My girlfriend and i haven't hung out in a month?
here's the problem. i know that if a girl keeps making excuses, then it means she's not interested. but when we can't hang out she's pissed about it and we still text the entire time. the first week, her sister was in town for college and she wanted to hang out with her before she went back to school. the second week she had her birthday party (slumber party so i didn't go), the third week she had a project, and i know about the project so i know she wasn't lying. i know she's not ditching me but she's always busy, is it okay for me to keep asking her to hang out every friday or wait for her to ask me now? and if she can't hang out this weekend should i try to end it? or at least ask her what's going on with our relationship?
My ex found a new girlfriend 3 months after our breakup. What should I do?
1) First of all please stop stalking on someone which should not matter in your life anymore, the closed chapter.2) I am sure you must be looking for another boyfriend with all your passion. STOP.3) All the efforts and passion you have been using to stalk your ex or looking for another guy, use the same effort and passion for your passion, what do you like? travelling? do it! ( for a change pack your bag and travel alone), any sport? go for it, like playing any instrument? if not learn it, want to learn new language, why not!, Getting up early and going for jogging seems impossible? SURELY DO IT.4) Take your break up more of a strength than a curse, make yourself so worthy that when your ex looks back he should regret and not you and if you continue like this, doing nothing and stalking him you are just making him more comfortable of leaving you.5) Take your break up as a wake up call, this life is not only about finding right guy or girl, follow your passion, do all things which you could not do during your relationship, go to the club with your girls and dance like no body is watching, take your passion as your goal with no focus at all on your ex or new partner and during this mean time you will get your date. let the things take its own course.If you focus on your life devoting all this mean time of singlehood to yourself, you will find yourself, you are in that stage where you don't know about you, you have no idea what to do next and you surely are not moving forward but rewinding your past every now and then, its been three months and thought of stalking should not even come in your mind.After a break up I actually felt sorry for my ex for having a new partner because she failed to be alone but not lonely and during this mean time I devoted all my time to make myself better and today I have quit alcohol and smoking, I never miss my meditation in the morning and cardio-strength in the evening, I read more, I laugh more, I avoid negative people, I travel alone, I write...and I found that if you look for something you never get it, and being positive attracts, am in that stage where now all my friends and colleagues love me and I love myself.Romeo & Juliet is over(Welcome to 2016)
My boyfriend is going overseas to study, what should I do?
Dear Quora users,I am currently 21 years old, and have been in a steady 3 years relationship with my current boyfriend. He too is 21, and we are each other's first boyfriend/girlfriend. We are really loving to one another, often the admiration of friends around us. However, recently he was offered the opportunity to further his education abroad, and the course would be 3 years. No doubt his parents would really want him to go, but he is still thinking about it. I believe that he is more inclined in heading abroad as well. Consequently, we would be required to engage in a long-distance relationship.When he told me about it, I am in 2 minds about it. Yes, I understand that it is an opportunity for him to enhance himself, and through his educational pursuits, it would more likely than not, mean that we would have a brighter future together. However, at the same time, I am really disappointed that his impending departure, would mean great suffering for us. It really is hard not having his physical & emotional presence with me. Afterall, we have been through 3 years together and it really is painful for me to see him go. I don't know if this is selfish of me, but I told him that if he decides to further his studies abroad, I would break up with him. He really is confused because he has to handle his parents & me at the same time. However, it is simply too painful to bear the pain, and it would be tiring in the long run. I am really perplexed as to why he would have to ponder over this. Isn't a committed relationship about choosing your partner, regardless? Why would he not choose me? I really thought he was to one I would be with in the future, and I believe this feeling is mutual. However, I really don't understand why he would not want to stay... I really cant handle a LDR r/sPlease help guys... I am really frustrated over this...
Joining the marine corps...will my girlfriend stay with me?
I'm joining the marine corps in less than a year so i'll be shipping out in around 16 months - 18 months for boot camp. 4 years is a long time...I know, but I have wanted to be a marine all my life and I feel it is something I must do... On the other hand I don't want to end things with my girlfriend, she says she will stay with me through it but i've heard stories... She seems very trustworthy and we both like each other alot but...Are there any girls that will stay in a relationship with a marine? 4 years with hardly ever seeing them?
Is my girlfriend stingy?
My girlfriend and I have known each other for almost 8 months, although we've only been dating for a couple of months. On each occasion or date I spend lots of money taking her to nice places and restaurants. She went on vacation overseas a few days ago, and I told her to call me as soon as she gets there. So I waited way past the time she was supposed to arrive at her destination when I called her hotel room only to hear that: "The hotel charges extra for phone calls honey"! I was shocked and said OK, we'll talk later. After a few minutes she called to say she was sorry. Anyway she never called me afterward either. I called her a couple more times but she seems to be overly concerned with money. I know that she loves me and all but I can't really stand someone who's afraid of spending a buck on a short phone call. She had offered to pay the bill at a restaurant once but I didn't let her. What should I do with her? I'm considering going Dutch with her from now on, but I'm not sure how I can do that since I'm a very generous guy especially when it comes to someone I like. Should I talk to her about it? Should I say that she's gotta pay sometimes too? Any tips? Advice?
I'm going to meet my girlfriend after a long time. What should I gift her that can bring a smile on her face?
Hello ! This is my second answer on Quora and also on this Boyfriend and Girlfriend topic.I can give you a lot of guidelines on this topic as I am a lady myself.I also had a lot of boyfriends in the past but currently I have only one My boyfriends used to give me a lot of things frequently.I will tell you about the gifts that my boyfriend gave me.Gifts like this and this made me love him even more. He was a rich person so one day he even gave me this. I hadn’t expected it from him. With this gift our bond became even stronger. Then, expensive Roses and Flowers became regular gifts. We also went on a Date and a Candle Light Dinner.You can also go on a Date and a Candle Light Dinner with her when you meet her.So these were my guidelines on the topic “I'm going to meet my girlfriend after a long time. What should I gift her that can bring a smile on her face ? ”I hope that I could help you.Thank YouBye
My girlfriend will be leaving to study abroad. Should I break up with her now to make it bearable when she does or is it possible to maintain a six year long distance relationship?
You actually got this question! I can understand how much you are going through!Let me explain it you. As per my experience you shouldn't even get this thought at all if you are really and madly in love with her. I suggest you please discuss this issue with your girl itself. That will be helpful.Let me tell you a real story that is currently happening! My friend is away from his guy since 8 years and they hardly meet once a month or may be even more than that sometimes. Even if they meet they have just a couple of hours or just a day! They barely get to see each other directly for months! Still they are in a strong, healthy and happy relationship irrespective of all the odds (family probs, social prob). Both are pursuing their careers seriously with the support and love of each other. They are proud of each other's accomplishments no matter how little they are! (Sometimes I find them LOL )What do you think now?! ☺Real lovers support, care, be there for each other no matter what happens. Love is not about being together all the time… its about being in love all the time ☺Hope you figure out the mess going inside your head. Don't worry listen to your heart. Wanna break up do it! Don't let yourself and your girl suffer because of your uncertainty.Get well soon! Follow the heart…
My girlfriend cheated on me after a 4 year relationship. I can't reconcile with the fact that she slept with someone else, considering we had only been with each other before this. Will I be able to forget with time? Do we have a future?
I have been through exactly same situation three years back.We were happily in a relationship for last 5 years and one day i came to know through one of my friend that she cheated on me.I was completely shattered,didn't know what to do next,thousands of memories flashed in front of me.Even i didn't talked to her for few days without telling her the reason for not talking.After couple of days i discussed all these things with her and she poured her heart out and confessed me everything that she got attracted towards that guy and they got intimate because of heat of that moment.And rest the same as you described.I was confused what to do.I don't want to lose her,at the same time i was not able to cope up with the thoughts that she cheated on me and why she didn't confessed this.Almost a month passed and i didn't had a talk with her.That one month was quite enough for me to realise that i can't live without her and i was ready to give our relationship a second chance so i had a talk with her and she promised me that this will not happen ever again.That day i realised that even hearing her voice made me feel better than what i was feeling for last one month so now i was sure that i'll give her a second chance.So it took few months for things to get back to normal.Starting days were not so good but as the time passed things started getting better and better and within two months things are back to normal.Present day: We are engaged now and will marry next year.I am all thankful to god from that day our bond is getting stronger and stronger,She respects me more.Well love is all about trust and respecting each other.But this is not the case with every one.Maybe i was lucky enough.I am no one to tell you what you should do or what not.But Seeing your situation i think you should give her a second chance though things will not be the same for few days or months but if she is really sorry from her heart(which seems) then i am quite sure your relationship will be back on track.All the best.