Do i have the right to be mad? no one remembered my birthday?
my birthday was already sad before arriving at school because my mom forgot. i dont expect my friends to buy me anything but at least remember- i mean, every other girl at school walks around with balloons and cakes. one friend gave me a box of chocolate, and when i met up with my group of closest friends, no one said happy birthday until i said "do you have something to say? :)" and it just bothered me. im the kind of friend who bakes cakes for my friends on their birthday, they didnt do anything. one of my friends say "gimme some chocolate!" i told her it was my only birthday present and she said GIVE ME SOME CHOCOLATE B***H. she was saying it in a joking but also forceful manner. i yelled why are you such a demanding bi***! that was kind of the last straw. do i have the right to be mad at my friends? should they have remembered? theyre usually very sweet and buy me food when i don't have money but that just upset me a lot, especially after my mom forgot.
Today's my birthday, but no one remembered. Does this mean they don't care?
On my 30th birthday about six months ago…not one person from my immediate family called me. In fact, not one person from my family called me at all until I reminded them (very late in the day) that it was my 30th birthday (like 10pm—it’s almost time for bed—late).I felt pretty bad about that.I can understand how you might feel.I would not try to “stop the sadness.” Just feel what you’re feeling. There’s nothing wrong with that.Also, let your friends know it made you feel sad.I let my family know. I don't recommend saying to your friends what I said to my family since our situations are slightly different, but do tell them that you were sad no one remembered your birthday, and you wish that they would next time.I told my family that I would not bother calling them on their birthdays, if they couldn’t be bothered to remember mine.They didn’t like to hear that, but they couldn't argue with it. Again, I’m not saying you should take this same approach with your friends. I would be less bitter than I was with my family.Just let your friends know it upset you that they didn’t remember.In the case with my family, they were “repeat offenders” so I had lost my patience a bit. If this is the first time your friends have forgotten then I wouldn’t get too disappointed just yet. Give them another chance.
It’s my birthday. Should I be upset that my man has not even greeted me ‘happy birthday’?
Lol.It happened with me too. In my case, it’s worse. His sister’s birthday is same day as mine and he sends her gifts + cake or at least wish her when clock strikes 12.He tends to forget my birthday every year, this being 5th year of being together. This year, he ordered cake late in the evening saying look I remembered, which I clearly know that he heard me saying thank you for the birthday wish that I got in the phone. There was no wish for me when he was wishing his sis. Not comparing but if he had remembered, he could have at least wished me that time itself, when i was there in-front of him.I have compromised with my life. I worth only when he needs me for his chores and my feelings are always secondary. If you can live with this then its good or you have to move ahead with the life.But, I know it hurts when he puts efforts on remembering others (cousins) bdays and forgets mine and more hurtful when you should be thankful at least he is wishing me that too in evening. “Aren’t you happy that I got you pastry (tiramisu - which I don’t like) for you. Look at my surprise for you. You were not expecting this right? “Just my frustration. Sorry.This year, I just wished him didn’t order b’day cake because he mentioned the previous night, please do not get me b’day cake. I was tired like him from the work so didn’t planned anything and went to bed around 5 in the morning. We both were sleeping. Around 11 AM he woke up and mentioned he was waiting for the b’day surprise. “I thought you will wake up and get a cake for me at least. You can’t even do that for me.”That was bummer. But, I am stupid and doesn’t have self esteem that’s why I am still with him.
My friends all made other plans on my birthday...?
You have every right to be upset! It's not like you're 8, and you spend your birthday with your family. Of course you want to celebrate it with your friends! You should talk to them, and see if you could join any of their plans. If they have plans at night, you could suggest going out for breakfast or lunch together. If you have other friends, call them. No matter what you do, make sure that YOU are happy about what you're doing. It's YOUR birthday, and you shouldn't be doing something you hate. Even if you just end up watching a movie on your couch, enjoy it. Give yourself a facial, a mani/pedi and eat lots of junk. Go out and get yourself an ice cream, or an expensive cup of coffee, Make sure that you have a good time. If your friends can't be nice enough to include you in their plans, make plans with other people. When was the last time you went to a movie with your mom? Or took a bubble bath? Go for a walk, clear your head, and decide what to do. Don't stay mad at your friends forever, though. Call up someone else, or go do something in a social setting. Who knows? Maybe you'll meet someone! Hope this helps Happy Birthday!
Did you ever have a Birthday party where nobody showed up?
No it never happened to me either. Just a question. One time I invited 5 girls and 5 boys to my party (when i was like 6) and all the girls came and only 1 boy. He was so mad at me, that when his birthday came he invited all the boys in the class and only me! lol. I told him that it wasn't my fault nobody else came, but he didn't believe me. Anyways, I didn't go to his party.
Today is my birthday and no one wished me "Happy birthday." I feel really sad and unimportant. What can I do to make myself feel better?
First of all, Happy birthday, Dear….!!!!Hope you had thanked god to give you another precious year.As come to your question, Birthday is a thing that makes us excited and happy. But it is not necessary that all have to wish you. Sometimes people forgot the day even I forgot my best friend’s birthday. But that doesn’t mean that she doesn’t important in my life. Even we had spend the entire day of her birthday together and I couldn’t remember that this is the day of her birthday. Still, whenever I am in trouble, my mind recall her name first and same for her’s. This happens sometimes, all have not the great power of mind to remember things.Secondly, others are just temporary in your life. Only your parents will stand besides you whenever you are in trouble. So, why we feel sad for not getting wishes from temporary person.Thirdly, our happiness shouldn’t depends on others. If you want to celebrate your happiness you can celebrate by your own. You can do whatever you want to do by your self from dancing to going alone to restaurant.According to me, One should take a blesses from their own parents by touching their legs on their birthday. Because they gives blesses from their heart. One should thanked god for everything what he/she achieved till now. And make a promise to yourself which you want to change in your life. For instance, If u think you are getting angry easily then you can make promise to yourself of not to get angry easily. This things are more important than fake friends.And if you still feel that the person who are important to you doesn’t wish you then you can simply message them and talk with them as usual. Because its your birthday, do whatever which makes you happy.But don’t be dependent on others for anything. Others are just fake. There are rarely people who will stand by you whenever you want them most except parents and siblings. Never feel shy to do things which makes you happy.And you shouldn't worry about the wishes on social media. If you feel bad that no one had wish you on social media, you can erase your birthday from social media. But you shouldn't affect your happiness by such a little things.
My dad forgot my birthday?
I just turned 21, and my mom came by with a bottle of wine for me, and I got presents and cards from my siblings, grandparents, in law, even my husband's boss gave me a present, but my dad didn't even tell me happy birthday! He didn't call or come by, and I work with my step mother, and he didn't even talk to me there! I'm really hurt. I now, I'm 21 and an adult now, but does that mean my birthday doesn't matter? WOuld you be hurt if your dad didn't bother to even say happy birthdya to you? I've seen him three times this week and he never mentioned it, but he gave my son a birthday present, and his birthday isn't for two and ha lf weeks
My best friends forgot my birthday?
Ok so my birthday was yesterday and i came to school all pissed cus no1 texted me or called me to say happy birthday and i had many great friends. Anyway i came to school and my best friend walked up to me and started talking to me and she was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and so we wlaked into the building and no1 said happy birthday i went to my first period cclass and this guy that sat at my table (who wasnt that great of friends with me ) was like guess wat? i said what? he goes todays your birthday happy birthday. and i wa slike omg your the only one that remebered any way we go to our second class and my teacher goes happy birthday and she has happy birthday written across the board and all my friends mouths dropped and they were like omg i so forgot then we went to lunch anad every suddenly rewmebered and sang happy birthday. It really hurt that they would forget but what hurt the most wa sthat i have 2 best friends one is a girl and the other is a guy and the guy one also forgot and didnt even say happy birthday when he remebered. And on his birthday i stayed up til 12 and sang him happy birthday. Also on my bets girl friends birthday i baked her a cake and brought it to school. And they didnt even remeber mine. Should i be upset. How should i have reacted i was hurting really bad inside but i let it kinda slide i just dont no what to say and i wanna say sumting....help?? sorry didnt mean to write a novel :/