My brother hates me for no reason?
So my younger brother has extreme anger issues that he goes to therapy for but it obviously doesn t work. If I ask him something he gets very offended and starts cussing at me and getting worked up for no reason so I just leave. If II ask him to do something he gets mad and starts screaming and calls me a "slut" "whore" "*****" and that he wants to kill me. There have been times where he has come at me and hurt me in the past. These days he tries to come at me but my parents stop him. Mind you I m a small 19 year old girl thats under 100 pounds and my brother is this really big 15 going on 16 boy that s over 200 pounds. So if he actually attacked me he could really hurt me. The shitty part is my dad is always on his side and says I shouldn t say this or that but honestly those shouldn t be the reasons as to why he wants to hurt me! Its already hard on me enough because I have depression and anxiety what should I do?
When my brother does something "wrong" my parents don't get mad. When I do the same thing, I get in trouble. What should I do?
You have to accept that your parent’s have a favorite. Period. I suggest taking a look at the television show “Everybody Loves Raymond.” Many episodes work, but particularly “Pants on Fire.” Also, episodes “Season's Greetings” “Jazz Records” or “Crazy Chin” are also good ones. Or you can watch the episode of “Friends” titled “Meet the Gellars.”As you say in your comment that your brother agrees with you, it seems as if you two have a good relationship. Is it possible he’d be willing to take some “heat” for you at times? Saying, “No, I did it” so that you don’t get in trouble.Or, better yet, I suggest the two of you watching the above episode(s) with your parents. After it ends, turning off the TV, both of you stand in front of it and say, “Mom and Dad, it is time for an intervention.” Then your BROTHER explains that they are favoring him and how it even bothers him that you get punished for things but he is allowed to get away with the exact same thing. When they argue against it saying that they don’t, have already prepared examples ready to go. Let your brother lead off showing that he as the favorite is ALSO BOTHERED by it.If your parents are anything like the ones in the two television series, nothing will change. But if they are human beings with hearts, they will make an effort to be different.All in all though, learn from their mistakes. Learn to not be like that. Learn to have a set of rules which everyone (including yourself) must follow in the home, so your kids feel respected and loved.
My older brother's mad at me?
He shouldn't be mad, YOU should. He read your journal and he had no right to. If he opened it accidentally, then he still shouldn't be mad because it wasn't meant for his eyes in the first place.
My best friend is dating my brother?
So it all started in October when I knew they liked each other but I never thought it would get this serious. One night she invited herself to sleep over at my house. She kept asking me if we could go to bed because she was "tired." When I fell asleep she went into my brothers room and watched a movie, from what I heard they did, and she fell asleep in his room. I woke up in the morning and she was gone. I saw her walk across the hallway and knew she was in my brother's room. She checked up on me about 3 or 4 times and kept going back to his room. I grabbed my stuff and left. She kept lying about how she didn't use me but she finally admitted it. They are now dating and it really bothers me. She never asked for my permission or anything and she knows it bothers me. She is really the only one making an effort in mine and her friendship cuz I don't really care anymore ever since they started dating. Since then our friendship has slowly gone downhill. Should I be mad still? What should I do? We've already talked over this with each other but it still bothers me.
Should I stay mad my brother for not co signing with me on a new car loan?
last wendesday I went to toyota dealership to get a new car out and they said i need a co signer because i dont have any credit so i called my big brother and he said he didnt want to so we argued now we havent spoken since is it ok for me to be even mad at him or not please help i am
My dad gets mad for absolutely NO reason!!! Please help!?
I'm a 15 year old girl and My dad has serious anger problems! He gets angry when we do the tiniest things! If we leave a cup or a plate downstairs he will throw a huge fit about it and start telling us that we are the worst kids in the world. I like to think that I'm a good girl. I get good grades, I do all my chores, I always listen to what my parents say, buts that's never enough for him! My mom always tells me how much she appreciates me and how I'm a good girl but my dad never points out anything you do right. All he does is point out what you do wrong. My dad has never physically laid hands on us but just a few hours ago I was trying to use the bathroom and I was waiting for my brother to get out and then for my mom to get out and then when it was finally my turn my dad decided that he wanted to spray the bathtub. So I got mad but I just waited next to the door and my dad started to get annoyed so he told me to go away and when I said no he kicked me in the leg! And then when I still wouldn't leave he started hitting me across the back and kicking me until my mom heard and started yelling at him. I'm crying right now as I type this because my dad has never gone that far before. Please help!