Got in fight friends didn't help?
A "friend" did that to me in high school. I got in a fight with two other guys in hallway. My "friend" stood there. I hit one of them cold but the other got lucky. I was trying to grab his head to slam against lockers but he kept squirming like a pig, he got lucky. School SRO(cops or whatever) pulled me off. I got suspended for 10 days and next time saw my "friend" I decked him and never spoke to him again, made him look like a ***** in front of others though. He shouldve gotten my back like your "friends" even if I didn't need it. People like that are trash. Whenever he breaks his legs 30 miles away from a hospital just keep driving. Tbh go back and tape his mouth so can't yell for help either. They'll get into your situation someday.
My son got into a fist fight with his best friend, need help?
My 8 year old got into a fight with his best friend. They have beed friends for the last 3 years. When I say best friend I mean eat and drinks after each other like a brother kind of friends. Well today I was doing laundry and started hearing yelling a smacking. I went to my sons rooms to find two athletic boys punching each other in the face. I broke them apart. His friend all red in the face called my son a Fing fag and ran out of the house. I called him mom and told her what happened, but did not tell her he cussed. I found out from my son that they were fighting over basketball game they were playing a few minutes before. I guess they kept exchanging words about it and things just esculated. Today he came home from school all upset. Apearantly his friend was giving him the cold shoulder at school and giving him a sarcastic grin. Should I punish him for fighting in the house? Should I try and help them work things out. My son is really upset about this?
Have you ever been in a fight in school?
Yes, I am currently suspended for one as we speak. I go back to school monday.Okay, so here’s how it happens. A friend from my old school (let’s call him Crisp), fed up with conceited girls from his school, starts talking to people outside of his place of education. He ends up going on a few dates with a girl from my school. They click very well, but she can’t stop talking about this boy (Let’s call him Zyan) and how creepy he is and how he won’t stop annoying her.Things are going really well, and my friend is about to ask her to be his girlfriend and boom. She’s taken.Turns out about two hours beforehand, Mr. Oh-So-Annoying Zyan asked her out, and I guess he wasn’t that much of a nuisance to her, because they were dating now.My friend is a pretty sensitive guy, and he took this hard. He was completely wronged, and I was furious. I decided to stay reasonably diplomatic. I approached the couple (holding hands, naturally) in the hallway at school and asked the girl (let’s call her Jaid) about it.Me: Hey, so what happened with you and Crisp?Jaid: Fuck off.Me: Why’d you have to do that to him?Jaid: He’s just mad he’s not with me * her and zyan laugh*Me: *fake sarcasm shit* Wow… you’re actually proud of that, aren’t you?Zyan: How about you fuck off?Me: *still addressing Jaid* You know, I’d call you a whore, but that would imply that any man would want anything to do with you…*addresses Zyan now* … and you, sir, are not a motherfucking man.Zyan: *pushes me* Crisp is a bitch cunt. He’s just mad I stole his bitch.*ding ding ding*And then the fight was on. Well, to call it a fight you need two people throwing punches. Shit was no contest. I got the stomach area right between his ribs, winding him, punched him again in the chest plate and then got to work on his face. His nose was bleeding and he had a bruise on his face the size of a birthmark.I broke a knuckle and got four days out. Completely worth it.6/3/18 Update: Zayn came up to me at school, agreed with me about what was said about Jade, and asked if we were all good. I’m still not sure he was in the right, but I don’t need more enemies. We’re not beefing any more.
I lost a fight after school?
This kid messaged me on facebook a few days ago, and asked if I wanted to fight(not getting into details how it started) and I said yes. The next day, we met up after school, and we fought. I lost, with 1 kinda black eye, and one REALLY black eye. I didn't really look at the kid much after, but it looks like I only busted his lip a little, and maybe leave a little bump on the side of his head. A lot of kids thought I was going to beat this kid, but I kind of kept quite about it besides with a few of my best friends, I myself thought I would beat him. Well, I obviously lost, and I feel embarrsed. Even though we shook on the fight, and have respect. I haven't gone to school, because I feel like icing it for these two days and give it the weekend to heal a little bit, but it still looks VERY bad. I feel like when I go on Monday, a lot of kids are going to start trash talking me because I got my face wrecked by a kid that they thought i was going to beat.
What should I do when someone in my school wants to fight me?
First, remember that bullies tend to have ulterior motives. What they really want can range from respect, to attention, to excitement, to cathartic release.They are probably insecure and a little traumatized by abuse in the home. Many bullies are themselves the product of bullying. They’re desperate, pitiful creatures. And we all know that misery loves company. You just gotta show them that you’re not the kind of company they’re looking for.It’s kind of like negotiating with terrorists—if you ignore them, they might escalate the attacks, but if you give them what they’re looking for, there’s no guarantee they’ll be satisfied; if you stand up for yourself, will they back down or teach you a lesson? Even if you manage to win this fight, who’s to say their friends won’t retaliate? That’s how blood feuds start.Here’s some potentially bad advice, but it’s what I would do: remain calm and say nothing.Empty your mind and radiate inner peace. Don’t let them ruffle your feathers in the slightest. Keep your head held high, your back straight, your feet planted shoulder-width apart, and your eyes focused on their forehead.Be a little bored by their attempts at provoking you, but feel no other emotion. Just listen patiently, without even a hint of aggression. You have less than nothing to say to them. Why dignify such behavior with a response?Wait for them to completely finish their verbal attack and make their next move. If they decide to punch you in the face, take it silently like a champ. Recover quickly and return to the exact same position—head high, back straight, eyes glued to their forehead, utterly neutral facial expression (think passport photo).In all likelihood, they’ll get bored of you and move on, feeling foolish. Then, they’ll find someone else to pick on—someone who reacts the way they expect.
Lost a fight and now embarrassed to go to school?
OK so this kid wanted to fight me and I don't back down from no one so after school I followed him to the park and a few more kids followed. Now that I think if it I was stupid because I really didn't want to fight and it was too cold to.be fighting but yea continuing he basically whooped me and the other kids got the whole thing on camera. 2 of the kids had it up on instragram for a day and they got a few thousands of followers so everyone seen it. I really hate this feeling and I didn't go to school today but my friends are telling me everyone is talking about it. For extra info I'm in the 11th grade. Can someone help me on how to deal with this?
After School Street Fighting. Help Please..?
A lot of people at my school (at least 30) go and have little UFC fights at varies locations. After hearing about this one kid that i have always wanted to fight but was scared I would lose got destroyed by my old old friend who has a record of 22-0. It kind of struck me because I only will fight people smaller than me because I get scared if they are even my size. I've always wanted to be that kind of person like my old friend who has people scared to walk up and say 'wanna fight'? He has like 2 black belts and doesn't get scared when hes fighting no matter how big the other person is. And basically what i am asking is anyone know of any techniques / daily routines or just about anything I can do to prepare me for a fight? Not so much physical (like fighting style) but mental (like not being scared). I am asking this because my friends are being challenged to fight and if they lose the others will come after me and I refuse to back down and make me and my friend look like easy step-overs. Any Help?
Kid at school wants to fight me?
There's this boy in my grade who wants to fight me. I told my older brother in hopes of advice but rather my brother went to the spot where we were supposed to fight with me. My brother beat the kid up and now the kid is really angry at me and I'm afraid he's going to bring friends. What should I do? It was over him asking me to do his hw and me making a joke, I didn't realize he was serious, and he got insulted and since then has wanted to fight me. Any suggestions? This boy is a year older than me (I skipped a grade) and taller than me. I think I'd do fine cause hes not as tall or strong as either of my older brothers and I've almost beat them so I should be fine :)
Why don't people keep in touch with old friends after school?
In schools, we may think, we had many friends but if you judge the situation rationally, we had 3- 4 close friends and there were 10- 12 people, with whom we were friendly. The rest, were acquaintances and some, we disliked and some were hated enemies.when a child is under 12, the main criteria for friendship is availability and lack of tension. In simple words, if I am meeting you daily, and if you and I are not fighting, we are friends. The social, class, background, racial factors also function subconsciously. The factors which make someone like and dislike somebody, operates instinctively. It would not be wrong to say, that, for a 8 year old, the entire population is divided into 2 parts, likable and dislikable. Many a times, this likability is mistaken as friendship.As we grow up, many factors, come into play, our personality forms. Many old friends are lost even before we pass school. You are not in touch with most school friends is because you were not supposed to be in touch with them. Now, lets come to the 3 - 4 close friends. They never go away, especially, after the development of social media.In college, the condition a little different. We apply the screening method from very first day. If you are not staying in a hostel, then most of the friends will be from your own department or stream. Sorry to say, but race, teligion and social class also matters (especially in post graduation colleges). The outlook of science and arts students differ and normally they dont become friends (they may have friendly relations)In colleges, the maximum friends you will have is somewhere between 3–4There will be contact with them in the age of social media.Now, one thing I would like to point out-If you have passed school / college, and still have contact with many batchmates, it signifies only 2 things.-You are an escapist and your present life is not going properly. You want to escape into ur school days.Your school life academic results were poor and that left a mark on your personality. You have earned some money and try to wash away that complex by continuing contact with them. In fact you are continuously saying that - hey, i am not a shit, look at me.If your peresent life is going smoothly, if you have guts to face life, if ur mental development is ok, then, you will not have contact with more than 6–8 friends from your student life.