How do you very politely tell someone that you don't want to hang out with them?
I don’t know of a euphemism, but I’m not the best person to ask about this since my social skills are not the greatest. But since you asked (thank you!), I’ll see what I can do to help you.First, it may always feel rude to you to say something you know the other person doesn’t want to hear. And it’s never easy. It is true that it’s important to consider the feelings of others in everything you do, but you can’t live for others. You still have to come first. If you don’t take care of yourself, you will have nothing left to give to anyone else.If someone you know only in passing wants to hang out and you don’t really like them that much, there is no easy way to say it to them. You try to be gentle about it, sure, but it honestly sounds like you are doing that pretty well. It’s not rude to want to spend your time doing things you like, rather than that you feel obligated to do. It’s disappointing to the other person, but it’s not rude.Ignoring them, however, is. It also doesn’t help them. If you just tell them straight out, it’ll hurt, but they’ll get over it. They’ll understand they are just not the person you want to spend time with. Ignoring them tells them they aren’t even important enough for you to speak to at all. That hurts a lot more.The same is t rue for a former friend, but it’s harder. Not all friends are meant to be in our lives forever. In fact, most of them aren’t. People change, people grow, and that often means their paths are no longer compatible. Like I said, it’s tough, but you just have to let those go.
What is a response for when you ask someone out and get rejected?
The less you care, the more they’ll care.I had this crush on this girl in high school. I asked her out during lunch time.I said, “Hey, I wanted to let you know I have a crush on you. I was hoping I could take you out.”She replied, “Sorry. It’s not a good time.”I replied, “Okay. Whatever.”I then walked away confidently to my table of friends. Within minutes, I had forgotten about the rejection and was already laughing at my friend’s jokes.How did she react?She got upset quickly that I’d moved on so fast. She then proceeded to question whether she made the right decision.How do I know this?It’s simple psychology. People like to feel confident in their decision making. She might have thought that I had enough confidence to ask another girl out later that day.What if the next girl said “yes”?Then she’d know she made the wrong decision.So, what happened?One hour later she comes to me and says, “Hey, I changed my mind.”I said, “Ugh, maybe some other time.”What did I learn from this?Be confident.Move on from rejection quickly.It hurts them more than it hurts you.
What's the deal with Jehovah's Witness?!?!?
Who the followers of Jehovah's Witness are? Christians that follow Christ instructions. How did they get such a name? The name "Jehovah’s Witnesses" is based on Isaiah 43:10, and was adopted in 1931. Who is "Jehovah" exactly? Jesus father and God. According to the bible, ONLY Jehovah should be worshipped. Psa 83:18 That [men] may know that thou, whose name alone [is] JEHOVAH, [art] the most high over all the earth. Exd 34:14 for thou shalt worship no other god: for Jehovah, whose name is Jealous, is a jealous God: What are their beliefs? The bible. Why is it that on TV, people make the joke of, when someone knocks on the door? People are very familiar with JWs over any other Christian group that goes house to house preaching about God's kingdom. Act 20:20 – “and have taught you publicly, and from house to house” Mat 10:7 – “And as ye go, preach, saying, The kingdom of heaven is at hand.” I've heard that they don’t celebrate ANY holidays or birthdays and that they don’t believe in any "symbols". JWs do not get involved with pagan celebrations or idolatry. Can someone explain all of this to me and tell me anything they know about Jehovah's Witness? Jehovah’s Witnesses are an international religious organization that rejects much of modern mainstream Christianity in favor of what they believe is a restored form of First Century Christianity. Jehovah's Witnesses are governed by their understanding of Scriptural laws and principles based in the bible. The religion was developed in response “to what they saw as compromise and corruption in mainstream Christianity.” They dispute doctrines such as the Trinity, hellfire, immortality of the soul, and clergy-laity divisions as illegitimate additions to the original Christian teachings.
How do I answer in an interview when asked "what is your weakness"?
Do not try to be Mr. Ideal man. Every one has a weakness. Choose wisely from your weaknesses and state them clearly.Avoid using the famous: "I am perfectionist. I don't rest until I see the perfect output!" This is not a weakness. It's a bloody quality every company desires.The weakness should still persist. Do not say, "I used to be a procrastinator" "I lacked confidence". So, these are not your weaknesses anymore and the question still remains: "What are your weaknesses?"Also make sure to pick weaknesses which won't affect your candidature. Do not say, "I cannot start my day without watching porn for 2 hours" or "I am an alcoholic and can't survive a day without alcohol!!" You could state something like this:"I tend to overthink on problems. This leads to wastage of time in cases when I reach the same solution as I had before""I am working on my patience level. I get bored easily.""I am a bit short tempered, specially if someone talks to me indecently""I am not a good conversation starter.""I am a glutton. I love to eat junk food. Though I know it adversely affects my health""I lack confidence."If the interviewer asks, "What are you doing to overcome these?", following could be your answers (for each of above weaknesses respectively) :As soon as I realize that I have devoted enough time to the problem and come up with the best solution I can, I move on and look into other problems. I would say, I have overcomed it 80%.I look forward to the outputs of the work I am doing. I keep myself engaged. If I am very bored, I take a 10minutes break to refresh myself and then resume my work.ORI work in intervals i.e. I work for 2-3 hours at a stretch and then take a 10-15 minutes break to rejuvenate myself.I am learning anger management techniques like counting in reverse, or not speaking whenever I am angry.I am learning new facts which could act as good conversation starters. I spend more time in socializing so as to learn how to start a conversation.I have set a maximum limit to the amount I would spend on junk food. I am trying to strictly adhere to it.I encourage myself from my previous achievements whenever I feel low.
Lots of blood in urine! Doctors won't listen!?
You'll need a thorough evaluation by a specialist in urinary tract diseases. They're called "urologists" or "nephrologists". You also need to realize that arguing with the ER physician is totally counterproductive. Niether you, nor I with my medical background, are capable of determining whether or not either of us has kidney stones based upon how we feel. We both would need a battery of tests, including blood work and x-rays, to determine whether or not kidney stones are indeed present. Since you have history of kidney infections, it is entirely possible there is a locus of infection somewhere in your urinary system. The specialist I mentioned is the person to determine whether this is the case. There's a situation known as "polycystic kidneys" wherein there are cysts - a few or a lot - on the kidneys. These can be reservoirs for infection. That's by no means a diagnosis, just one of several possible causes for your bleeding and pain. And if you're thinking it's possible to have a kidney infection without pain - you're right. Sometimes you have to get pushy in order to get a proper evaluation and follow-up care. The ER is a busy place and it can often get plenty crazy, and yes, people can be overlooked and sometimes, though no hospital would ever freely admit it, test results can be misinterpreted in the wild rush to treat everybody. SO: go to your own doctor and ask for a referral to one of those kidney specialists. If payment is a problem, also visit your office of social services, who can help you deal with the unpleasant aspects of health care affordability. You have my sympathy. It's a real bi*ch when you hurt - and kidney problems can hurt like the blazes - and seemingly can't get the care and attention you need.
I'm always single (response from 23 + only)?
would appreciate response from people 23 and older only please. I'm twenty-three years old, and I have only been on two dates, and I only had about five real Solid offers. I'm not unattractive nor am I rude, shy, disrespectful or loud. I'm a freelance model, a full time student, and I work full-time. It's not like I stay home all day and not meet people. I have plenty of opportunity to interact. I dress trendy people always give me compliments, but I also have my own style so sometimes i'm out of the norm. I get compliments on how attractive and stunning I am, but my friends always get all the dates. I don't know what to do now because some of my friends are starting to pick up on my "all the time single" lifestyle. It's not like I'm afraid of being alone nor am I desperate, it's just that sometimes I would like to go on a date, and introduce someone as my boyfriend. I've learn to date myself. For example, I've been to numerous movies by myself. I've eaten out alone, and I always shop alone. I'm getting around that age where friends are graduating and getting married or they are in long term relationships. I'm not a lesbian. I think women are stunningly beautiful, and they have nice shapes. However, I have never had sexual feelings towards women. Even my shy, reserve, nerdy friends are finding love. I know lame people, unattractive people, rude people, airheads, and people with children who are in relationships. However, it seems like I always get skip over. Should I just put that part of my life to rest and focus on other things like I have been doing for the past twenty years? I'm 5'5 and 120lbs. I'm in shape, I work out and have great skin.