I have a crush on a boy... need advice...?
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CRUSHiNG!!!! NEED ADViCE! HELP?
OK long story. READ ALL IN ORDER TO ANSWER!Ok, my friend had this boyfriend. she's really really young and i'm younger! she's (under 14). So they were going pretty strong until he asked her cousin to break them up. So she was pretty sad and kinda mad too so I comforted her since she's like a sister to me. so she went out with his best friend. then her OTHER cousin broke them up b/c she said she saw him with other girls. So now she's going out with the first boy, AGAIN! Now the first boy lives in her aunt's house on the 3rd floor. so her aunt was having a cook-out and my friend (the girl) invited me. We're practically sisters so of course i went. Now I'm crushing on her 2nd b/f the one she went with after she got dumped. b/c i found out he likes me. But i'll most likely never see him again! he hasn't been on myspace since last month! wat do i do? he doesn't know i like him either. i don't think....help me now!! plus i'm like 2 or 3 years younger than him.(TRUE STORY)
I need advice(crush)?
Take my advice girl, Im in 9th grade now and in 8th grade I was crushing on someone so bad. We were great friends but he would give me on and off signals. We were like frenemies. It's summer time now and I'm going to a completely different high school than everyone in my school. I'm over him already. Trust me there are plenty more fish in the sea. The space between you guys and the time will help you get over him. Also distract yourself so you dont think about him. P.S If your family doesn't like you and he is a jerk at times just avoid him.
Need some advice from the ladies! Can you usually tell when a guy is crushing on you?
Since you speak with her so much at work, does she bring up her BF often? Depending on how she feels about him is the main issue. If they are close then it's best to back off and save yourself the drama. If all she does is complain about him or mentions that they break-up often, then you may have a chance. If you feel strongly about her and think of her often, then let her know in a non-confrontational way. Let her know that you understand that she has a boyfriend and you don't want to interfere but you can't ignore the feelings the both of you seem to be communicating. Ask her if she's confused or meaning to send mixed messages. Ultimately she will respect your honesty if you go about in it the proper way :)
Crushing on him, and I really need advice and help!!!?
I'm a freshman in high school, currently in the R.O.T.C program at my school, and the guy I've been crushing on is a junior, and in my same class. See, I've been crushing on this handsome young man since late November, and have tried talking to him in the past, but he's very... quiet/awkward/shy when it comes to talking to girls. I ended up giving him my number (VERY shyly) in the hallway while attempting to start a conversation, and we texted for a little bit, but ever since then we haven't talked much. Due to the fact he's a higher rank than me, in our class, he's got lots of control as to what goes on in the classroom, and he's overall a serious guy. He's in AP classes, he does gymnastics,and he's a shy/gentle/strong/smart guy! About a week ago, I approached Chief (Basically the teacher of our class) about my crush on him, and he told me that the reason why my crush reacts in such an emotionless/gentle way is because he's never been in a situation where a girl has liked him before, and even approached him as so! Ever since I was informed of this, I've been contemplating the various ways of me approaching him, or starting a conversation with him, and anything like that. Hence the fact that whenever I text him (Which is occasional due to the fact I don't want to seem annoying), he never replies... I'm just honestly not so sure of how to approach this situation in general! I truly do have a crush on him, and the military ball is coming up too! This April 29th! There's no way in H*LL I'd ask him to the dance, due to the fact I'm pretty old-fashioned and believe it's the other way around, but hey. I can't force him to go with me/crush on me mutually. I just honestly do not know what to do "next". I see him in class tomorrow afternoon, and I just would really appreciate some input. Thank you to those who took their time to read this and/or left me with some opinion/input. Hannah-Noël
Teacher crush!?!?!?!?!? need advice and stories?
in middle school i started falling head over healsfor my band teacher..he is 20 years older then me and is married to my chorus teacher and expacting a baby....i love his personallity and looks.now im afraid he knows i like him because in the begging of the year he was all nice to everyone and then he started not even wanting to talk to me....he's always in my dreams and i really want to tell him i have a crush on him. I don't want him to get in any trouble but i want to tell him about my crush
Why worried that you are friendless? There are lots of wise people in the world who have no friend. They are their own friend and they are very happy with their life. You never know may you choose bad friends that your life and aim can be spoiled. Sometimes it is good not to have friends. Good friends are important I know, but its difficult for you to choose them.You have all qualities of a good friend. If nobody recognizes this fact,they are unfortunate to loose you,not you my dear. May they have not any goid virtue of a good friend ; so don't think about it. Now you are going to your college life and you will see there will be a pool of friends. Let me suggest you some tricks to choose good friends among all friends.Some common signs of a good friend include .....someone who will support you no matter what. Someone you can trust and who won’t judge you. Someone who won’t put you down or deliberately hurt your feelings. Someone who is kind and has respect for you. Someone who will love you. Someone whose company you enjoy. Somebody showing loyalty. Being trustworthy and willing to tell you the truth, even when it’s hard. Someone who can laugh when you do. Someone who is willing to stick around when things go wrong. Someone who is there to listen. Someone who will cry when you cry.And believe me dear,this kind of friends are very very hard to find in this selfish world. Somebody dies in searching for only one good friend, but they cant get. So,don't be restless. Good friends are always destined. If friends are there in your destiny,they will surely come. Otherwise they never. Keep yourself a good human being and help the poor and needy. Make yourself your best friend. That's enough.
Friendless and socially akward. Need help?
If you're in a situation where you don't know how to act or you think you're acting wrongly, then just take a step back and watch what other people do. The best teacher is to keep putting yourself in these situations. The more you do it, the better and more comfortable you'll become. I don't think there's anything bad about 'talking too much' unless you're actually talking over top of others and interrupting them so that they can't finish a sentence. In which case, you're just gonna have to teach yourself to be aware of it and stop. There is no magical trick to stop you. If you are in the situation where you feel like you're talking too much again, try asking questions of the people around you, what do they think or like, and make yourself really listen to them and not interrupt. This will get the people around you talking more too.
When your crush makes the object of your affection uncomfortable. Knock it off. Clearly she doesn't feel the same wayWhen your crush feelings interfere with what you need to thrive. If you lose sleep, don't eat well, or put off priorities then knock it off. It's become unhealthy. When your crush feelings interfere with your livelihood. If you can't work or earn a necessary income or peruse other goals because of your crush. Knock it off. They aren't sacrificing for you and you will get resentful in the future in any caseIf your crush feelings involves alot of secrecy and requires you observe your crush without her able to see you or be able to engage with you. Knock it off. This is stalking and maybe illegal in your area. America doesn't allow this. Seek helpIf you are told your crush is uncomfortable or given papers by police (restraining or protection order) knock it off. She is no frightened and doesn't return your feelings. Seek help