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A girl said I'm nice?

This girl that I've hung out with only a couple times said that I'm nice, and told all her friends that I'm the nicest guy ever. I never made a move on her because she has a boyfriend too. What does this mean? why would she tell all of her friends in front of me that I'm the "nicest guy she's ever meet"? Should I act a little more like a jerk? I consider myself a good looking guy, girls have said that I was cute and I've had a couple girlfriends, but am I being too nice?

Why dont girls like nice guys?

because girls are inherently selfish, and when looking for a relationship they're driven to fulfill their own unhealthy instincts, whereas you find fulfillment in making other people happy. At least you'll have the satisfaction of laughing at them someday as they mourn their eventual ugliness and vacuous personalities

EDIT: don't listen to all these girls posting on here. Girls are hypocrites when it comes to talking about what they "want" as opposed to what they actually look for. They can go on and on and on about how they want the nice guy and how *they* are the exception and how you've obviously only met shallow women so far. They're all shallow and they all go for the excrement of the gutter .. but when they get too old and too lonely and too desperate, then they might go for a guy like you. Why be their fallguy? Let them rot

Am I being TOO nice to girls?

Sup dude.
I used to be in your position all the time. The key is to be nice, but make known that you want more than just a friendly relationship. This can be done in a number of ways. For example, the most obvious is flirting. When I flirt, I usually playfully diss the girl, in which she will give a reaction. To clarify, I could be like "Wow you really suck at this" - Could be about anything - A sport you are playing, work you are doing at school, etc. The key is the tone of your voice. If done correctly, she will smile and be like "No I don't!!!" or "Shut up!!" in a tone equally as playful. You can then easily expand on this with a few jokes... just make sure they aren't lame! So in this way, you show that you are nice but also playful, which can get in the head of most girls.
Another way is just blatantly showing her that you want her. Winking at a girl and smirking, especially if you hardly know them, will get them embarrassed at all the attention you are giving them. Trust me, they secretly love it. The main thing to remember is be a nice guy - but a nice guy who can flirt like a jerky guy. Good luck ma man.

My boyfriend is too nice to other girls.... way too nice?

Oh girl!!! almost all the people are on the guy side. hehehehehe. but you know? I'm on your side. because I'm a jealous freak too. I just don't let it show to him, and I tried to be just nice to myself, If he does that .. to leave you in a party and he is with other girl.... do that to him also, be nice and chatty to guys too on a party.Lets see how he reacts on that. I believe you have the right to be jealous at that moment because he is your partner and why he paid for the stuff for that girl? did she lost her wallet? my gosh... Just observe his attitude, you are not in danger yet, coz you are only bf/gf.. but you have the right to get jealous. By the way you can't change him, so it is up to you to see her treating other girls while you are his date. I wouldn't mind if he gives money to the poor or charity or elderly... but paying stuff for a girl while i am his date? No. no. It's a sign of flirting.

Do scorpio guys hate girls who are to nice?

depends on what kind of nice you talking about... scorpio like nice people but when they're too nice until they can't stand up for themselves and what they believe than scorpio just simply hated it... it is good you are being yourself so what's matter now is how your scorpio deal with it... different scorpio have different attitude and some can handle nice people well but some are just not that good. they like wild and adventurous...

advice: just show yourself... if he can adapt it then he'll stick with you. if not, he will fly away...

-scorpio girl-

What's so bad about being "too nice" to a girl?

The problem with over-the-top nice guys is that they treat every girl the same. It's nice and it's kind, but sometimes we can't differentiate those charming and polite gestures between a genuine interest in us or something you do for everyone. I know I've wasted a lot of time thinking a guy was interested in me when truly he was just that polite and generous to every girl. My point is, if you're really interested in a girl, do something unique for her you'd never do for someone you consider just a friend. Keep in mind that going out of your way on a large scale and continuous physical contact may come across as being intimately and exclusively interested in a girl.

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