Can my 20 year old boyfriend get in trouble if im pregnant(16 years old) and i have 4 months to turn 17?
My boyfriend and i have permission from my parents to date and they know that we've been having sexual relationships(well i haven't told them but i know they know)if i get pregnant before being 17 can my boyfriend get in trouble when im already in labor because he had sex with me when i was 16? I live in texas by the way. Thanks for the help!
My boyfriend wants to give me his grandmother's ring- which I don't like. Help!?
My boyfriend and I have been together three years and we've been living together for the past year. We even have a cat together. We know we're going to get married; it's no secret. His mother already introduces me as her daughter in law. That being said I am still very eager to get "officially" engaged. The other day he brought up his great grandmothers ring. He described it to me and I gave him my honest opinion. The ring is almost comically the exact opposite of what I like. It's a yellow gold, solitaire, emerald cut diamond. I hate yellow gold, don't like solitaire rings because I always end up snagging them on things like my hair and clothes, and I very much dislike an emerald cut. Long story (and argument) short, he's upset with me. I'm feeling confused, because why would he ask my opinion of it if he only wanted me to say that I like it? I've sent him ideas of rings that I like before so that he would have a good idea when he went to pick one out. He says I'm being stuck up and rude by not liking the ring. I offered the idea of getting it plated in white gold because that is the part I dislike the most; but that didn't seem to make things any better. His argument is that it was his great grandmothers ring (who he was close to) and that I should just accept the ring for what is symbolizes. And I understand that, but I've just always imaged actually liking my ring. The fact that it's gold means that my wedding band will have to be too. Now he says he's not going to give me it at all because he knows I won't like it. Now it's my fault that we won't get engaged any time soon because he won't have the money. I guess my question is, am I really being that selfish? I told him that if he had surprised me with that ring I would have accepted it- but he asked my opinion and I gave it to him. I offered the alternative of plating it and I've shown him rings sets before that are about $700. I feel guilty, but also disappointed.
Should I make my daughter break up with her boyfriend?
oh wow...that happened to me a few years ago! well my parents really pushed the break up...however, i'm so glad they did! the problem is this guy is a hardcore loser and she's too "in love" to see his true colors. he sounds like he's kinda possessive...why is he at the school?? and why is he texting her at school?? if he really cared about your daughter he'd want the best for her and tell her to concentrate on her studies instead of him all day!! i say push the break up super hard, besides she'll only hate you for a few weeks! LOL it's for her own good... and she'll realize it afterwards. and if you have to go to the extent of a restraining order then so be it. your daughters life and future mean a whole lot more than this guys crap!
How do I deal with my boyfriend having a baby with another girl?
There might be 2 cases involved.It happened after you came into his life.It happened before you came into his life.In both the cases,Leave him.The reason is pretty simple,If it happened after you came into his life,that means he cheated,that means he doesn’t love you.So i don’t see any point of being in such a relationship.You don’t want to be hurt again right?so just leave him.And if it happened before you came into his life,then too leave him.The reason is still pretty simple,Now he is going to become a Dad,he is somwhere responsible for the baby. He should stand on his reaponsibilites which currently he is not(because he left her and met you).He should go back to her,apologise,and fulfill his responsibilities.Currently he is cheating both of you,so both of you should leave him but yes the responsibility of the baby is on his head.I think that would help.
Moving in with boyfriend/baby's daddy?
Background: I am 20 yrs old, my boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half. We have 2 month old baby. Problem: My baby and I currently live at home with my mom, 2 sisters, brother, and cousin. My boyfriend and I want to move in together so we can both be equally involved in our child's life. Right now its really hard for me not having my boyfriend around 24/7 to help with our baby especially at night. The problem is my mom is COMPLETELY against couples living together before marriage. If I even tell her that my son and I are sleeping over to my boyfriend's apartment she gets PISSED. She feels as if a man will never marry you if you move in before marriage. I understand what she's saying however we have a baby together therefore I feel as if we both need to be here for our baby. He comes to my house to visit with me and the baby but then he has to leave me alone with OUR baby. I dont want to start problems with my mom however I want to do what's best for my baby.
How do you deal with an ex-girlfiend who lets their boyfriend read all your letters, steals precious things from you, and controls who you get to see?
OK first you can not control who she lets read letters from you, so if they are old letters…let it go, and if they are new letters, STOP WRITING TO HER. Sorry to shout but I wanted your full attention there. Do not write to your ex, they are an ex let them go do not attempt to win them back. It may seem you can not live without them, and that you will never love anyone the way you love them, but you can live without them, and I promise you will love again, and possibly even more deeply than before.You mention that this person is “stealing precious things from you”. Stealing what, and how? The ex should have no access to your residence, or personal space, so I am wondering how is this possible. So please clarify this for me as I do not understand.How is it they can control who you get to see? Are you a prisoner in her home? Is she your legal guardian? Are you an invalid shut in with no ability to go anywhere on your own? If not one of these situations then I can not imagine a scenario where she could control who you see without you allowing her to do so..You are the captain of your own fate, and the master of your own destiny….Why are you giving this ex power in your life? Go to total non contact, move on in your life by focusing on bettering yourself and pursuing your own personal growth interests, i.e. art, cooking, camping, making mead, whatever tickles your fancy as long as it helps you to grow for you. Donate time at a local shelter for animals, abused children, the homeless, even a suicide hotline. By doing these things it will bring you out of your own troubles, and your own self pity and makes you realize how wonderful it feels to help others.Learn to love yourself, respect yourself, don’t give others this kind of power in your life. The key to your happiness belongs to you it can never belong to, or be held by another.a
My boyfriend had a fight with a guy who catcalled me. I said it was stupid, and he expects me to appreciate his bravery. What should I do?
The only thing that is is stupidity he goes out an assults a guy thinking he is Bad only to find himself getting stabbed, shot, or in JAIL for attacking somebody. It won't make a difference when his but is in jail or 6 feet under. I know from past experience 2 guys had problems and one went to show his love, and shot the other one dead on his doorstep. They BOTH lost one in pen for murder (life sentence), and other went to the cemetery. Being a hot head gets you in trouble assulting someone that was flirting with you won't lead to nothing but, and the next time it could be worse and he won't live to regret(prison Time) his mistake.
My boyfriend cheated on me. He was dating another girl at the same time while he was dating me. I broke up with him, but I still hate him very much. I think he should pay for that. How can I get revenge?
By loving yourself enough to know that you should stop linking yourself to such a lowlife. You are worth more than continuing to make yourself sick from acts of a coward. The more you linger in the hate and anger you keep yourself stuck in the past with the cheater. Acknowledge that you are in a much better place and no longer in a relationship with such a loser. Also, be proud of yourself that you did not decide to stay with him. You know your worth! You need to drop him out of your mind like you dropped him out of your life. You can do it. Do NOT WASTE YOUR PRECIOUS TIME on seeking revenge on someone who is NOT WORTH IT!!! They will reap what they sow.
My parents and sister say they will disown me if I marry my boyfriend; what to do?
This is so tricky, because it's tempting to say you should just create your own life and ignore your bigoted parents. But you're obviously close to them, and this is never as easy as it sounds. However, if you give up your bf for them, this will taint your relationship with them forever. One thing did occur to me. When you have these conversations, is it with both parents? Have you ever tried approaching just one of them - whichever one you're closest to, or whichever one is most reasonable? When this type of thing comes out of the blue, it's usually being "driven" by one parent, and the other supports his/her spouse, but is doing so out of misguided loyalty. All you need to do is get one of them on your side. Also, have you asked them to be very specific about what is so bad with being Muslim? You say they are both immigrants to the US. Are they the same race, nationality and religion? If not, why did they get to marry outside the box and not you? I'm just trying to think of rational arguments you can put forth instead of just saying how much you love him, which probably won't budge them much. Another fear they may have, partly spawned by some movies, is that US women who travel to countries with Muslim husbands sometimes can't return. Is this an issue with them? When all is said and done, if they refuse to stand by you, then this is really a choice no one can help you with, because no one has your set of parents and your specific boyfriend. But I'd almost be tempted to stick with him only because, if this is given to you as an ultimatum, and you give up your bf, your relationship with them will never be the same, anyway.
What is more precious, love or money?
If you have money, love follows you.But the other way around is not the same.Money or love. The importance lies on the situation you are in.Case 1:Tomorrow is your girlfriend's B'day. You decide to give your love as a gift for her B'day. The next day you see her, wish her B'day, hug her and you say ‘ I'm giving my love as my gift. This is the best gift that a boyfriend can give it to her girlfriend ‘. She will be very happy, she may even broke into tears and float in heaven thinking that she has the best bf in the world.But, you know she loves teddy bears. When you went shopping together, she saw a teddy bear through the glass doors of the shop and her eyes filled with tears that she could not buy it. You looked at her and decided to buy her that teddy as a present. Now, you gift her that teddy for her B'day. Do you think that giving love would have been the best choice?Nah!!You could always give your love to her, but these small things that matter in a relationship really creates that bond between the couple. Here, money wins love.Case 2:You are a young lad working in a big MNC in abroad and far away from your family. You do good in your job and your bank balance soars so high and you have all the comforts that a normal guy couldn't even imagine. But, still you feel incomplete.You start to think with a cup of coffee, I have everything in my life,but I'm missing something. You fall on your bed and close your eyes for a minute.Suddenly you could see your mother in front of you asking ‘ what happened son? You don't look OK. ‘You realize now that all these money can't match a caring word from mother. Here, love wins money.You always need money and love in your life. It can never be compared with each other.