What is Perineal Raphe irritation ? What is it caused from ?
it is usually caused by bacteria.
Relationship Counseling: How do you deal with an arrogant and sometimes unreasonable wife?
You are in almost exact situation as I am. How do I handle this unreasonableness? By being calm, composed, passive and tolerant. I throw my ego out of the window. When she is angry or in bad mood, I have to keep requesting her to cool down and forgive me. I do not discuss whose fault it was, it is always I who say or do something bad to hurt her. I just request her to forgive me and stop stonewalling. This does not mean I have lost any of my self-respect or self-confidence. Outside this relationship dynamics, I am a perfectly normal assertive man and a leader at work.Doing this requires tremendous patience and wisdom. You already understand how important it is to keep things cool in front of your new born baby. Now you need to learn to 'let go' your ego.I also know that this type of problem may require counseling. It may be appropriate for your case if your partner is willing to participate.
Can lotion be used for anal sex?
I guess it would depend on what type of lotion you use, but I wouldn't recommend it only because lotions will burn the anus because of the sensitivity of the tissues, just like getting lotion in the head of your penis or for a female, vagina. There are certain chemicals in the lotion that will cause irritation and burning in the anus. I'd advise you to use vaseline if you need a lubricant, for it's much better. It can be used for the anus as it's mild and helps keep it lubricated. But you shouldn't need it, for I'd recommend using a condom as there are bacterias and germs that can cause you to contract a Urinary Tract Infection. Plus, it's certainly possible to get feces on your penis because feces is ejected there. Be sure that both you and she are ready for anal sex, as it's much more painful than vaginal sex. You must be gentle as not to tear anything or injure the sphincter. Be aware of her feelings and pleasure and not only yours. I'd advise you to wait a little while as 15 is sort of young, but it's up to you. Make sure to be protected in everything sexual that you do with someone until you are ready for the consequences. Hope this helps.
Why do I feel confused, irritable, anxiety, lack of concentration/confidence, and memory loss? I’m 21.
Dear ,when will you go to anywhere. You will have to speak ,so if you are really serious.What is defination of concentration according to you? Everyone has different different meaning of concentration ,according to mind.I want to match your defination of your subconscious mind of concentration ,according to my subconscious mind.This question will alert your )concentration ( Either leave or explain but know the right worth of concentration.Thanks
WHAT DOES SEX FEEL LIKE WITHOUT LUBRICANT I NEED DETAILS?
it will be impossible. clinch one fist and try to push your finger into it. now put a glob of lotion on your finger and do it again---see the difference? well the skin down there is thinner and more sensitive. forcing a penis or anything in without lube can rip your skin and cause irritation. dont do it.
What happens if a client starts to have feelings for his counselor?
There are strict codes of ethics around the client-counsellor relationship; these codes should never be compromised.As harsh as it may sound, feelings are transient. (Please note: I am talking about feelings, separate to the underlying emotions, thoughts and other factors that birth that feeling.) In this type of relationship, acting on an inappropriate (however understandable or common) feeling is not worth the potential damage to the client’s mental and emotional health, or the professional reputation of the counsellor.Has the client let his counsellor know about his feelings? Has he acted on them? How old is he? What is his level of vulnerability? What is his level of ability to deal with his feelings? (There are so many factors to consider.)If he lets the counsellor know that he has feelings for him/her, then it is up to the counsellor to set and ensure appropriate boundaries within their counselling relationship, or discuss appropriate alternatives, eg changing to a different counsellor.If the client is unable to control the expression of his feelings, then it is up to the counsellor to ensure that the client is protected, even from himself if necessary.
Is there any law against my school counselor lying to my parents?
School Counselors are governed by certain confidentiality laws however there are exceptions to those confidentiality laws and situations exist in which school counselors must inform others of the information that they receive which can include the parents, law enforcement, social services ect. and the suspicion of drug use is one of the primary reasons. However Since you get A's and B's it is a bit suspicious that in addition to notifying your parents of possible drug use that she would also complain that you never go to her for help, obviously you dont need to go to her if you are getting A's and B's. The way some people are today I certainly would not rule out the possibility that the school counselor falsely notified your parents of possible drug use as a malicious way of getting back at you for not seeking help from her. In the future you should refuse to have conversations with the counselor and request that your parents or the principle be present during any meetings with the school counselor, do not give her any information without another adult present.