What should I say to a girl when she doesn't reply to me?
Before giving up, like most suggest, try these:Switch medium - go from text to call for example (voice conversation will help re-create the good feeling of the in person meeting)Switch texting medium - go from text to Whatsapp(she will not see the bad precedents of unanswered texts)Send an out-out - say you made your moves but it’s her turn now(you remind her you won’t chase for ever, if she liked you, chances are she will do her part)Say you’re not available - you left town or are not interested anymore(We want what we can’t have and if she liked you she’ll miss you)note: I only use it when I actually left town and know I’ll be back. Works wonders to help you meet her once you’re backOffer something - you’re the asker now. Give something instead (see example below, how an unresponsive girl called me right away)Let her see you radiant - massive success is always the best attraction toolIt’s also fine to simply let her be and move on, but take into account that many times that’s an ego protection mechanism and does not maximize your chances of finding a partner.The above steps will instead.————————————————————————————————————I would also avoid the funny lines mentioned here, such as:“you’re busy with your BF, I’m busy with my GF”They’re not really funny and most of them scream “bu**hurt”.If you want to read more real stuff with examples, take a look here: effective ways to make her reply
What should I do when my girlfriend doesn't reply to my texts for hours even though I can see that she has gone on her phone to check Facebook? Should this bother me?
Social media strikes again…You see that fellow up there?That's you and that has been me in the past…I've tried so hard not to fall into this social media trap of having your girlfriend added all over the place and without wanting it or without noticing it following her every step and move virtually.For me it started with Facebook, I would go online and just check my Facebook and then on the right side you could see who was only or when they were last online.There she was, online and not talking to me?How could she do that?How could she dare do that?She should have been in constant contact with me no matter what!Well that's where I was wrong!Sometimes people are on Facebook just to read the news or to browser the news feed brain dead without thinking about anything.You see that fridge?That's Facebook!You know there's nothing good there, but you still open it all the time.This curiosity or simply the fact that we are addicted to it makes us go there on and on again and most of the time you don't talk to no one.You just are there.Just like that banana, you waste your time on a virtual site while your minutes, hours, days pass by you.And when you realize it, you've grew old as the banana. There you go some phylosophical shit right there.The point is…Stop wasting your time on Facebook worrying what might your girlfriend might do or not. Most of the time people are just there, with no intention in mind.Yep, that's me and probably your girlfriend too wasting time on Facebook just because.I've been in a relationship where I needed to respond on the spot and I didn't liked it. When I was finally free I understood what being without your phone all the time meant.Don't be that guy that needs instant response to your messages, people are bussy most of the time or don't feel like talking.I sometimes take a long time to respond to my girlfriend and that's not because I don't like her, I just get lost with other things.Or sometimes I just like to chill and don't want to talk to anyone.Find a hobby, occupy your time and these worries will disappear believe me.If you continue with this it will end your relationship. I've been there and it's not fun believe me.
How do I tell if I am bothering someone or not? Why does she never text first?
If she never texts first that's a wrong sign, probably an indication that she don’t wanna talk . Well, if you're a guy, know that girls have a lot of guys like you and me who are there to talk to them. Also they have their own friends to keep chatting chatting. A thought about us might hit them once in a while so we're being neglected or not being noticed so we should take care of our self-respect and leave that.Signs that you are bothering someone.1- He/She doesn't reply quick. Notice if they have seen you're message or maybe not, but they would reply later.2- Replies like Ohh, Hmm are pretty confirming. I hate such replies. Or maybe you're putting long texts and the other person is replying with a short sentence.3- Notice if they are only answering your texts like the “cleverbot” (search on google)and not initiating something new.4- He/she doesn't use emojis while chatting.5- Try to shift to different topics and see if it works.Now If you really feel like you're bothering them and it feels embarrassing. Just walk off and never enter that conversation, I mean NEVER...There are more than 7 billion people you can interact with and chatting is already said to be a poor type of conversation,In real life if you talk to someone , you would clearly notice their emotions …and what they want.So better walk out of the house and talk to your friends, take to your parents , they really need your company, notice if they feel like alone. Talk to someone new.Thanks for your question
Girlfriend stopped saying baby?
If your CERTAIN about the other guy thing, then maybe the relationship has gotten a bit stale on her end. I would say spice it up, but what does that mean. Think about when you first go together, what has changed? Maybe you should reincorporate it back into your lives. Maybe you were more spontaneous. Girls and guys like certain things (ie you liking to be called baby), maybe you stopped doing something. Maybe its not that serious, but it made you lose some charm in her eyes. Perhaps you see each other too much. It could be anything, if you want to be her baby, then act like you did when she always called you that. If you try that, and it doesn't work... Well your going to have to leave or deal with it. Not all couples call each other baby, I can attest to that. Personally, it sounds strange coming out of my mouth, I don't like it. For all you know, she never liked it, and only tried it with you, then saw how much you liked it, and continued. Now she feel so comfortable with you that, she doesn't want to anymore. I honestly think, the stale idea is more true, since she seems so ready to dare you to leave her, like she doesn't really care. Good luck
Why does it bother me when my girlfriend drinks, but not when others do?
First of all, I don't drink. It normally doesn't bother me when other people drink, as it's obviously their choice. For some reason, though, when my girlfriend and I are together, either at a bar (which is rare) or an get together or something, if she grabs a beer, it bothers me. I don't know why, but I sort of look down on her for it. I know that's horrible, but I can't help it. We could be sitting with friends, and it wouldn't bother me if they drank--just her. What the frick is wrong with me?