Girls Was She Testing Me .

Is she just testing me?

So I met this new girl at uni. She's really nice. We'd few lunches in the canteen and went outside together afterwards. She felt relaxed, always laughing, joking and tickling me. Some serious "eyes staring". She's never messaging others in my presence. She spent quite a lot of time with me (considering we only know each other for few weeks), even though she always could have gone home way earlier. Since I'm really stupid and blind concerning this matter and wasn't sure about her signals, so I give her a small kiss (just in case) after I walked her home. Everything was fine. The other day we went on a trip together. The trip went as the other meetings. I gave her few kisses, and it all seemed to be just fine. After the weekend I wrote her a message that I would like to see her tomorrow. And she just casually answered that "She is meeting someone else already". I didn't want to ask who because I'd look nervous and definitely didn't want to intrude. She said she has no problem meeting other day, but while chatting her I have a completely different feeling about her affection towards me. I'm not sure if she dates others men as well and overall if she's worth the effort and time or if she's just trying to test me and observing my reactions.

I'll appreciate any advice from you guys, since I'm really inexperienced in dating. Should I give her more time or should i be straight with her and ask her directly? I don't want to discourage her.

Thank you very much in advance

Is this girl testing me or is she not interested?

If she seemed really interested on the first time you met her, maybe she was. I don't think interest in someone is lost so soon. Since you're going on Y!A, you're probably also asking your friends and talking to them about this. Maybe she is too. Maybe her friends are saying that she should test you or wait a day to text back because that's what happened to me. Text her the next day and if she doesn't respond even then, just forget about her and move on. Haha, go pick up some new girls

Is she testing me or is she foreal?

I Dmed this girl i used to know in college basically saying whats up long time remember me,and i sent a photo.she replied and from there had a short exchange of texts.When i said we should have hung out more when we were around.She replied with"you tryna smash or what"

Thinking this was a test i basically replied what im trying to do is get your number.ler me take u out...but got no reply and its been a week

My question is was i right thinking it was a test,is she playing me,or was she really expecting me to answer with a direct yes or no. Do some prefer that your that direct?

Do girls "test" guys by not texting them for a while?

I don't do this personally but my friends like playing hard to get sometimes when they're starting a fresh relationship. They want the guys to do it as well or the excitement will go away too soon or something (I'm not 100% sure why because I don't do this myself).

If a girl doesn't reply to one of your texts I recommend that you wait 1-3 days until texting her again. If she replies to that text then she was just playing hard to get, but if she doesn't she probably wants time off from whatever you two have.

Girls: the "ignore" test?

I'm a girl I should know:

-girls play this test to get your attention and to see how much you like them.
-the ONLY way to pass this test is to be honest and tell her how you feel (girls hate it when guys just flirt or give hints that he likes her, but never actually admits it)
-failing the test is giving up on her and not responding back, she'll think you get bored easily and not give her attention
-it lasts until you talk to her and tell her the truth


From what I read, I think she likes you, so I think you should tell her. But! Girls are very tricky maybe shes just being nice. Read her hints. Pay attention to what she says. Make sure you know for a fact she's into you before you spill the beans... Good luck!

Why do girls TEST guys?

Sometimes just the smallest thing a guy does can make us get over him just like that. I'm not sure exactly why she doesn't like you anymore, just saying my opinion.