Why are weddings so emotional?
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Why do I feel sad at weddings?
Elizabeth is right. A wedding is an artificial situation. A show, in many respects. It can be kind of cheesy, and often extravagant. Especially when it's a couple who is getting married for reasons other than a burning desire to spend the rest of their lives together. (In other words, most couples.)I don't go to a lot of weddings anymore, but in my 20s and 30s I sure did, and I remember often feeling not sad, exactly, but kind of weird. Like, "I'm supposed to be feeling joyful and happy for these people, but all this Little Prince shit is a bit over the top", considering the bride had previously confessed that she was marrying the groom not because he was her dream man but because of his job and family connections. 'I'll make it work, she said.' And she did; they just celebrated their 20th anniversary and are very happy.I've been to a lot of weddings, and I've seen many divorces and bad situations happen. But I've also seen things work out, and sometime you can't tell from the wedding how things will end up.If I were you, I wouldn't try to read too much into it. A wedding is just a show, and a party. Be thankful that you live in a society where there is an over abundance of food and drink (too much food will only hurt you if it ends up in your mouth, BTW). Try to live in the moment, but if you can't (and you find yourself rolling your eyes or cringing during parts of it) that's OK, too.
Why do you think the Red Wedding from Game of Thrones is so sad?
Sad?!?!?!That would be like the fifth emotion I list when describing the impact of the incident in the books and TV show.TraumaticVisceralSurprisingAnger-inducingSadAnd then probably some deeper reactions involving a nod of acknowledgement toward the author for:Successfully achieving all of that emotion in one sceneThe inevitability of it, yet the ability to surpriseThe courage as an author to kill off (another) loved Stark; two technically.But, to answer your question, the sadness comes from the lose as a reader of characters we have come to respect, even love. Not despite, but because of their flaws and mistakes, they are humanized and someone we relate to strongly. And they are “dead” now, which triggers a part of our brain that feels loss. (In truth, they are fictional characters and were never alive, but out brains are complicated things and can extend a temporary “reality” to fiction we are watching. At least if it is written well and plausibly done.)
What are most emotional/sad moments in game of thrones?
I don't really see a lot of things in game of thrones to be sad, sinister and macabre yeah!! Shocking, Absolutely!! But not really sad, that being said they have been moments it the show where they pulled my heart strings, and they all involve lannisters, the first would be Jaime lannister and one hand telling the truth about killing the mad king, I was touch, I felt his pain, I felt sorry for him,I mean by what right does the wolf judge the lion. But most of the sad moments for me involved tyrion lannister, his conversation with his father when he asked tywin to tell him one thing he had ever done that was solely for the benefit of house lannister alone and nothing else,and tywin responded “the day you were born,,,,I was to carry you down to the river and let the waves wash you away” that was harsh.Then there's tyrions trial, when he realizes shaes betrayal and he demands a trial by combat,that speech!! Brilliant!! Peter Dinklage sold that scene,I felt his pain . and finally, when oberyn decides to be tyrions champion, their whole conversation before he says“ I will be your champion”incredibly touching. Tyrion for me carried the emotional core of that season
I am feeling emotional that my wife will leave her parents, they will be sad after her wedding and I will cry along with her in the Vidai ceremony. What should I do?
Who sets the rules for the way you live if not you? Choice is a powerful gift all humans have and should exercise. Part of adulthood is to “leave” your parents’ nests and start your own life, especially when you get married. Best thing you can do is create a great life for your new family and than have the parents visit. Tears are natural, express them freely. No reason to hold back emotions. Every culture deals with these things differently but at the end of the day, we not others are responsible for our life’s experiences so if she cries and you will cry with her, so be it. Showing emotion is a strength not a weakness. Those who fear to show vulnerability because they think others will think less of them or take advantage of it, look down on emotions. In either case, you should not worry about such people.And btw, isn’t the east (India) teaching us (the westerners) about life and living in happiness and peace through Buddhism, Yoga and Meditation? which includes being one with self and our emotions?Time to practice what you guys preach :)
Which do you hate more? Weddings or funerals?
Weddings: I think they're great and I love to dress up. I've never rented an outfit in my life, even if I wear the fancy dress once I feel better knowing it's mine and nobody's worn it before when I wear it, I get to show it off, look decked out at a beautiful setting with amazing food and friends/family to party with, it doesn't get any better. Funerals: I wouldn't say I HATE them, obviously if I'm attending one it is for the loss of someone I knew and cared about so it's not their fault they died. I personally have never seen any crocodile tears, in fact it tends to be the opposite me and a friend will comment something along the lines of "I can't believe so and so is barely shedding a tear." I am an emotional person so funerals make me very emotional, sad and it's beautiful to see everyone together in a very somber mood, bidding farewell to a human!!! I'll go! Also I went to a memorial where I had met the dead person only once 2 years before he died and was crying a lot, it wasn't fake, it's just sad when people especially if they were good ones die and the sadness they leave for their families is moving. I don't think anyone is trying to show off or put on fake tears, that would be psychotic but I guess it happens.
Why do people cry during weddings?
because were happy for the cuple
Why do people cry at weddings?
why do people cry when someone says will you marry me like its not like someone die you literally look so stupid right now crying for what? “will u marry me” “WHAAAAAAA OMG IM SO SAD WHAAAAAA” like why? i know someone is gonna be like saying “they are crying of happiness” but thats not what i mean, why are they happy? being married means nothing its just a status and i can walk across an isle looking all pretty any other day.