Why do girls think they are better than guys?
Ok, so let me get this straight. I've talked to a lot of girls and they all believe they are better then men. But girls like to complain a lot and typically say things like this: * I'm cold * I'm hungry * I'm tired * (and my favorite) I'm bored and then expect you, the guy, to make up for it. They get mad at you for wanting to have sex with them when they don't want to, and then say that you are being pushy about it; but when they want to have sex and you are not it the mood for it they also get mad at you. If a girl doesn't get aroused it's your fault, and there are always things that you could be doing for her to make things better/easier; but when you can't get an erection, it's your fault. Girls expect a guy to have a good job so they can pay for everything, and to be able to cook and clean so that they don't have to. Girls want you to hang out with them all the time, but they also want you to respect their space. Girls want you to let them hang out with their friends, but girls don't want you to hang out with your friends. Girls can force you to watch a three hour movie that THEY want to watch, that you will do without complaint or they will get mad at you; but they wont shut the hell up during even the shortest of shows that you want to watch, and will complain the whole time and then get mad at you. So... why is that?
Why do girls think guys want to be friends after a breakup?
A very good (male) friend has it the other way around. He pretty much wants to leave this girl because their relationship isn't working but he knows she won't want anything to do with him after. My best friend is an ex. He is a fantastic guy, so funny and so smart. It depends on the circumstances and the people, but it can be done. One day you'll meet a girl that you love as a person and you'll realise that losing the friendship along with the relationship is the really hard part of breaking up.
Guys opinions on girls with a lot of guy friends?
First off, get over your ego. Just because she has a lot of guy friends is meaningless. If she wants to be with you, she will just be with you. If you force her to get rid of her guy friends to be with you, surprise she will drop you too. You have to understand that women are not like men...men tend to not have a lot of women friends because of the way we act. Her having a lot of guy friends does not make her a slut or easy, it just means that she probably does not get along with women. Women can be catty and back stabbers. Unlike men they are not trustworthy and tell it like it is. They will use the bad stuff that they know about other women against them.
Can a guy REALLY be "just friends" with a girl?
I am a girl, and I have a lot more friends that are guys than girls. My boyfriends have always hated this, and are always convinced that my guy friends are INTERESTED in me in other ways - they claim they "know how guys are". My guy friends don't flirt overtly or make passes at me, and I feel they respect the fact that I am in a relationship. Do guys keep girl friends around "just in case"? Or can they really just be platonic friends with girls? What do you think?
How can I tell a guy that I only want to be friends after potentially leading him on?
It's not about how to tell him.It's just that you have to tell him.I would reccomend being direct. Men tend to communicate directly more. Don't hint. Don't say “we should just be friends” don't say how good of a time you had. Because being indirect like that, while is nice and it does soften the blow a bit, it also creates an opportunity for him to look for hidden meaning, trying to find how there might be a chance.Better to just be direct, “I have to tell you this, I don't want to lead you on. I don't have romantic feelings for you. I feel it's better to tell you this out of respect to you and your time. I'm sorry”You cant control how someone responds to this situation, but the right thing to do is to let him know asap. And you have to find comfort knowing you did the right thing.He will either take it well or he won't, the HOW it was said will have little to do with how he takes it. And how he responds is part of his set of challenges.Don't feel guilty for leading him on before. You cant change that (if that's actually what happened) what you can change is not continuing to do so.
How Long Should you be friends before dating?
You don't really even need to be friends first. A guy can ask a girl out the first time he meets her and that's fine. If you mean like to rush into a serious relationship, then it's relative. There's chicks i've known for 5 years and don't know well enough to rush into a serious relationship, and girls i've known for way less that it'd be fine. Just go by how comfortable you are with each other, and if it will take him longer to be comfortable, that's fine too. There's no set rules for this kind of thing, just go with the flow.
All my friends drink/smoke?! Should i do it too? (im 14)?
I'm a 16 year old girl and boy do I know Your a cool girl and a smart one, and yes alot of people have been in the same situation. I know I'm one of them, peer pressure is no joke. I hope you fine better friends and get rid of the ones you have but that's only if they wont listen to you about how wrong drinking/smoking is. Don't feel uncool by telling your friends that Smoking/drinking is wrong, they need to here it. Plus it shows that you don't just care about yourself but about your friends health too. And if there to stupid to see that then its there lost for losing you as a friend ; ) The one thing I had problems with is thinking that I couldn't find another group of friends that would like me or wouldn't wont to hang out with me plus I really wonted to keep my friends. Before they wonted to be cool like everyone else they where okay friends but they turned on me . sometimes you have to step outside of the box and find something that matches your personality. My friends would call me goody goody all the time but I never gave in. Your friends don't realize if they keep going down the same path there going to be the ones with out any friends, either that or people that will begin to use them. I know because that's what happened to my Friends. GOoD luck* not to you being pressure into drinking because your a (smart Girl), but to you being with the friends you have. I hope you don't have anymore problems and remain happy :) PS: oh one last thing I hope anyone at the age 12 and up is not drinking/smoking its a bad habit that will sometimes lead to death, and sometimes worse then death >like killing one of your friends all because you were drunk while driving). You may think you can fight becoming addicted but you can't. REMEMBER that the first thing a person with a drinking problem says is I can stop at any time. Drinking is okay for a once and awhile drink but that is as far as it should go. Sorry had to add that :)
Does anybody think married men should have close female friends?
I think its ok for my hubby to have close friends, but to hide it is another story. That automatically makes it look suspicious even if he isn't doing anything. That he is not listening to your feelings, or trying to understand where you are coming from. It sounds like he feels he is in trouble and thats why he hides it. Do you ask him in a non-accusatory way? So he didn't get defensive about it and shut you off completely? Maybe its just me, but I would ask him if he understands how it makes me feel. I don't know your relationship is or how you are normally but its definately a balance between the both of you and if yours, or his, needs aren't being met then maybe try a different way of communicating.