Is there always so much awkwardness with two people liking each other?
I like this guy, but we are SUPER awkward. I will talk to him, then the next day I get so scared to see him. He does the same, except he'll get near me, smile/grin and then ask how my day is with this really nervous vibe. Then he'll get all shy again. Him and I have talked a few different times, we had had classes together, and we know a lot about each other. What do I do? Problem is, I have class in a few weeks with him and I feel like I have to face the music now here? I can tell he's kind of a introvert at times. His friends have been looking at me now everytime we see each other and I got told about a study group coming up that they're going to be forming (his friends) when the class starts. She mentioned him like three different times in the same conversation. What can I do here? Just wait until the class starts? Or just be all friendly and say just "Hey' with a smile when I see him? This awkwardness is not usual for me at all!
Have you ever felt awkward with one or two Aquarius people?
I don't know his chart precisely but he loves to talk, and I'm a listener and it's hard for me to speak my mind whenever I'm around him because I'm always afraid that the next second he stops talking and waits for me to answer, I don't know what to answer and then it just leaves a big breeze of awkwardness flowing around us. It happened before and it was really awkward.
Why am I so awkward around people? How can I improve myself?
TL;DR Think of awkwardness to be a disease , and awkward situations to be a vaccine. By infusing yourself with more social situations ( awkward situations for you ) , you'll ultimately kill the awkwardness. Let me tell you a personal storyIt's pretty normal , run on the mill kinds not the regular life changing stories you'll generally find on Quora.I am a pretty friendly guy and since my dad is in the Army , I've been to a lot of places and somehow met a lot of people. When I was 13 , I changed schools since my dad got posted to a new place and went to an all boys school. For 2 straight years , I was spending my entire day with 40 odd boys. For 2 straight years, I hardly talked to girls. I turned 15 and changed school again.I was now going to a normal co-ed school.I never realised that talking to girls would become a 'task' , an obstacle rather than a normal conversation.I spend one entire year being awkward around women ( very few of them realised this since I hardly talked to them , acted like I just wasn't interested ) I turned 16 ( decided I had to change) and forced myself to talk to girls.I make some of them laugh,I am sure I made some of them feel I was weird and I am also sure that I might have come off as a creep, because I did feel awkward.But I made friends. A lot of them. Most of them girls. I am 19 now. Whenever I tell people about my awkwardness a lot of them have difficulty believing it. But I know it was there and I know I've removed it , for good.The thing about awkwardness , social anxiety , feeling left out and all sorts of things like that is that it harbours on your lack of self esteem.You develop that and suddenly you're the boss. Change whatever you don't like. Just change it. You think you don't look good , work out , make a change.You think you are lazy , just take the initiative , do it.You think you are less interesting ? Read, do things , make experiences worth talking about. You think you are awkward? Create more experiences where your awkwardness comes up. Believe me it'll start going away.BE RANDOM. DIVE INTO THINGS. YOU WILL COME UP
I feel really awkward at a hair salon, do you?
Ok, three things make me feel really awkward at the salon when people walk past me. 1) The big plastic cape (or capes) they put around you. 2) Sitting under the dryer 3) That sort of shower cap thing they put around your hair ughhhhhh How do you feel about these things??