Complimenting a woman without offending her?
Scott, as a wife, and a former young girl with nice breasts, I lovingly and caringly tell you NOT to say anything to young women about their breasts. Your wife will indeed be annoyed and humiliated, and the young girl will think you are a disgusting old pervert. She will not be flattered: she has her breasts out to attract hot young guys, not married men. I know my husband looks at other women's breasts (like he doesn't get enough at home lol), but he's got the sense to keep quiet about it.
Is it ok for my boyfriend to touch me whenever he wants to? Sometimes he’ll just lift up my shirt and touch my breasts at home. I’ve told him not to, but he still does. Am I overreacting?
Girl. I feel you, I FEEL YOU. I was seriously shocked I hadn't written this question myself and had to double check. There is nothing worse than being all relaxed on the couch after a hard day at work, ready to get your Pinterest on, when the claw comes out of nowhere to “fiddle the dials.” Or you are dozing so peacfully and suddenly your man pulls a reacharound and decide to pretend your boobs are dough that needs to be kneaded. I hate it, so much.Okay here's the thing. Most hetero guys love all of our soft bouncy bits. They want to touch, bounce, and play with them. Which is cool, except for the fact that they're attached to our body. Same issue with my boyfriend. He didn't get that it actually HURT when he did some of those things, or that it was extremely fucking annoying to have my nipples played with when I'm trying to do something else.After multiple conversations he still wasn't getting the picture. He thought I was over reactin. Society and porn had been telling him for years that girls boobs are to be played with, at that women thrust their bosoms forward in orgasmic exctasy when properly stimulate. What are my humdrum complaints going to do against THAT picture?So what's a girl to do?Balls.These soft squishy penduluma were put on this eath to protect women from unwanted nipple pinches everywhere. They are vulnerable. They are weak. And in today's sweatpant society they are oh so exposed.Flip them. Not hard, you aren’t aiming for pain, but the extremely uncomfortable experience of having a sensitive area constanl stimulated in a not so pleasant way. Hook a finger under them and make a quick “"come hither” motion with your finger. The balls will flip upwards and then bounce back down, not a painful feeling, but not a great one either.Shocked the heck out of my boyfriend.He demanded to know why I had started doing this. I spouted back everything he had said about playing with my boobs.“What? It's fun!”“Come on it doesn't hurt.”“We’re dating! You're my man!”“They're just so bouncy!”Kept it up for a few days. Guess what my boyfriend doesn't do anymore?That tip aside, if he REALLY continues to not respect your bundaries you need to have a serious talk with him about how uncomfortable it makes you feel. If he doesn't care, well then you know he doesn't care that you are upset and uncomfortable and what's the point in being with a man like that?
Can a man get vasectomy done without his wives consent?
If a woman has the legal right to the reproductive rights of her body, then it only makes sense that a man has the reproductive rights of his body as well. Legally he should be able to have a vasectomy any time he wants.
Should I let him do whatever he wants to me in bed?
Alright this might sound a little wierd to you guys but I am at the end of my ropes here, I try to please my man in bed anyway I can. mainly cause I don't want him going anywhere else to get what he wants. Well the thing that he likes the most is doing me anally. At first I thought it would be like a one time thing but now thats all he ever wants to do I get no pleasure obviously but he gets so mad at me if I don't let him. If we have a session where he tried to do me his way and I didn't want it that night afterwards he will just treat me like crap. Am I wrong for wanted a little bit of pleasure on my end without feeling guilty about it?
What signs do (shy) women give to show interest in a guy?
To tell if a woman likes you, you will always have to look at her actions, not her words!Luckily, although she will never straight up tell you how she feels, a woman will give you subtle signs that she likes you or not. If she’s attracted to you, she will give you indicators of interest.Indicators of interest are behaviours from a woman which show that she’s in to you. When a woman is attracted to you she will respond by showing some of these indicators, consciously or unconsciously.If you want to learn how to seduce a woman, it’s key that you learn how to read these signals.Be careful!! Just because she is showing ONE of these signs does not mean she’s interested! But, learn to take notice of the signs she’s giving you and use your natural intuïtion to adjust to the situation! Always make sure you’re getting multiple clear signs!Here they are:Touching of hair / adjusting and modifying her hairAdjusting her blouse / Letting her dress fall off her shoulders, showing additional skin / Taking off layers of clothesShe starts re-applying her lipstick to look betterTouching herself: for example sliding her hand along her neck or collarboneConstant licking of her lipsProlonged eye contact, accompanied with a smile / smiling with er eyesFrom a distance: briefly breaking eye contact and then locking in againHer body language is open and directed at youPhysical proximity / She’s always leaning into youWhile talking to her, she sticks around instead of making excuses.She accepts you touching her or even touches you back.She lets you come closerShe agrees when you ask her to go somewhere and she goes along with you.She lets you be alone with her. She would stay nearby the protection of her friends if she’ wasn’t interestedShe agrees when you ask her to danceShe comes back to your place. She knows things might escalate in that situation. If she’s not interested, she will find an excuse.When you try to escalate physically, she lets youShe moves closer when you lean in for a kissShe lets you put her arm around her.She laughs at all your jokes, even when they’re not funny.She lets you move her around the venue wherever you want to go.She holds your drink when you ask her to.She starts asking you about your love lifeShe mentions she’s singleShe’s constantly giving you complimentsShe starts to qualify herself to youShe’s constantly touching youShe acts differently around you compared to her baseline behaviour—-THE MANLY MEN BLOG—-
My husband had a vasectomy without telling me what should I do?
You have the right to feel however you want. But what makes you think that your wishes should take precedence over his? He told you he wanted to stop at 2. I do have to laugh at the audacity and hypocrisy of some of the women answering this question. How many of you would advise a woman to do whatever she wishes in the event of an unplanned pregnancy, despite what the father wants, simply because she's a woman and it's "her body"? She should be the one to decide if she keeps the child, gives it up for adoption, or has an abortion, right? Yet when a man makes a decision about how many children he wants and takes action to avoid creating any more children, he's accused of being a "jerk", of "disrespecting" the woman, "he had no right", HOW DARE HE!!!!!! Clearly, you view men as nothing more than either breeding stock or sources of income to support you and "your" children. Give your heads a shake and grow up.
Ladys is this how you want a man to see you??
The way i look at a woman is for her personality more so than her looks. i belive that no mater how ugly or beautiful a woman can be, her body is like clay it can b molde and shaped but the personality is what amplifies ones true beauty. after all, isnt it the ingreadients that make the food taste good or is it the way it looks? thats my philosophy of how to treasure a woman. lust is an ever lasting cycle thats never saticfied but love is an everlasting path that takes you to highre places. what do you think ladys?? is this how a man is supose to think of a woman because i do but it seems to never get me a GF
Why do women wear revealing clothing?
I am noone's boyfriend or parent. But I am well-qualified to answer this question since I am a woman myself.I would never date or marry someone who believes that he can "allow" me to do something. I am not a child, I am a grown woman. I don't mind someone close to me suggesting that a particular type of clothing might not be appropriate for an occasion or a place, but I am also free to ignore the suggestion. I don't ask anyone for permission to wear what I want to.My mom does give her opinion about things I wear sometimes. Most of the times, I agree with her and sometimes I don't. But thankfully, she is also quite aware that in the end, what I wear is my choice and she can only advise (and not order me) to wear or not to wear something.I have a sister and I give her advice about what to wear when she asks, else I keep my opinions to myself.Why should I confine myself to "comfortable clothing"? What is "comfortable clothing"? Some of the clothing you described sounds comfortable enough to me. In the question details OP you say that you don't think revealing clothing leads to rape. Then what's the problem with wearing the clothes you describe as revealing? Or is it that you think that it leads to other sexual offences such as sexual harassment, etc. (sections 354A-D of Indian Penal Code)? As with rape, men who commit these offences don't commit them because women wear revealing clothes. Those who want to act in such a way do so regardless of what the victim is wearing. It seems a lot easier for the Indian society to blame women for attracting "unwanted attention" instead of placing blame on those who do pay such "unwanted attention". It's really simple, my body is my own and I can wear whatever I want to wear as long as it does not violate any laws. Your body is your own and you can do whatever you want with it, unless and until you invade the personal space of another person, such invasion may be unlawful and may lead to legal consequences.Men themselves can certainly wear shorts and walk down a street without being sexually harassed because of it. And noone's asking them not to. So "revealing" clothing is not the cause. So the question is why shouldn't women wear "revealing" clothing if they want to? What harm does it cause?
Girls; What if your boyfriend got circumcised without telling you?
My ex used to ask me if I ever wish I had it done as a baby, and if I'd do it to my son, and if I think I would miss the skin if I had it done. Was she hinting she wanted me circumcised? I ended up having it done at age 22, two weeks before we broke up. It is much better, and the girls I've been with since have had a good response to it. Anyway, why wouldn't my ex just right out and say she wanted me to get circumcised? Would you girls tell your boyfriends that if he was uncut and you wanted him to get it done? I did say I would probably get my son done as a baby b/c I heard it's cleaner that way and prevents infections. She just replied with, "Yeah, I heard the same thing." I believe I did mention to her briefly that I "could get it done [now]" and after that I told her I heard it could give her a type of cancer, me being uncut. She replied, "You're not gonna give me cancer." So that confused me what she really wanted. Like I said, I did it two weeks before we broke up...and I didn't tell her about it so she never knew. Do you think I should have told her about it? Girls, would you be mad if you're boyfriend did that without telling you?