Does this make me a horrible person!?!??!?! or a Mean Girl???? OBS! THIS IS GOING TO BE KINDA LONG SO OBS!?
So. last week i had a pajama party (valentine theme). So we were talking and someone said ok let's say wich guys we like and we kinda started i had wanted to start so i started . I told them wich guys i liked and well everybody told wich guys they a crush on. 2 days later..... it was monday and we had music i thought that we chould truant but then i regret it so then like Lorena( my enemy i hate her she's the bitchiest person in the world ) heard it and told her friend and her other friend and she kinda stared at me like a creep so me and my friend went up little slow ( we did NOT TRUANT!!) my friend fell and well we went slower we came 6 minute late and then our teacher said you're 10 minute late!!!! i got angry. later lorena and her friend stared at me a and kinda talk in each others ears. i knew that they were talking about me. i started crying and got mad and later i went home crying i told my self that it's enough Lorena and her friends ( Louise, Alice, Anna) have bullied me in 3 years. one year they pretended that i wasn't even there. i made a plan. My plan was to tell Hampus and Sebastian ( The guy they had a crush on) that Lorena, Alice, Louise and Anna had a crush on, next day i kinda didn't wan't to tell them. we had lunch and i was eating my food and i was talking to my friend and i kinda said i can't belive that they have a crush on Hampus and Sebastian. and Sebastian heard what i said and he ask'd me like 2463 time and i said no but then his friend said if you don't tell him i will tell you're boyfriend about the thing that you did ( it was really imberising ) so i toldhim and i wen't away from there then Lorena and her friends came and kinda screamd at me and told me what have we ever done to you. i wanted to laugh beacause it was reallly funny so they got mad i felt sick and i went to the bathroom and almost throwed up. AM I A HORRIBLE PERSON!?????????????????
Why did God make me a horrible person?
If you don't want it to happen, take steps to stop it from happening. Take the responsibility for you own actions like an adult. And, stop blaming others (even God) for what you choose to do... .
I slept with my stepmom! Does that make me a horrible person.?
Yes. You are horrible, because you were an adult, and you knew it was wrong. There is no excuse for what you did. Maybe you are like your father. I feel sorry for your Mum!
I am a horrible person.?
I finally got myself together. I stopped doing drugs and I started to try to manage my anxiety that made me so depressed in the first place. I managed to get through high school with slightly above average grades. I got into a nice college. But then, I let myself into a spiral again. I did fine with grades. I was a music major. I was living out the purpose I always felt I had. But then I met someone who made me feel things for a person I'd never felt before. Which was pretty horrible seeing that I was engaged to a person I had been with for three years. Me and this other man talked. He was one of the few people I could ever really open up to. He made me happy just to be around. We joked- cooked together- talked about philosophy- our families- our lives- and some of our similar experiences of rebirth. (He had also been badly mixed up with drugs at one point, but stopped and was able to get himself together too). We met each other because we we're the only two closet smokers in the mu
I want an abortion, does that make me a bad person?
No, it does not. You’re a fine person. I’m happy you exist.Wanting an abortion isn’t something you choose to do. It’s something that happens to you.So, with that in place, we’re still not sure whether or not you SHOULD get an abortion...First and foremost, there are laws in place that make it illegal for you to have an abortion if you’re late in your pregnancy. If you’re in a place where it’s illegal for you to have an abortion by now, I highly recommend that you forget about it.The combined risk for you, partly from breaking the law, partly from having to accept help from criminals instead of professional medical practitioners, and partly from not being offered psychological assistance with your decision (it’s a hard one) is much greater than the risk you take by just giving birth and giving the child up for adoption. Furthermore, if it’s illegal, it probably also means that you’re so late in your pregnancy that you should consider the ethical aspect. The legal limit is set in attempt to define when an unborn fetus is developed far enough to have some kind of “experience” of being alive (for instance, the ability to perceive pain). You should also respect that, even if you disagree.So that’s all in case an abortion would be illegal. If it’s legal, on the other hand... That means that society has carefully decided that it’s OK for you to choose that you’re not willing to give birth. It’s your body, and your choice. And we’re here to help you. It’s not an easy choice. We’re also here to help you with that.Best of luck, and hugs.
I'm horrible at making conversation...?
sometimes we don't know what to talk about, we think our own lives and hobbies are boring topics, we are very self-conscious and nervous about not making a good impression. so the object is to stop thinking about how we appear to others. the trick is to focus on the other person himself. ask him/her 'have you been here long?' or what course he's in, her job, what he likes about it, has she seen this movie and would she recommend...? pretty soon she'll touch on topic you can talk about too. try to be interested in the other person, and try to make HER comfortable. that way you don't get self-conscious. although of course, there really are people who won't click with you. just smile and don't worry too much about it. it happens. just try again next time.
Does dating my ex-boyfriend's best friend make me a horrible person?
Bit close to the bone,but no doesn't make you bad.I wouldn't do that to my friend,from your exes friends point of view,but hey.It is what it is,and you like each other.
Why does weed make me realize what a horrible person I am?
Give yourself a break weed can make you examine or be more aware of many aspects of self. Do something nice for yourself. unless you’re murdering puppies You can��t be that terrible. if you are work on those aspects of yourself that you deem terrible. Smoking pot doesn’t make you terrible.
Does being ambitious make me a bad person?
After the assassination Brutus goes out to the people to explain that the popular general’s ambition had to be countered. He quite genuinely praises Caesar’s qualities but that one thing – his ambition – could not be tolerated. ‘As Caesar loved me, I weep for him; as he was fortunate, I rejoice at it, as he was valiant, I honour him; but, as he was ambitious, I slew him.’Ambition is rajasic. In Sankrit this word translates as mahatvakaankshaa. Mahatva +Akaankshaa. Desire to be great, successful, powerful. There is nothing wrong with this; every person of substance is ambitious in some way. Person, society, nation and even mankind as a whole has ambitions. Setting a foot on the moon is ambition, just as realising God is ambition. These fuel our efforts towards perfection. It’s only when ambition is immoderate, outrageous and vulgar and crosses limits that it’s detrimental.In Julius Caesar, as the assassins stand around the slain Caesar’s body, Brutus says, ‘ambition’s debt is paid.’You won’t become a bad person if you’re ambitious, just make sure you don’t become a Julius Caesar!
Does it make me a bad person if I feel happy at my uncles misfortunes? My uncle and Aunty are absolutely horrible people and are not my well wishers.
You know, it’s perfectly reasonable for you to kind of feel happy when people who are just horrid are going through difficulties. It’s just a bit of satisfaction at someone getting their just desserts, or karma, as would apply.It’s not bad, and it doesn’t make you a bad person, but you really shouldn’t entertain it too much. You don’t want to alter who you are by enjoying too much the misfortunes of your enemies. Though you can appreciate it, don’t gloat, that becomes malicious when you enjoy it too much, and that has a more malignant nature to it - and that’s what will change you if you get too carried away.