cousin stole it probably. ok i know this is long but keep reading. she did everything she could for me not to ask her little cousin or mom if she took it or not. then yesterday before we went to the mall i saw my mascara and lipgloss in her bag. i didnt say anything. i was angry though. She took 2 of my shirts i found in her room and asked me for $2 when we were at the mall. Please help, should i give her a second chance? She trusts me with stuff but i just dont know!! P.S. i DO remember putting my make up bag in my luggage she must've taken it out along with 2 of my shirts ealier..
What do I do if my best friend is stealing from me?
First or all, are you really sure they are stealing from you? Such an accusation can end your friendship forever. If they do, I think the question should be why she or he is stealing from you. It could be kleptomania (a mental disorder/an addiction which makes you steal stuff for no reason), they could be in need (which is a poor excuse, but you never know).If you are sure, you should definitely ask them without being too exposing in a derogatory way. Tell them about the symptoms (your things that disappeared in certain circumstances) and see their reaction. I wouldn’t recommend you to be in an accusing mode, at least not if you cherish your friendship and they seem to feel the same way, too. Talk about it and be understanding and supportive.
My friend is stealing from another friend. Should I snitch?
I just found out one of my oldest and closest friends is stealing money from one of our other friends. He found out where he hides his money in his closet and is taking money and replacing it with newspaper. Should I say anything? The guy he's stealing from is sort of a tool.
My good friend steals all the attention?
ooooooooooohhh honey...i feel ya. when i was in high school, my best girl friend didn't go to my school, but i brought her to dances and stuff with me. she was really pretty, too, and since she wasn't from our school, that made her even more attractive to the guys there. i had to deal with guys only hanging out with me to get to her. i did the same thing as you, and started to withdraw and not even bother to talk that much, because part of her "coolness" was making fun of things i said in front of the guys. i said something about how amazing it must have been to make this one movie we watched, and she KICKED me and told me to shut up because that was a dorky thing to say. she always teased me for being smart. i learned over the years that the reason she did that sort of thing was to make herself feel better--she didn't have a lot of confidence at all, despite coming off like she did. i am no longer friends with her. as to what you should do, if i could go back and do it again, i would use the summer to make changes in myself. i would focus on the things i was good at, and slowly improve on those, and improve my personal style, thoughts, and ideas at the same time. if you build up your confidence, and break out of any shell you may have, dress how you want, say what you want, you'll make more of an impact by the time the next school year starts. you'll feel better about yourself, knowing that you're talented and confident, and have a new look to boot. i've said this to others; i read it in a book once and i liked it a lot: it's tough on us ordinary moths when our best friends are butterflies. so. loosen up, speak your mind, and blow everyone away with the new you. everyone expects her to be fabulous---be the surprise element. don't compete with her, but find your own style, be nice to everyone, and give shyness and hesitation the boot. good luck!
Is someone your friend if they steal from you?
No.If I were to find out by myself or from other sources, then I will lose all respect for that person and not associate with that person. That is usually 90% of the case.However, if that person is “adult enough” to confront me about it, then depending on the situation, I will reconsider but be more cautious around them. But I will have definitely more respect for them.
What should I do to my friend who tried to steal my girl?
Nothing, you should do nothing, let the guilt of their decision and the eventual fallout of the relationship be enough for you, if you get involved and escalate the problem then its just going to push those two closer together and will lengthen the time that you have to look at them together. My guess is you don't want that, so do nothing, laugh at them to yourself, don't complain to your friend, get a new girlfriend or just work out some more, get yourself in shape, eat healthy get a nice haircut.Improve yourself and watch them flail around, that is the best way to get back at them because anything else is just going to cause more misery than its worth.
My Best Friend Stole From Me?
I had a friend like this, she stole from her friends..stores, everywhere. It's a shock to realize your best friend could do this isn't it? I helped my friend get a job where I worked..and she stole at work too. I confronted her and gave her the option of quitting or I could turn her in. She left. We are no longer friends. One thing you don't want to do is second guess yourself. If you believe she is stealing from you, she probably is. Stealing is like a guy cheating..it's the dishonesty about the whole thing that hurts more than the action. At this point you have two options: 1. Confront her directly ("My bra went missing last time I was with you, now my nail polishes are missing after you left my house. Best friends don't steal from each other, all you had to do was ask. You need to return my things that you took.") If she denies it just say "I'm going to miss you, our friendship is over." or 2. Don't confront her, just end the friendship (if she has a habit of stealing..she probably won't change.) ...and once you confront her she'll probably be too embarrassed to admit she did it, she'll never return your things and the friendship will end anyways. Or she'll return your things..but you never will feel like you can trust her again..so friendship will end. If you have trouble talking to her about it..send her an email or text. (Don't worry, she won't show anyone, she'll be too embarrassed.) If she tells anyone, even if they say they believe her version, I doubt they will trust her or want her around. In reality you probably won't see your things again..doubtful she'll return them..that would be admitting she is a thief. ..stealing is such an ugly thing and brings up all kinds of bad emotions huh? I'm sorry this is happening to you, but maybe it's time for a new best friend?