Does Men Like Women Who Cursing Them

How do women feel about men who use bad words while speaking?

When I do think about someone's language, I feel a little irritated if it is obvious that a person is swearing because he thinks it is 'cool'. Well grow up baby, it's not. However for some people I know, it is just the way they speak. Swear words are just another verbal tic to them. I am pretty okay with that! If I can stand a girl saying 'Aww so cute' to everything, I can stand a boy saying 'F**k it' to everything :DIf a situation deserves it, I do not mind anyone swearing. (Come on, you are in exam hall without a pen? F**k is the only suitable word ;D ) Though I do find using a foul word in every sentence a little juvenile. And irritating. I mean, we stopped doing that in eighth standard! Grow up!!However when I call/meet few of my closest female friends from school, we start the conversation with a multipurpose Bengali 'foul'  word :P  So yeah, most of the girls I know from school can be as foul-mouthed as any boy in my college! However the girls in my college do shrink away from foul-mouthed guys. My school and college are in two different states, so I rationalize this difference as 'cultural'. Why they have an issue, well only they can tell. But probably because they have been conditioned from childhood to equate boys who swear to perpetrators of everything bad happening in this universe.EDIT: Come to think of it, almost all the 'foul' words seem to be targeted at girls. We actually made up words in school because, well, most of the swear words made no sense when spoken by a girl. Either we were swearing by something we don't have, or we were basically declaring our homosexuality :P So may be many women feel objectified, victimized and insulted by swear words. Though most men (and women) swear without caring two hoots for what the words literally mean and why exactly they are considered foul, may be to the women who do shrink away from foul mouthed boys, the literal meanings hurt.

Do women find it attractive when men swear?

For me, no. That’s an incredible huge turn off for me.Of course, people may curse or swear occasionally, but if they do it around me, I may ask them to tone it down a bit or not say anything and walk away knowing that that is not someone I would like to be friends with.For me personally, it is more of a “the less you use swear words the more I might consider you”.

Do Japanese women also use rude/curse words the way Japanese men do?

Always? No. Sometimes yes, but certainly less often than most American women do in English.I think Gil Chavez’ remark is the best among these threads: Japanese culture and social relations are contextual. Ask a J national to teach you a dirty word and s/he’ll probably search for the words, “Your question does not compute.” You can't drop an F-bomb, you can't dismiss someone as a bastard (or worse), you can't even question someone’s parents’ species. The nasty thing you mutter under your breath to vent anger is chikushō (literally “birds and beasts”). You can add “feces-dripping” (kusottare) as a general term of abuse, but the nasty part of that, kuso, is quite acceptable from small children in front of teachers, principals and complete strangers. Earwax, boogers, crusties in the corner of your eye, excreta in general are all variations of this nasty kuso, and who would be embarrassed to talk about earwax? Not Japanese.But in the right context (the proper place and time) there are brusque, even crude ways to say things in Japanese. What HS girlfriends say to each other can raise others’ eyebrows. What newly hired office ladies say to each other can embarrass veteran sailors, but if a sailor reveals that he heard and understood those comments, he could permanently damage his relationship with those office ladies (and anyone they know).Every J adult has heard J women say some really nasty things, but the nastiness is in the message, not in the specific words used. J women almost never curse like sailors because they're almost never sailors. For the same reason, J women almost never talk like lawyers, astronauts or medical doctors unless they are speaking in court, working in a space ship, or dealing with medical patients, respectively.Japanese is so contextually dependent that it makes no sense to try to curse like a sailor unless you already are a sailor. This doesn't stop J women from dressing down an offender, but the speech they use tends to be very proper for women; crude language is an inappropriate affectation for most J women.

Does it turn off guys when a girl swears?

The real answer this question deserves is that some men will be turned off by a woman who swears. Why?1)The guy doesn’t swear. If a man doesn’t swear because he finds it unbecoming, he also won’t find it attractive in a woman.2)He DOES swear and finds it to be a masculine trait. A woman who swears, to him, is acting “like a guy” and therefore unattractive to him.3)He doesn’t like the way having a girlfriend who swears looks as his partner. This is something a lot of men come to find as they navigate the business ladder and need a women who is an asset in that endeavor.4)The girl’s swearing is annoying. Not all swearing is equal. Some people appreciate swearing that they think is funny or clever. But many people are not clever or funny in their swearing, just egregious or intentionally offensive.But, on the flip side, some men find a woman who swears to be attractive.