Am i gay??im confused?
first of all, sexuallity is black and white going through every shadow of gray.....what im tryin to say is that there isnt only straight and gay, theres a whole lot in between...saying youre gay or straight is nothing but a stupid label society forces you to put on yourself and others...I like guys mostly, but every once in a while i feel attracted to a girl, thats just the way it is...its nothing to be worried about...perhaps your subconscious is telling you you might wanna try fooling around with a guy just to see if you like it or not, it depends... dont be so afraid, it is what it is, if you feel attracted to a guy or a girl then its no big deal, human beings can like lots of things at the same time so, give yourself some time, dont freak out over it, just take it as it is, something normal and not a big deal, and mostly, dont label yourself...sexuality is a part of your life but it does not define you...its like saying some people like chocolate and other like vanilla Greetings and have a nice life
Very confusing dream that needs clarifying? 10 points!?
I dreamed that my father found out that me and my ex had sexual relations before. He got mad, and chased me in the house, and I was going to run out the door. Before I could, he sat down and offered me a candy bar, I said no thanks. He was like "Oh by the way, they found lipstick on your ex's collar." Huh, what does tht mean?
I had a dream that my father tried to rape me?..... So confused?
I don't know what your personal beliefs are, but this type of dream is what is called a "oppressive" or "oppression" type dream. Yes, I am a Christian believer in Jesus Christ, and I talk to people a lot about these types of dreams. These dreams come from the demonic realm. These dreams are inspired by demons to inspire fear and confusion just like you mention you had now. Demons work on people's lack of knowledge of how they operate. They come to torment and confuse and tear families apart. A lot of people have had their families torn about because of dreams like this. It does not mean your father wants to molest you in real life. But evil spirits want to plant that in your mind. If you keep thinking about it over and over you give these evil spirits a door to stay in your life and water those thoughts. I have had dreams like it where I was committing incest with my mother and sister. But I already knew where the dreams were coming from. So, I they did not have any power over me and I did not lose any peace. They keep is to make sure you have peace when you lay down to sleep at night. Make sure there are no unresolved issues which are bothering before you lay down at night. However, being angry, distressed, worried, fearful and so on are all door ways by which demons have access to attack you at night. Okay, hope this helps.
I had a dream of my boyfriend breaking up with me what does that mean?
it means absolutely nothing. Dreams are how your brain makes sense of random electrical impulses that occur during the REM phase of sleep. they don't hold any ACTUAL meaning. Perhaps they're based on a latent fear you have of being broken up with... if so, let that go now because treating it like it will happen is the surest way to make it come true. Sometimes these things are self fullfilling prophecies. Ignore the dream, act with confidence and be a gracious girlfriend (as he should be a gracious boyfriend) and you'll be fine.
I have very vivid dialogues/daydreams and sometimes get confused on if I have a real memory or conversation with someone or just played it out in my head. Is this something I should be worried about?
Your symptoms are common of those with a condition called maladaptive daydreaming. Maladaptive daydreaming is a phenomenon that can cause people with vivid imaginations to make things up within a daydream, but disconnect that it is a daydream and allow it to be merged with real memories. In truth, maladaptive daydreams can be a large issue in people's lives. Do not confuse true maladaptive daydreamers with those who simply claim to have the condition. My best advice is to see a psychologist who can help. Until then, focus on getting full nights sleep and keeping yourself engaged in daily life to reduce the chances of drifting off. In addition, the psychologist may suggest keeping a journal of things that happen, to keep yourself from getting confused with real and fake events. I hope you found this answer helpful and apt!
Why do I keep on getting unsettling, confusing dreams?
Nobody is sure what causes intense dreams or how to interpret them. Freud and Jung thought them to be highly meaningful. Just not all the time. Freud said "sometimes a cigar is just a cigar."Lots of phsychiatrists believe : dreams are messages from our unconscious. They are often about something painful, and they are often *coded*. Puns and visual metaphor are common.For example, you dream of your sister being electrocuted, while her fiancé stands by impassively. Is their something you're worried that she might find *shocking* ? Like - she is a virgin, and sex may be a big deal? But not to her fiancé? Just throwing it out there as an example of how dreams may code a real world concern.Your dream of being unprepared for an exam is nearly universal. I've had them, most people I know have. Maybe you are neglecting something right now, or just reliving your student anxiety.You dreamt that you've died (which is unusual on dreams) and your mom is encouraging your wife to remarry. Perhaps you signed life insurance to benefit her, and were startled at how the prospect of your death was handled so dispassionately with the stroke of a pen - in your presence, with the knowledge of loved ones.Just a thought. Only you can figure the dream out - if there is anything to figure out.Traveling is a very common theme in dreams. People dream of cars, planes, bicycles, boats. These are often taken as symbols of freedom.Dreaming that - for example - your car keeps breaking down (or a flight goes to an unexpected location) can indicate you are concerned about your freedom.Only you can tell what interpretation rings true. Understanding the dream's message often stops the dream from coming back.Intense dreaming can also be caused by a host of medications, from anti-depressants to the nicotine patch. Even caffeine can do it.
Can dreams tell me that I'm gay?
What do dreams even mean? I have two stories:my most “dreamiest” dream, involves a short boat trip to an island (Catalina) off the coast of my country (California). As I stand in the bow of the power ferry, I turn and look back, seeing my ex-wife’s father fishing (along with many other men, yes, boat is doing 30+ kts) off the starboard side of the boat. He waves and smiles. I wave and smile back. (He’s a great guy, but he’s been dead since 2007). And then there was a bus.For some reason my students (I am an athletic coach and was formerly an academic teacher) would come to me with dreams and insist I listen to their nonsensical blatherings and ask me to interpret them. But I have no idea what dreams mean, so I just made up some shit that, in summary, would make it sound like they were trying to come out as bisexual. (“Oh, the bunk bed in your dream represents two states of being “in bed,” by which your mind means “I want to express my sexuality in two ways.” I love the looks on their faces.)
I had a dream the Ahmadiyya are right ?
Your dream is absolutely true. Alhamdo Lillahe. In fact, my grand-father, who was a very pious and devout Muslim, accepted the Promised Messiah about a hundred years ago only after seeing him in his dream. And mind it, he was never told about the advent of the Promised Messiah nor did he ever know about his appearance till then. So, I am sure, you are on the right path, and need not heed to those who talk of ‘Isthikhara being engineered by Shaitan’. In the history of religion, there are ample example of such arrogant people who arrogate to themselves the right to say who is right and who is not. They come out with baseless allegations in an attempt to prove themselves right. Regrettably they are in the majority. Being in majority does not make them right in the matter of faith. They are no ’thekedar’ of Islam. Calling names, hurling abuses, making insulting comments – all these are their hallmark. You are answerable to Allah, and Allah alone. Never mind. You will be judged for your Iman by Allah (swt) and not by these ignorant Mullahs, who have tried their best to make Islam a laughing stock for the world. The Promised Messiah and Imam Mehdi has come in fulfilment of the Prophecy of our beloved holy Prophet (on whom be peace). He will be non-law bearing Prophet, subservient to the holy Prophet. For greater details, visit: www.alislam.org - Syed Zafar Ahmad, Hyderabad (India)