I think we like each other ?
We work together in a nursing home.. Last night was our Christmas party. .. i fell in the bathroom he picked me up and kissed me we stopped because there were other work people there.. We all stood outside the hotel things were a bit awakward he asked me if I was ok I said yeah. I started smoking because he does and he told me that I don't have to amokw to impress him When we're at our friends house he gave me his jacket because it was cold.. We were sitting on the couch together we were holding hands caressing each other he started to fingear me every now and then we could squeeze each other's hand tightly When we got a taxi home he got out first.. Our other friend went on and we kissed and held hand I asked him for a kiss and he said of course I told him I liked his kisses... I told him that I was in at 2 o clock that day he said he would come up to the floor. .. He did today but was told to leave by the nurse because of a bug so I didn't get to see him does he like me?
We both think we dont deserve each other?
A lot of good relationships start off with that feeling. However, your case and your boyfriend's case, as you say, stems from an insecurity. It can be difficult to maintain a relationship like this, when the both of you feel rocky, so you will both have to support each other and have patience with one another. Help each other by picking one another up when you're down; please don't ever feed off of each others' negativity, or else things will go downhill fast (especially if there's ever the moment where one person wants to break up with the other person). If you or if he feel like this relationship is wrong for any reason, don't do it. Don't allow a relationship to be a stress in your life, because it sounds like you have some stress that you need to address first and foremost already. A good relationship makes your life better, and don't forget that it should make his life better too. Make sure you both agree on that aspect.
Do you think it's weird that people who look like each other are attracted to each other? Don't opposites attract?
Let’s look at these two things separately based on what we know from psychology research on attraction:First, Opposites do not attract. This is widely pervasive myth in popular psychology. The majority of friendships and relationships are built on similarity. In other words, “Birds of a Feather Flock Together”. I have provided more information on why this is the case in a Quora question I answered previously: “Do you think the opposite personalities attract?”.Second, the phenomenon you are describing whereby people tend to partner with someone who looks like them is related to Assortative Mating. With assortative mating, people are more likely to seek out similar social factors (e.g., education, wealth, etc.) as well as phenotypic (observable) traits like height, weight, skin color, hair color, and facial symmetry in a romantic partner.Why does this occur? Several factors influence our mate preference. For instance, people find comfort in familiarity. All things familiar equate to safety and comfort. This is also the case with physical features. We tend to find comfort in seeing our own features in other people. If you think about it, you are likely familiar and comfortable with your own features because you see yourself in the mirror and pictures constantly. Another factor is proximity, we tend to partner with people who are nearby, not thousands of miles away. Those nearby people are likely to share a similar genetic inheritance to our own. Interestingly, several studies have found that assortative mating is actually affecting our genomic architecture, with certain traits (e.g., height) being more likely to be passed on to the next generation. Here is a recent study in the journal Nature Human Behaviour describing these effects:Genetic evidence of assortative mating in humansSo, is this weird? Well, it sounds weird but the reality of our social worlds and our psychology suggests that this is all actually quite normal.
What do you think that two people must have in common to connect with each other?
When my wife and I married we loved each other passionately. Wanted to spend every moment and our lives together.And had almost nothing in common.I hiked, snow skied, sailed, drove sports cars, flew airplanes and practiced karate.Her family adventure was Sunday afternoon ping pong.She was really good. And she beat me most of the time.And it really annoyed me.When we got married and were together 24/7 on the weekends suddenly we realized we had few common interests.And that could have driven us apart.See, my wife and I are complete opposites. Probably what drew us to each other.And definitely what drives us crazy sometimes with each other.Yet, we have a few things in common which keep us together.First, our core spirituality.It guides us, gives meaning to our lives, gives us grace for each other and glues us together.Second, our world perspective.We differ but fundamentally see the world from a similar vantage point.Third, a passionate desire to make our marriage great.Both of us committed to each other for life. So we both work on making our marriage a jewel.Out of that love, we’ve both made an effort to support and participate in the other’s interests.She learned to snow ski and sail.I go occasionally to garden shows.She refuses to participate in karate.And I refuse to play her in ping pong.Not long ago we were sitting in the living room after dinner talking.I said, “You know, it’s been quite an adventure.”“Yep, it really has,” she responded.“We had no idea what the hell we were doing when we started,” I went on.She laughed, “Yeah, maybe that was best.”“Probably, but we made it work. And I wouldn’t trade our adventure for anything.”“Nope, me either. But then I don’t think we can.”“Yeah, I don’t think there’s a warranty.”To build a great marriage you don’t need everything in common only what’s most important.
Do you think it is important for your family and friends to like each other?
Thanks for A2A Anisha Patel In "family and friends like each other"When ever you brought friends to your home, Usually your parents interact with them like "Indian casual conversation." In this conversation parents analyse your friends completely and correlate you with their behavior and answers. When my friends are visiting my home for past 15 years, they treat my friend as a family. Same happens with me in their home. Actually its good thing for family and friends to like each other. It will sustain relationships better and this make healthy and confident environment. In some situations where relatives fails to help us, our friends are ready to do sacrifices.-------------------------------In "family and friends doesn't like each other"They never hate each other, they have little curiosity and gratitude for each other.
Do you Think Alex Rodriguez and Jason Varitek still don't like each other?
I'm sure they are not the best of friends, but I think they have a lot of respect for each other. They were teammates at All-Star games and at the World Baseball Classic in 2006. In the heat of competition, emotions can boil over, and they both are smart enough to understand that. I bet if they were on the same team, they would become good friends, because they are two of the hardest working players in baseball who will do whatever they can to win.
What do European countries think of each other?
What do European countries think of each other?There are some 40+ countries in Europe, which means that there is a grid of at least 40x40 combinations of prejudices.But here are some prejudiced views, in no particular order:And of course:…how the heck can we even have a union?
Do you think Turks, Italians and Greeks are like each other?
I live in Greece, I've been in both (Southern)Italy and (western)Turkey but also in Spain. I've only visited those places for 2-3 weeks each as a tourists so I can't make an extremely solid argument.In my opinion Spain and Spanish people are the closest to Greeks. It was the place I felt more comfortable and like home. From the weather to the mentality of the people. The building’s architecture is inspired by the Greco-Roman one and it sure brings a warm feeling, unique to it's kind. I also had the pleasure to meet and hang around with quite a few Spaniards and one Mexican actually! The experience was nothing like what I expected and far greater than my trips to Turkey and Italy. I've been to many countries in and out of the EU and Spain is by far my favourite destination.Turkey sure has more similar cuisine and music to Greece but so does the rest of the Balkans. Other than this in one subject I believe Spain is the winner on everything else.Ohh and coffee, Europeans.....their coffee is horrible. Undrinkable.
What do you do when you and this guy both like each other, but you both are too shy to do anything about it?
If you know that he is single go ahead and give him a hint that you really like him and want a relationship with him.I am in a fresh relationship with a girl that i liked back in freshman year at the university. Her friends told me she liked me and i told them i liked her too but i was too shy to make a move. We both knew that we liked each other but were too shy to make a move.It continued on for the last 6 years and just last month i gathered some courage to ask her out. She told me she’d go out with me without a doubt. Man we both had to wait for the other to make a move and it took us 6 years to finally get into a relationship.Since this is a fresh relationship i can’t tell you how it’s going… My advice is for you to give him a hint to encourage him to make a move as a man. I know every girl wants to be pursued. You want the man to make the first move. Sometimes the man does not make the move because he fears rejection and trust me rejection to some male is a bitter experience.Anyway, i hope you twos work something out and see where it takes you twos…PS: Can you please at least update me if this works out or not…interested to know. :)