My best friend wants to kiss me. What do I do?
I’m kinda experiencing the same situation right now… (except I’m a guy)A couple days ago, I was texting my best friend (who is a girl) in the middle of the night and we got bored. She suggested playing the question game… and since I was bored, I said “sure y not”. We ended up talking about what makes us horny, sex fantasies, favorite sex positions, etc… and then it got to the point where we were exchanging nudes. I personally did not ever have feelings for her, but for some reason, I got out of control and shit happened… I’m still not sure why.The next morning I woke up very confused about the night before, because me and her have been friends for a long time, and not once have we ever done something like this. She later called me and asked if I wanted to come over to watch Netflix or whatever. I didn’t bring up last night because I wanted to avoid an awkward phone call.When I got to her house, the sun was already setting and so her room was dark. I casually laid down next to her and she turned on Netflix, I still didn’t mention last night. After about 30 minutes, she started moving closer to me and slowly grinding against me. I pretended not to notice, but then she said “fuck it” and hopped on to me. At this point, I was really confused and had no idea what to do. I stopped her as she tried to kiss me and said “WTF?!!”, because I wasn’t about to fuck my childhood best friend. I immediately pushed her off and said “Listen… I don’t know what was up with me… or you last night, but I’m not ready to take our friendship in “that” direction…” She stared at me with much frustration and said, “but i want youuuu… just FUCK me alreadyyyy!” I said “No” again and left.I later called her and tried to explain why I sent her nudes last night, which I wasn’t even sure why in the first place, but she said she understood and said she wasn’t thinking straight too. I guess we just got a little too excited. (2 o’clock in the morning)What I recommend you doing is explain to him that even though you’re curious to kiss him, you don’t want to ruin your friendship by taking things too far. And if he asks why you sexted him, say that your mind wasn’t in the right place at that time, so you made careless decisions.If by any chance, he doesn’t acknowledge your opinion on things, simply give him an ultimatum like “I’m sorry, but if you don’t care enough to put into account my feelings, then this isn’t gonna work” or something like that.Hope you the best of luck!
What does it mean when a girl wants you to kiss her on the cheek?
the girl is not my gf,she is someone at work.....when she grabbed my face and place my lips on her cheek,it kinda suprised me....good thing is that she is not bad looking haha,well yeah...what does this mean i am confused
How do I make a girl kiss me when she doesn't want to?
When I was much, much younger, I did some fairly despicable things. I convinced a girl to kiss me in exchange for a pack of cigarettes when I was ~13 or 14. When 14 years old, I emotionally manipulated another one to let me feel her up underneath her bra in return for a promise to convince my best friend to consider dating her... I did not follow through on the promise.Looking back, these acts of deviance make me cringe. I was a scummy, crummy little shit back then. Horniness makes us do and think very stupid things. Unlike others here, I won't judge you or mock you for asking the question. I assume you are young--like I once was--like all of us once were. We all make mistakes.Just be sure you don't make any that land you in jail or ruin your future or your future reputation.Why don't you try talking to this girl and getting to know her? Be genuine and be direct. Why don't you try buying her some flowers or trying to find out (by asking her directly or by asking others who know her) what her interests and her difficulties are? Try to support the former and to help alleviate the latter. Don't be a nice guy just in the hopes of getting in her pants. That won't work. That never works. I speak from experience. Be yourself. Be confident in who you are. Easier said than done I know, but stick to it, and things will work out eventually.Girls turn into women. You will turn into a man. It all gets easier.Best of luck.
My girlfriend doesn't want to kiss me? Help please?
Hey everyone. Me and my girlfriend have been going out just over a month now and today I found out that she does not want to kiss me at all. A few days ago, she told me that she wasn't ready and she said to just wait one more month. Then today, we were talking about kissing, making out and sex and those kinds of stuff. Her birthday is on December 6, where she will turn 18. So as a joke, I told her that I can give her birthday sex since she will be old enough. But she tells me that I will be too young. My birthday is on December 9, just 3 days after her birthday, and I will turn 17. Yes, she is older than me. So I told her that I can give it to her once I turn 17. Then she told me that she doesn't want it on her birthday. So I asked her if she even wanted it at all. And she said no. Then I asked her.. "are we talking about kissing or sex?" And she tells me "both" Then I told her.. "You don't even want to kiss or make out AT ALL?" And she said... "Yea. I don't " I asked her why she doesn't want to do any of these things (kissing, making out, sex, etc) and she says she isn't in a hurry and she tells me that she can wait forever. What does this really mean? It will be my first kiss and it will also be her first kiss. She had only one boyfriend before but he didn't officially ask her out, she just knew that he liked her so they started going out. And she only kissed him once, which was on the cheek. She didn't kiss anyone on the lips and neither did I. But when she tells me that she can wait forever...I don't understand what she really means. And I don't want to ask her what it means because I'm afraid it will make the situation even worse. She tells me that she loves me and only me. She also tells me that she needs me and that I mean so much to her. But she doesn't want to kiss or do any of that stuff. First she tells me to give it time...and now she's telling me that she doesn't want to do it at all and that she can wait forever. I really want to kiss her but I don't want to kiss her if she doesn't want to. She thinks that celebrity guys are hot, so if I were one of those celebrity guys, then would she want to kiss me or make out or do stuff like that? Can someone please help me? Thanks.
I want to kiss her but she has a boyfriend!?
just like everybody else said its a yes and no this same thing happen to me this last summer her boyfriend was gone for the week i know how she flirted and when that happened one day i just kissed her u may think its just goin to be a peck but it wont be both you and her will get into it so what im tryin to say is that you should if you really want to do whats the worst that can happen
I want to kiss my girlfriend in public but she doesn't want to?
my girlfriend doesn't want to kiss me or even just hold my hand in public and it makes me feel like she's embarrassed that she's with me. it hurts me and she knows that because we've talked about this before and she tells me that she's not ready to let everyone know that she's with me and that it's not because she's embarrassed of me. we only get to hang out about once or twice a week because she never can, and sometimes i don't even get to hold her hand. we already talked about it and we agreed that i should just wait until she is ready... but i don't know when that will be, and it really hurts that i can only see her about once a week and don't even get to kiss her or anything. i don't want to break up with her. i love her so much and i can't deal with losing her. what should i do?
Why does my girlfriend ALWAYS want to kiss?
I'm 19, and started dating my girlfriend about 2 months ago. Her parents are over protective, and hardly let us hang out, but when we do, all she wants to do is make out and be intimate. It was cool for the first few weeks because I haven't dated anyone for almost a year, but now it just is becoming kind of a nuisance. I'm trying to get her parents to trust me, but how can I when we're constantly making out in their house? So I guess what I'm asking is, is there some reason why that's all she wants to do? How do I get her to just hang out with me and have a fun time? And please be civil about your answers and don't say I should just enjoy it or blah blah blah. I'm not a horn dog
I want to kiss my girlfriend but she declines, what should I do now?
Firstly we shouldn't impose any thing forcibly from anyone with out their wish and she has her own world ,her own restrictions and her own thoughts.Secondly It's biological that man spending so much time with any girl after a long time gets the urge of trying new things out but it should happen from both sides and it's always man who has to approach first .So don't fear to ask her and talk about how u r feeling openly to her without hesitation and then if things work then it's great and if doesn't then wait for sometime and if u r really good at controlling ur feelings then she will feel safe and she will only approach u