Advice on angry drunk boyfriend (fiance)?
DUMP HIM. Do you honestly believe it's going to get better during marriage? Do you!?
Do I have the right to be angry? My best friend's wedding.....PLEASE give me INPUT!! I'm yielding!?
My best friend from college is getting married...I was super excited for that...but her and her fiancé chose only a small number of people to come (60) to her wedding...that does not include my bf. They don't like him...I found it rude that they would not allow me to bring him after we have been together for over a year (not the point). Anyway...her wedding is 2 weeks away and she did not have ANYTHING together...no caterer, wedding planner, ceremony order, colors of the wedding, nothing. Her own parents won't even be there (for separate reasons), but I had the heart to help her...but her mind is on other things. I gave ideas even offered to pay for some of the things, but she doesn't even care for the big day....we got into a disagreement and aren't talking at the moment.. Would you be mad in my shoes? I really wanted to help her because people are coming from out of state...but she hasn't thought about squat. I never in my life known of a bridezilla that doesn't care. I will be singing while she goes down the isle at least otherwise she'd have nothing.
How do I deal with my controlling girlfriend who is angry at me daily for unreasonable things, is verbally abusive, and takes things overly personally seemingly for the sake of doing so?
I would deal with her by breaking up with her. Controlling people who are constantly angry and yell at me do not get to be close to me. Period. Sometimes we love people but can't be happy with them because they treat us like crap. Since you don't want to break up with her, I guess you're going to try to change her. Good luck with that. In my experience, it doesn't go well. You have a shot at it if she acknowledges that this is a problem and wants to work on it. In that case, you might be able to do couples' therapy, with the therapist acting as a mediator and teaching you better communication skills. Otherwise, I recommend you both read Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg. Best of luck.
Why are people outraged that my friend’s girlfriend left him for me?
Because you broke the Bro Code.
Jealous about other guys talking to my girlfriend?
Of course you are being too over protective. And you are also very annoying for your girlfriend. You have had a solid relationship with her for two years and she can’t get text messages from guys without you mistrusting her. I am sure she don’t like you being angry. A little jealousy probably makes her feel wanted, but too much is too much. You are not born jealous. You choose to respond like this every time. You are a grown up man and need to take responsibility for your own reactions. Either you get angry or you force your brain and heart to trust her and calm down. Grown ups control their emotions and reactions to be as happy as possible. If we don’t get what we want in the shop we don’t start crying and screaming to mum. We don’t walk naked in the street. We don’t hit our friends if we get mad. We are grown ups and we are in control. We choose a certain behaviour because it is rewarding in the end. Don’t blame your anger on her or “your jealousy”. You can change your reactions from within. You are in charge, man!
Boyfriend gets angry at me for dressing up, what does this mean?
So we are going out to an Gaming cafe with his best friend nothing fancy and i felt like wearing jeans and a basic black sweater. The last time we went there just me and him i wore trackys and a jackets.. he got angry at me and asks me why im getting dressed up now and not last time and thinks im trying to impress his best friend that has a girlfriend and that i dont even like at all!!.. im like no? and he goes well he wouldn't be interested in you anyway... i just like wtf? like i care... then he ignores me and storms of to have a shower... what does this mean? i feel so bad for wearing what i want...
When my girlfriend gets angry with me, she goes and complains to her friends. Is this wrong? Should she keep our conflicts between the two of us?
Thanks for the A2A. I have to play devil's advocate here because I don't know all the details. Maybe it will be of some help.Women might do this sort of thing, but it is neither healthy, nor advisable. Just because people say that is the way women are, doesn't make it a desirable attribute.Are we talking about serious issues, or small stuff? We all feel the need to discuss some things with our friends. It sometimes helps us to understand what the issue is, and if we are the problem (as you are by asking this question). Personal issues should stay between the couple unless they don't care what people think. Discussing your performance in bed, or other personal issues with anyone that is not your partner or a professional, is crass and disrespectful.Do you allow her to talk to you about the issues that she is discussing with her friends? Seriously, do you listen, or just brush her off and say it is unimportant? When people cannot get what they need inside the home, they go looking elsewhere. Support is important within a relationship.Have the two of you discussed the parameters of the relationship regarding privacy? If not, it is time to iron out what the two of you want and need.The reality is that she is not going to resolve any issues with you by talking to her friends. I find that the people who talk about their spouses like this never accept the reverse scenario. How would she feel if you went and discussed her failings with your friends? Do you?
Dating best friends EX-Girlfriend?
I have a best friend that wants to date his other best friends ex-girlfriend. I think its kind of weird and so do a few people I know but I need some peoples opinions that don't know me. Coming from a guy would that be considered shallow or does that not matter to guy's. Thanks
My girlfriend gets very angry when I hang out with my friends, what should I do?
Include her a few times, let her see how she would be bored and she is not missing anything. If she fits in with the guys then hey you got a winner and keep her around, if she goes on back home and let’s you go and do what you want without complaining then you got great trust in your relationship if she wants to go at any cost just to watch, spy be apart of your every move.You got a problem and you need to address that fast or it will only get worse. Good luck