I need a girl's opinion!?
I've been dating this girl for quite some time and she has begun to "pleasure" me in different ways...handjob, blojob... What can I do to return the favor...what do girls like to be done to them?
If she mentions another guy (girls please give your opinions too please)?
I met this girl at work (as a summer camp counselor) I think she is very nice but I have only known her for like two and a have weeks. She and I are the head counselors in our group so we are around eachother pretty much all work day. I don't want to ask her out until the end of camp b/c if she says no I don't want it to be awkward. Is that a good or bad idea? She has mentioned a guy she was seeing and that she wasn't sure if it would work out with them. She has asked me if I was with someone but it was only after she asked me if she new if someone else was with someone. (maybe she did it that way so it would seem less obvious maybe not, I don't know) Her actual words were: Do you know if Jay is married?, I see a ring on his finger. me: I don't know. her: Are you married? me: No, I don't even have a girlfriend. I can make her laugh and I think she enjoys talking with me and I think she knows I like talking to her and might even know I like her but I am not sure. So all of this is a good sign to me. Until, the other day when we were leaving working together. ( we always leave work and travel part way home together.) The other day she starts talking about how she "reconnected" with a guy she used to see but that she is not really interested in him anymore. This doesn't phase me until she starts to talk about the guy she used to date who left to travel the world and is coming back soon who she said she did like. She then mentions something about how she seems to have lots of options or something like that or along those lines. I am not sure exactly what she said because I was trying to focus on how to not seem jealous. So I think I will ask her out at the end of camp regardless as I do not feel like giving up but I want to know what other people think. I have heard two schools of thought and am wondering which one, if either, make sense. 1. She mentions other guys to try to let you down easy to show you that she is not interested. and 2. She wants to see your reaction to see if you are jealous or not. Quite frankly, I don't like either of these because one means she is not interested and another feels like she wants to play games. SO...What do you all think?
When a girl asks for your opinion on her looks?
One time my gf, asked me something were in bed I was either half asleep or looking for a movie on Netflix or something. And she asked me something about her looks, I don't remember what cause I wasn't really paying attention to her. But she said, "good that's the right answer" and I was like ok whatever. But it got me thinking do girls intentionally ask stuff like this to start a fight? I don't understand how these test are necessary. If you ask for someones opinion there's no real wrong answer, right? I honestly wouldn't change anything about my gf, who actually told me she seriously wanted lip injections I think it's because mine are bigger than her's and just huge in general and she tiny little ones aha. I convinced her to try some other product though. I think being in LA is getting to her, she's from London. I've told her not fall for any of that though, all the fake hollywood stuff. Though I honestly wouldn't mind if she got a tan, she's the palest girl I've dated outside of this one goth chick haha. All the other girls got tans, had olive skin tones, or had natural skin tones cause they were latino, philipino, black, and a few other races. I'm mostly just trying to keep from slipping that out cause I don't want to her to feel insecure. And am fine with her being pale.
Girls I need your opinion, if you had a really good guy friend and he asked if he could date your younger sister what would you say?
While I'm not a girl, I have some experience in this 'friends dating a younger sister' situation.In the summer of 2012, my younger sister living in New Haven, CT and was working at Yale. My good friend from college was living in Stamford, CT. I took a trip up to my friend's house with my girlfriend to hang out for the weekend, go swimming, drink, see a movie, etc. We decided to invite my sister, too, since I didn't see her much. It was a great weekend; everyone had a great time.Lo and behold, on a return trip a month or two later, it was revealed to me that my friend and sister had started hanging out more and then dating. After the couple hours of initial shock, it sat quite well with me actually.The thing is, my friend is a great guy. He's trustworthy, smart, and fun. For all the same reasons I liked being his friend, my sister wanted to date him. I cannot blame my friend for liking my sister. She is great. I cannot blame my sister for liking my friend. He is great.Although, the situation here is unique in that I have quite some distance between myself and them, so I'm not privy to (and also safe from) their regular relationship issues and drama, I still run the risk of losing the friendship if/when they break up. However, it's not my decision to make. They're both adults and they pursued a path they wanted to go down. What was best for me was to step out of the way and let them lead their lives. I could do this happily, because I trusted him and I trust her judgement. I think you need to ask yourself:Is my friend a good person?Would I trust him dating a of friend mine? So, why not my sister?If those two questions can be answered with a "Yes". Then, let them give it a go. If those questions are a clear, "no". Then, tell him to buzz off and tell your sister to steer clear. There are plenty of guys I wouldn't want to date my sister. Luckily, my friend isn't one of them.
Why did a girl ask me to tie her shoe?
FIrst of all this question is hilarious, you are looking at the situation too deeply. I always ask guys/girls to tie my shoes. Because if ur at school and are wearing a skirt, we dont want to bend over to tie our shoe. Or we just conveniently have someone next to us who is willing to tie our shoe for us:) its not that special. I dont specifically LIKE the guys i ask to tie my shoes they are just friends. NOt a big deal no your not friendzoned cause of this.. she could like u or maybe not.. no way to tell by her asking u to tie a shoe.
When a girl asks your opinion on something is she making a hint?
My ex sent me a very random text, she asked me my opinion on one night stands. I told her I wasn't against them and don't know much of them since I've never had one (still a virgin) was she hinting that she wants one with me? She's my best female friend (I know..best friends with an ex can be weird) and she considers me here best male friend. I still love her but I also have urges. Is it bad that I want to sleep with her? Shes all I can think about most days/nights. And if not should I tell her? I know it can ruin a friendship and I do still wanna be friends, I care about her deeply. Idk is it normal to want this? BTW I'm 22 she's 24.
This girl asked me if I think she is pretty and I answered her honestly and told her I am not attracted too her. Why is she angry at me now when she asked for my opinion?
It would certainly be very nice of someone would print up the darned rule book. After all, you are not clairvoyant.The reason she got mad is because she did not want your honest opinion. She wanted you to give her some sort of compliment.Personally, I wouldn’t worry about it. I’ve been around enough to know exactly what to say in just such a situation to make the girl feel good but then I go and say exactly what you said because I’m not going to be forced into having a conversation that I don’t want to have. I’m also not going to be pushed into saying just the right thing. This is not fair of women to do this to men.There are those who will say you should never tell a woman that she’s unattractive. My response to that is “Why Not?”There are others (usually women) who would claim that your answer was very presumptuous. They would accuse you of assuming that she was interested in you sexually - that you are arrogantly inventing questions in your own mind.. I say that these people are the real ones that are being presumptuous because they think you’re making something evil out of it all. Wrong!The bottom line is that you spoke from your heart and said exactly what you meant. There is nothing wrong with that. In the future just sugarcoat it a little if you want to. But don’t become the liar that modern culture and society expects us all to become.
What does it mean if a girl asks me my opinion on something?
It just means she wants some insight from a guy. I know I like to ask my guy friends about things, because it provides a fresh perspective, and usually guys have different points of view on things as girls. It doesn't necessarily mean anything, she just values your opinion. There could be the possibility that she took that as an excuse to talk to you, but it's best to not over think things and just stick to the fact that she wanted your opinion. She could also want to know what kind of taste you have.
A girl asked me to answer a question on love. Does this mean she loves me?
If there is a question on medicine doesn't mean, it's about disease. Love is a subject, which is SPIRITUAL, PSYCHOLOGICAL, PHILOSOPHICAL, RELIGIOUS so maybe she wanted to see how you look at it. The same thing means different things to different people. Answer in the truest sense. Don't read too much into anything.