My stepfather is so annoying what can I do?
I know how you feel. I am in the same situation almost. I love my stepfather but sometimes I want to kill him. But it is also not easy for him because he was once a bachelor not having to care for feelings. Now he is in a house with two women and the only man. He has to learn to grow sensitive. As a teenager we are not always the best people to get along with. Sometimes we can be oversensitive. So sit him down and let him know sometimes that his jokes hurt your feelings. Even though he might be joking. You still like him but he needs to watch what he says at time. Both you and your mom can do this. Arrange a house meeting on this. also let him be able to talk as well.
Me and my step-dad argue a lot and my mother does nothing. Would it be alright to give her an ultimatum to choose between me or him?
This all depends on if you have spoke to your mother about the problem. Do you or your stepdad start the argument? Is he only trying to be helpful and help your mother to raise you to be a good person.? If you feel like it’s his fault only and he is picking on you for no reason then you do need to talk to your mother and if she is not understanding then you do give her an ultimatum Because you do come first you are her child. Good luck to you and I hope that you make the right decision please do not be doing this because you want him to go away, nothing will get better in this case. You have to give your mother time to have a life just like you like yours when you’re with your friends. Good luck to you honey
How to get rid of stepfather?
How to get rid off nasty stepfather? Cant stand him any more.HE wants to make the law at home although he is not our bio father. He s always yelling,would be much better with my mother alone even if we had less money. He beat my sister simply cause she stole some small stuff at the store. I cant argue at all with him,he thinks is always right and my mother who is crazy in love always takes his side. Help me get rid of him, doyou have a step or real father like that. Would like to know if he has any role to play concerning the rules since he is not real father
How can I be closer to my stepfather, just like as if he was my biological father. And how can I ask my mother and stepfather about my biological father without putting pressure onto them about the question?
First, start referring to your step father as your father. Once you get that sorted in your head, that's a huge big step towards accepting your step father as your father.You can't assume that your mother and father would mind you talking about your biological father without asking them. Just ask them. You won't be putting any pressure on them. It sounds like you are putting too much pressure on yourself making too many assumptions.Talk to your parents about your biological dad.
How to deal with a horrible step father.?
My step father is always treating me differently than his son. Always looking for reasons to get me in trouble no matter how small or even if they dont make any sense. His son is already literaly a felon at age 12 from stealing and violence, and because I do nothing to get in trouble he resorts to nit picking. It does not matter how nice i am to him if im to nice he will take me getting closer to him as me hiding or covering up for something and look for reasons to get me in trouble and over think and stretch the truth or reword things i say to get im in trouble. If i ignore him he thinks i have an attitude and biches for that. here is an example if you have read this so far keep sticking through and try to give me some advice pls. 3 weeks after he got married to my mom he cheated on her and still is they got married last year and he dosent know we know. what do i do to deal with him and stop him from trying to get me in trouble or even stop him from hating me? I mean.. ive never met my real father and i sure in hell dont want him being my only father figure. He says hes the only who gives and we all take from him even tho all he does is work, while my mom also works for same amount of time, cooks, cleans, and is the only reason his son is passing school because she does all of his homework for him. he is never happy unless my mom is pissed off at him and i am in trouble. Ive spent the last hour and a half trying to cut this message down to size for people to read it but the smaller it gets the less and less my message gets accross but anyway, Ty for those who read this message and tried to help i appreciate your help.
My step-dad scares me... What should I do?
keep talking to your mom, dont let him disrespect her or you and if you see him hit her or your dog, call the cops
What should I do if my father beats my mother?
I feel very bad when I remember of this type of moment happened with my mom which my dad suppose to do same thing.I was tolerating this from past 3 years then my limit of patience have crossed then I've taken action against this. Said to day “Back off otherwise I'll do anything” he gave me bad words and pushed me again I said “Back off now it's enough” again he did same thing and I got uncontrolled and start hitting him and pushed him away he felt down and start screaming loudly then he was started making noises to attract neighbors of my besides. No one came in middle of our argument cause everybody know my father that how was he treating us. Then after hitting him I took my mother to local police station to give a compliant of this so we will be secure of giving first compliant.Then after giving compliant when I back to home he was not in the house went out even I grabbed his mobile phone cause he will call unnecessary people in middle of this fight. After this my dad never hits my mother. Then he felt guilt that my son hit me cause I made a mistake and did over.This was my experience which I shared with you. Dude it feels really bad when we see our mother is tolerating this. When we are still alive to safe them. Get up and raise your voice and take action. Don't get afraid of relatives and other people's they are just to have fun and watch action and nothing else. Please give me update if this works.
Help me settle an argument: if you have a step parent, but then your parent divorces them are they still your step parent?
If they feel like your parent, then they are your parent. Let's say your step-dad has been in your life since you were 3 and now you are 17. This man has changed you, took you to school, spent his summers with you, tutored you, supported you. He feels like he is your dad, more than your biological father does. You even call him dad. Now, if your mom divorces him, he doesn't stop being your dad! Don't let labels get into the way of relationships. "Parent" is the person who raised you. Don't let anyone else tell you who your dad/mom is. Your parent doesn't have to be person who "contributed" sperm/egg, or is married to the person who "contributed" sperm/egg. Conceiving a child is comparatively easy. The hard part is raising one
I hate my step dad. What should I do?
Short answer: There's nothing you can do.Long answer: Dealing with parents can be extremely hard. Personally, I lost my father two years ago and my mom almost instantly (two months later) met another man online. My father died in April, my mother met my stepdad in late May, and he lived with us by September. My mother abandoned me for two months with my brother to go stay with my stepdad in Arizona, while I was still grieving. Basically, I have a lot of anger and resentment left over from this. Either way, my new soon-to-be stepdad isn't the best person, to say the least. He treats me much differently (worse) than he treats his own daughter, and says very cruel things to win an argument. He constantly blames me for things I haven't done and my mom believes him, and it's extremely frustrating. Because I broke my phone last month, and currently am unable to pay for my own (my mother is also unable to pay for a nice phone for me), my stepdad pays for it, which is kind, but he uses it as leverage against me. Anything I say wrong turns into me losing my phone for however long he’d like. Usually a few hours. He once gave me a list of things to do in order to get my phone back, so I completed the list and he still wouldn't give it back because he “"doesn't make deals with children.”Our relationship is awful, and he thinks that I like him more than I would admit. I don't, and likely never will.I’m explaining all of this to easily answer your question. No matter how much you hate someone, there is likely no quick, rational solution besides waiting it out. Unless your mother decides to leave him, you'll always be stuck with him. Just try to cope for now.
I got into an argument with my stepdad, and I told him to leave me alone, because he's not my biological father (even though he's the only father figure I've had). What do I do?
Please consider very carefully…My “real dad” might have actually been my step-dad. It’s difficult to get an honest answer from my mother.And he committed suicide on Christmas night, when I was 15, apparently due to feeling he’d been a failure in providing a good home for my brother and me. He loved us dearly and couldn’t talk to us, but also couldn’t cope with the “failure”.Years later, I became the “evil step-dad”. Everybody warned my wife and her 2 sons that I would commit many horrible crimes and indecencies against them. Their “real dad” spanked them into their teens and couldn’t otherwise communicate with them. I spanked them once, each, when they were little, to show them “worst case scenario”. Then never again. But they were always very well behaved with me.No matter what they did I just asked them, “do I have to spank you? Or can you correct your behavior, apologize, and make better decisions in the future?” They never chose the spanking for some odd reason.In my opinion, if your “step-dad” always tried to guide you, love you, respect you, and take care of you, then he might deserve much more in return than a biological father that has an obligation!You are a sensitive and thoughtful person. If you weren’t, you wouldn’t have thought to ask this question. And I suspect you already know the answer. Because if he was a “typical, evil step-dad”, you wouldn’t worry about it.So if you don’t apologize and make things good between you now, it will bother you the rest of your life.