Have you cursed at your parents?
Ohhh god, I regret that! :-(I was studying my graduation. My dad had bought me mobile phone for me for I will be going away from them for education.I was in the middle of a lecture and my phone started to buzz. I saw it…it was my dad. I couldn't pick it up, so I pressed the red button to cut it off.Few seconds went by…and again it started to ring. Again dad. I again did cut it off.After few seconds, he called again. I was like…How could he not guess the possibility of me being in a class?I then stopped looking at my phone and stopped cutting it off. He again called me, I did let it ring. After few times of this ringing and me not picking it up, I started to worry about something.What if something bad has happened at my home and he couldn’t wait to inform me?What if my mom is sick?God forbid, but what if he met with an accident in the middle of a road?What if…..this? And what if….that?Ohhhhh my god! He tried to call me more and more, and I was becoming more and more uncomfortable.I was mentally out of the class and my mind was at my home, 30kms away, figuring out what could’ve happened wrong with my family.Finally…that lecture ended and I went out of the class before the teacher, without even looking at him.I called home instantly. Dad answered, and said, “Your uncle came to visit us and since you are not here I thought to make you a call and let him have a talk with you. But he left before you could pick the call up.”I was like….Whaaaaaaaattt? What the hell?I was gonna say, “Are you insane?”, but then I yelled at him like never before until this date. And I told him, rather warned him, to not call me again if I cut off the call at first place.I was damn furious. And he just listened to me and said “Okay”. He was so calm and he did not interrupt me while I was nearly scolding him.I went back to the class. And then my rude words started to bite me from inside. That guilt of discourteous talking with my dad…After sometime, I again called him and apologised. He might’ve just smiled and he said it was okay.After that time I never got a call after I cut it off first.That was the only time I remember I raised my voice against my parents.That’s the thing I have learned from my dad…to never react to a person who is furious on us. Someone has to cool down to make the situation comfortable!
My dad gets extremely drunk every weekend and i cant stand him anymore?
Umm i know its is hard im only 15 and had already gone through this but the thing is you're parents will probably get divorced like mine did but for the time when something like that happens just go to you're room and watch a tv or think happy thoughts i know it is hard but you can't do anything else but if he ever hurts you or you're mom then you can call the cops but it is hard to do that on you're own father.. it is a hard time just stick thought it even though it is hard. My dad was the exact same way great when sober and horrible when drunk but then again my mom was really mean to my dad when he was drunk because he would spank my brother and it all started when my brother got in trouble then escalated from there and then my dad punished him wrong and hit him then my mom came in and yelled at him " you dumb ***" " leave you dumb ***" Sorry you have to go through it...
Should i kick son out?
i am fed up with my 18yr old nearly 19 yr old son,he lays in bed all day,dosnt do anything round the house,he goes out in evening comes home drunk,causing uproar,frightening his younger brother and sisiters,i dont want too kick him out,as he is a good lad,its just when he gets drunk,he gets aggressive,and violent,and argumentive,i had too take his key off him last week,as he was always bringing his mates back,in the early hours drunk,throwing up and making a mess,so now he knocks us up at like 2 in the morning,in the night am fuming,saying he is getting kicked out,but then when morning comes its all changed,until the next time he gets drunk,which is often,what should i do,as i feel am in a bad situation,so i kick him out,or let him stay,he also demanded we cook him food at 2am last night,he was saying i pay keep,i should have 3 meals a day cooked for me,even though he dosnt lift a finger,and only pays £30 a week,and ran up a £300 phone bill,
I hate my Drunk Dad!!?
lately i've realized that i hate my dad evry friday he gets drunk with my uncle and dont stop drinking untill sunday at night when they fall asleep?Every time he gets drunk its like i dont even know him he tells me he doenst love me only my brother . Even when his not drunk i feel as he dosent love me at all it always seems as he prefers my brother way more! I honostly dont get along with my dad. He never tells me he loves me he never wants to hear me talk when the tv is on he totally ignores me and seriously have this agression towards him now. I feel like i dont love him anymore. My family always have there attention on my older brother. and it just makes me feel left out? My mother and i dont really like my father when his drunk his a total jerk. He needs help but so do I? Why do i feel like this? Why does he drink alot?
My dad is an alcoholic, help. and am i going to become one?
i might say very in all probability. you ought to evaluate your self to your dad, do you think of you have comparable character features as him? My dad replaced into an alcoholic and he replaced into very indignant too. My sisters and that i drink particularly cases and we never substitute into violent yet my brother does. Are you the type of guy or woman that recognizes your dads unfavorable behaviors and have you ever found out to no longer be like your dad in this way? i think of this is the adaptation between my sisters and my brother. My brother has taken on all the violent features of my father, in fact he usually blames my father for his own violence. I even have 2 sisters and neither individuals are ever violent while eating or no longer eating. this is a few thing my brother makes use of as an excuse to get violent, do you spot the adaptation? i might say it actual relies upon on your temperament yet you cant are awaiting something while eating. eating brings out all your thoughts and in case you cope with your thoughts by getting indignant then maximum in all probability you would be an indignant decrease than the effect of alcohol, in case you cry while emotional then you fairly will maximum in all probability cry faster or later. it may additionally be a mix of the two. i do no longer propose you eating, it fairly is rarely a sturdy ingredient and maximum individuals cant administration or end eating, so its terrific to no longer start up.
Can alcoholics stop drinking?
Sure, Alcoholics can stop drinking. I began drinking may be at age of 17. I had such friends who were older to me and used to drink occasionally. so for the fun or maybe curiosity I too started drinking.Now coming to the point, by the time is was 38 I was fully alcohol dependent. All during those years I had a very strong desire to quit. But always failed. Willfully went de-addiction centers but of no use, also spent a lot of time and money, to get rid of alcohol from my life. Alcohol was on the verge of ruining my personal, family, social and professional life.Then one fine Sunday morning I was pick up my kids from the church after their catechism classes and I was booked for drunken driving. This was my first experience of any kind with the cops. They let me go after an hour so in the police station. The cops never misbehaved with me during that hour, they did their paperwork, I was allowed to go with a warning and a fine.This incident changed my life completely and it made my will to quit stronger.I stopped, and then after two horrible days I had fits ( severe withdrawal symptoms ). I was immediately hospitalized and was there for the next five days.All through out this my family and friends supported me immensely. Which I personally think was my greatest advantage. Immediately after discharge from the hospital I joined AA and since have been an active member .Today is the first very happy anniversary of mine quitting alcohol. So first I too got into a belief from my own experience that alcoholics cannot quit, but I am proud of myself that I have proven myself wrong.I think continuation of treatment (medical advice, medicines), counselling, family counselling, family and friends support, a lot of patience and of a strong will to QUIT can surely make an Alcoholic to stop drinking.
I lost everything in my life. What should I do?
An entrepreneur approached me a few months ago about working together so that he would not just intellectually agree with the 3 principles understanding, but that it would become a part of all facets of his life.However, in just the past two months, a crazy number of difficulties have followed him:His teeth have caused him severe pain and discomfort for two months and despite spending a small fortune to get it fixed, the problem remains.His wife was diagnosed with breast cancer.His old mother got badly sick and may never recover. He now needs to find her a nursing home.His business’ lease was let go, so he needs to find new office space to move his business to.Their home has been under renovation for the past 7 weeks so they’re unable to live there during this time.A month ago, he has a scooter accident that caused him to break his leg and get plastic surgery done on his face.As you can see, there is a lot going on in his life.But the more amazing thing is that, for the most part, all the chaos in his life has not weighed him down.Every time we speak, he seems happy and relaxed even though the world around him is falling to pieces.Of course, from time to time he starts thinking about it and it all becomes difficult to bear.But that only happens occasionally.The reason I am writing this is because of something he told me just a few days ago:“If all these things didn't happen to me, I'm not sure I would have understood that happiness and peace come from within. This may sound crazy, but I am truly grateful for everything that has happened.”So did I make my client so wise and resilient?No.I merely helped him rediscover his innate wisdom and resilience that are in every person.And this would be my message to you, too:Everything in the outside world may have been taken from you, but your happiness and peace of mind don’t come from people, events, or circumstances.They come from within and we bring them into the world.Perhaps all these things have happened to you so that you can finally see this for yourself.Good luck, my friend, and feel free to message me if you want to talk.
My 9 yr old brother keeps cursing?
dont beat him up over that. Seriously. The world is bad enough without you beating up your own damn brother. if he keeps trying to act tough then just ignore him and defend your sister. If it gets to be a real problem talk to your parents. Don't scream at them, you'll be the one in trouble if you do. You're brother is probably just really immature or frustrated. good luck