Why doesn't he trust me to have guy friends?
All of my best friends are guys,I get along with guys better but my boyfriend doesn't like that all of my friends are male because he thinks i'm sleeping with them all but I'm not.He wants me to stop hanging out with them all and just hang out with him.I do love him,but he's really getting on my nerves,what should I do?why doesn't he trust me,i've never cheated?
How come my friend doesn't trust me?
I have a female friend that I talk to on the phone every now and then. Lately, she's been assuming that I'm with other girls when I'm not talking to her. I feel like she doesn't trust me, and I really don't want to talk to someone who doesn't believe what I say. I mean, it's not even like we're in a relationship or anything...so what gives?
My best friend doesn't trust me?
My best friend is a really nice person and we always have a lot of fun when we are together and we can't ever stop laughing. She's been there to help me through many hard times in my life, and encourages me in many ways. I have confided a lot in her, and my trust in her has never wavered. However, I've just been realizing that she hasn't ever confided anything in me or tells me whatever is on her mind.. It makes me feel bad that she can't trust me, or that she doesn't want to confide in me because it may bother me, but how can I talk to her about this? It seems a bit one-sided in my opinion. What may be the reason behind her not trusting me? What can I do? Please help..
Do you trust your friends?
i trust all my best friends. there cant be a proper friendship with someone without the foundation which is trust - its really important that you know you can trust your friend(s) to know that she/he will always be there for you, will never let you down, or talk behind your back. also, i trust my family :)
What do I do if my “friends” don’t trust me?
Well- I suppose you’d start with asking yourself why they wouldn’t trust you.If you’re not sure- ask. If they’re actually your friends they’ll speak to you about this.I went through several groups of friends where people grew to heavily misunderstand any intentions I had about anything. Eventually they even ostracized me from the group.Sometimes when people are convinced of a misunderstanding and wont hear you out- you should remember that those are the people who aren’t your friends.They did not know you well enough to see this misunderstanding nor did they question it.If that’s the case it’s time to move on.In any scenario it’s best to speak with them first. Express your concerns and worries. Be honest. Don’t leave room for misunderstanding and absolutely listen to their side of the story without interruptions. Respect their time and effort in this. It shows significantly and encourages them to consider your side of the story.I wish you luck no matter what the outcome. I have been here time and time again and have only managed to keep a handful of friends who were patient enough to hear me out. Many friends from those groups would not because they were very stuck in their belief.
Why do none of my friends trust me?
I feel like none of my friends trust me with anything in their life, they never like to talk about their relationships with their gf and not once has a friend ever opened up to me about anything in their life. I mean i have opened up but about small things like back when i had trouble with getting a girl and i needed help. They also have something to say about me and my problems as a person, but they think im so oversensitive that i would cry if a heard it. Now im a tough guy, ive been in fights and my brothers always say things like im weird and a loser, but i always ignore them. I asked my friends what i do wrong to be so weird and annoying but they hide it cause they think ill kill myself. Do you know whats its like to be aware that your friends are hiding things like that from you? they also help eachother with this crap and point out small things but when i ask they kind of smile and say they would never tell me.
My best friend doesn’t trust me as much as he trusts other people. It really hurts because I trusted him a lot. What should I do?
If you trusted your best friend and he does not trust you, you may have to ask yourself what have you said or done that justifies his mistrust. If you feel that you did not say and do something that is the opposite, then the issue is with him.It does not matter if he does not trust you or that you trusts him. It matters that you know that you can be trustworthy and you demonstrate in words and actions in a consistent manner. In time, he may learn to trust you.Remember that trust is earned, never demanded.Either that, you may treat him/her as your best friend but he/she does not. On your part, don’t feel sad or disappointed that they do not value you as much as you value the friendship. If you have treated them well and they do not appreciate it, then you can’t be faulted for being a good friend. You just move on and make new friends who will value you for your friendship.