Songs about feeling ugly/worthless/fat/ and insecure?
This one Pink - F**kin' Perfect http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ocDlOD1Hw...
I feel so ugly and worthless?
Beauty doesn't matter! Trust me, it's what's on the inside that counts. I used to be outrageously beautiful (I know I sound conceited now but you will see my point.) I was thin, had beautiful, long blonde hair, perfect face, etc. Guess what? I was raped twice. I had horrible rumors spread about me from jealous girls that thought I was trying to steal their boyfriends. I realized that all the guys that I dated only dated me because I was "hot" and I was the "sexiest girl at school" so they would brag about hooking up with me. Now, I gained 30 lbs. I grew my hair out natural and have a pixie boy cut. I wear minimal makeup (just to cover imperfections.) I am just "average looking" but I love life now. I focus on academics where my teachers don't care what I look like. I know that the guy that I am dating dates me for my personality and intelligence, bc I am no longer sexy. I know who my true friends are. I don't have rumors spread bc no one is jealous. Even if you were lucky to be born drop dead gorgeous, beauty fades anyways. I look at it this way.....Even if I went on being gorgeous I would eventually age....By age 50 I wouldn't be a sexy thing anymore. This way, I am preparing much earlier. I would have a mid-life crisis when I turn 50 and feel depressed about my aging looks......I will be used to being respected for my intelligence and ideas, innovations, etc, not my looks. Being pretty is overrated. Look at Oprah Winfrey. She is arguably the world's most influential woman. You know why? Because she is intelligent, warm, compassionate, creative, etc but she is average looking!!! Women love her bc they arent' jealous of her. Oprah is homely looking. However, everyone loves her. You know Stedman dates her because of her intelligence and success, not her looks. LOOKS DON'T MATTER!!! LOOKS GET IN THE WAY OF WHO YOU REALLY ARE. When I was pretty, it blinded ppl and that was all they could see. No one would acknowlege my intelligence. They only say me as a "Barbie". Now that I am average looking, people comment allt he time how they never realized because how smart I was...I was smart all along...It just blinded them.
Songs about feeling ugly or worthless?
I don't know what genre you like, but here is my collection of depressing music (mostly indie/grunge) 1. Jack off Jill- Vivica; Strawberry Gashes 3.Margot and the Nuclear So & So's-Broadripple is Burning 4. Twenty One Pilots (Absolutely amazing band)- Migraine; Ruby; Addict with a Pen; Screen; Blasphemy; Goodbye; Guns for hands 5. Hollywood Undead- Black Dahlia; Bullet 6. Meg & Dia- Monster 7. Lana Del Rey- Summertime Sadness; Young and Beautiful 8. Blink 182- Adam's song; I Miss you (Old school, I know) 9. Oren Lavie- Her Morning Elegance (Amazing song) 10. The Hoosiers- A Sadness Runs Through Him
Is life worth living if you are stupid and ugly?
People don't really care about looks as much as you think it does. Unattractive and stupid people tend to be repulsive more so from confidence issues than anything else.I've met a lot of people who would be considered dumb in the IQ, academic, job performance sense, but they can be interesting just by being honest in what they think and confident in themselves. Go watch some fox news. People will think your interesting as long as you share an opinion you believe in no matter how dumb it might be objectively.You want to talk about unattractive?Sean Stephenson was born with a disease that leads him to standing three feet tall and confined to a wheel chair for the rest of his life. His entire childhood was nothing but pain.Instead of being shackled to his inevitable destiny, he grew out of it knowing that his mind was the only obstacle to his happiness. He's now a motivational speaker and happily married.If Sean Stephenson thinks life is worth living, what's your excuse?
Why do I feel so down, ugly, worthless after a failed relationship?
At age of 28, I thought I have found my soul mate, the love of my life. While dating him, I felt I was the most beautiful woman in the world because he made me feel that way. But after the relationship ended, I felt so ugly, worthless, and so down. I am not saying I let a man define me as a person. But it is the kind of feeling I can hardly describe. It is almost like I was high up there one moment and all of sudden, I fell down hard with all your bones broken. I can't describe it. It is just hard and it really sucks. It is like the final break up is the biggest "F*uck you." All promises become lies. I can hardly breath. How can I regain my self esteem. On my day off, all I want is to find somebody whom I can talk to about him, but I find out the only person whom I can really talk to is he himself. It is such a scary thought. because I know I can NEVER get him back no matter what. IT IS OVER, DONE. What am I going to do? The hardest thing for me is the self esteem, and the hopelessness. What am I going to do right now? Have you ever felt this way? How do you cope with it? thank you
Feeling worthless, lonely, disliked, and friendless?
Hey all, I am struggling really bad today and feeling very down. Like this matters, however I'm 20 years old, female, and a full-time college student. I constantly feel lonely even though I have a couple close friends. No one ever wants me around unless they need something from me. I try to talk to people but it's only "hey how are you" kind of stuff and never anything more. My closest friend is a guy and he's in his 30's, and all I do is sit around at home on the computer waiting to have a life. I am not doing so well in school, I enjoy my classes but I have no motivation and I have no money to pay for school, so I pretty much have the stress of no money on top of being a worthless loser. I am not very pretty so not many guys ask me out. I don't really have much to offer anyone except photography but people only want me around to take pictures for them and that's it. I feel like such a stick in the mud and all I want to do is cry because it's the only thing that helps. I don't want to be this way for the rest of my young life and I am so sick of feeling ugly and stupid. I am tired of having no friends and making the effort for it to get thrown away. I don't know what to do and I am really down in the dumps. I know others feel this way but this is my reality, I am ugly and I know it. No one accepts me for who I am because I am so different, awkward, and unique and it hurts so much.
I feel stupid, ugly, fat, dumb, and just worthless all the time. I hate myself. Help?
There is a thing that we do to ourselves and it is called "self talk". Noun, In behavioral medicine, internal monologues that can have a positive or negative influence upon the individual. http://medical-dictionary.thefreediction... When one says something negative and say these things enough times the subconscious begins to believe the thoughts and places them into actions. It appears the Greeks were right on this one ... our thoughts can make us healthy or ill. Please allow me to elaborate ... my wife considered the most beautiful child born in her village in 200 years, has won several beauty contests, is a college graduate, chosen from among 49,000 applicants to be one of 48 individuals to work in the computer industry in a foreign country upon graduation from college, she is fluent in five languages but she continues to tell me and others she is worthless. The reason is her cousins and others who were jealous of her looks and abilities go out of their way to tell her she is worthless, ugly, and stupid and since this has been going on since she was a child she believes what she has been told. I am having a hard time convincing her of her worth because she does not want to her the truth as the myths of the past are easier to digest. However, I daily praise her and her abilities and her immediate family does the same. We have a child and she sees me always bringing out the positives and although the negatives are there once we have acknowledged them we pass them by for the positives. Revel in those things that make you special, you alone are a special creation, there is not now, nor yesterday, nor will there ever be another you ... you are unique among all the creatures in the universe. It sounds as if you have wonderful traits so use self-talk to bring out the positives and forget the negatives. Remember the words of the poem "Desiderata " ... "... Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. ..." Believe in yourself because when it comes to the line, that is all we really have, ourselves ...