Do guys ever regret letting a girl go?
I've recently decided to move on from this kid I like just because he says he likes me and another girl, but he likes the other girl more. He doesn't give me chances and I feel like he doesn't care about me...I don't want to give up on him but I'm the only one trying. Im gonna start ignoring him in order to get over him do you think he will ever miss me? I mean do guys ever realize that maybe they did a mistake like going for the wrong girl? help me! ps. the other girl has a boyfriend
If I like a girl a lot, but she doesn't like me, should I let her go and give up?
Don't listen to these fools. First of all have you actually approached this girl and spoke to her yet? Have you told her how you feel or do you just chicken out when she says anything back? Or have you tried talking to her and she generally just hates you? Women usually don't hate a person unless there is a reason. Did you embarrass her at church camp? Post a nude pic of her at school? Shoot her with a water gun filled with pee? What happened to make her dislike you?If you have my approached her yet and just think she doesn't like you…take two Flintstones Vitamins, pull up your big boy pants, walk up to her (with confidence) and ask her on a date. If she says no….or blows you off don't get upset. Just turn to her friend and ask them out in front of her.Regardless if she still doesn't want anything to do with you…effectively reinvent yourself. Take a karate class, learn another language, go to the gym, learn a new hobby…learn how to dress. After about a year or more of improving yourself…you can ask her out again. If she still says no….then go off again and wait 6 months. Go back and take a good looking girl with you. Doesn't matter who she is. But let your crush see you and girl having fun and just ignore crush. If she happens to talk to you then only make small talk. Like you're Interested but tell her your busy. Not rudely. Just say yeah we can hang out sometime…how about next week on Tuesday. I'm pretty booked until then but I'd love to do lunch. Then2 days before Tuesday send her a text message and tell her you have to reschedule becuz something huge came up and you've been asked to take care of it. But reschedule for the following week, say Thursday at 6pm. Then meet her that day…boom there ya go. And if she doesn't go for you then who cares you can do better and hell… you've been working improving yourself all this time, right? You got that going for you too.
GUYS!!!! Do you ever regret letting a girl go???
There are three women about whom I will always wonder "what if". But I have no regrets. They got what they wanted in the end, and so did I. It takes two to make a relationship work and if one or both want out the relationship should be ended....which is why the "piece of paper" is so important. In marriage, each is committed to the other. Each says to the other, "you get my love, my affection, my attention, my loyalty, my body, and my money." Anything less means that the relationship is unlilkely to endure, or that each will have to willingly sacrifice some want or need that should be fulfilled by the other.
How can I let go a girl who has cheated on me?
Why do you want to let such a fun girl go? Have you found yourself another committed partner that respects a relationship ? If that is not the case then there is no question of letting her go. This girl has herself demonstrated that a single partner is just not enough to satisfy her. If she has herself not specifically stated that she wants to break up with you, then DO NOT let her go by any means. Just enjoy your joint account dude. Give her the proper respect as much you give to a public property. Meanwhile just keep on searching for the right girl that respects commitment and relationships. 'After' that, you can certainly let her go. All the best.
Girls: have you ever let go of a good guy and regretted it?
I dated a guy that lived home with his parents. I thought it was strange until I found out he got an MBA, a second Master's Degree in Finance, and his commercial pilot's license. He was living at home until he educated himself. I just read in the paper his marriage announcement. He owns his own company and is on his way to the Greek Isles on his honeymoon. He was smart to live at home until he could achieve his dreams.
Do guys ever regret letting a good girl go?
I think timothy is spot on, I do always think about the lasses I never dated but liked me, and in a way, It's not necessarily regret what we feel, but rather wonder and dream about what we could've done differently and look back and say " damn, maybe I should've at least tried instead of letting her go, I wonder what it would've been like if I did?" So that sinks in and all we can do is "wonder", but there are reasons sometimes for why I never dated them, for example, one very popular lass wanted to date me, but thing is, I wasn't in my best situation in terms of money and time to be with her because I had to move and she did show me how much she loved me, however I had to go without saying goodbye to her, I cried everyday about it until I realised that life is full of experiences and not all are meant to be shared with us.So I decided to write a note to her, when one day if fate ever decided to let us met again, I would give it to her and so I did after I came back 7 years later to find out she was still in love with me and that she too, felt very deep feelings for me. She never saw me when I got back after seven years though, I tried looking for her everywhere but could not find her, eventually I had to leave to go back home to Leeds, and as I walked in the airport, I saw her one last time, I wanted to run and hug her and never let her go, but I kept to myself and as she was walking out of a crowd of people I took out my note and slithered it in her Windbreaker pocket without she noticing and slowly tapped her on the shoulder and disappeared into the crowd, I looked back to see her face as she turned but turned back as she didn't know who was the one who did it. that same day I flew back to Leeds and started to regret that I didn't let my feelings out and just go to her, till this day, I regret not ever doing what my heart told me to do. I am now about to get married to someone that I will never love as much as I loved her:/
My girl friend lost virginity to her ex-boy friend, will she ever forget it?
Hi, My girl friend of 2 yrs, told me that her first time was with her ex- boy friend of 5 yrs. She left him after their engagement as she felt insecure as he never earned and lived in her cash. You can say she jumped on her friend's boy friend (me) when i broke with her friend (my ex-gf), i never had sex with anyone so didn't know if she was a virgin or not. But,one day when we were talking she told me how she lost her virginity to this guy. She is from a conservative catholic girl, but now i feel she seems to never forget him, even though she says otherwise. I have given her a good home, car, money and even bailed her out of her credit which she incurred for her ex-guy. So, what should i do? I am very attached to her,but everytime we have sex, it always hits me she has slept with someonelse or much worst thinking oh him or comparing him with me.. We are from Asia, down here women lose their virginity after marriage.. So, i need some advise to make my life better, pls help guys..
If a girl dumps you, will she always come back if she loves you?
There are songs that say that, if she loves you and you wait, she will come back to you. Those are all deceiving. If anyone dumps you, and the person had a solid reason, he or she will not come back. Even if there was no solid reason, and the person just didn't want to be with you anymore, they surely will not come back.You have to have turned over a new leaf for them to come back. You have to have tried to win them back FOR THEM TO COME BACK. No pain, no gain. If you don't put in the effort, you get nothing.This is real life, not a fairy tale. Will you want to eat from a bowl you ate from last week if it wasn't washed? I didn't think so. So why would they? Why would they come back to you? Why would she? You have to wash that bowl. You have to change your attitude, and try to win her back for her to come back to you. If you have done nothing, and are just waiting, then you are simply wasting your time...
Do guys eventually regret letting go of the good girl?
Honestly, probably not. He doesn't seem that bright or he probably wouldn't of let you go. If so, who cares he's not worth think about it. I think rather on obsessing if he'll regret the break up, move on. If he is as bad as you say; why do you care about if he'll regret his decisions or not? There are lots of men who will appreciate the total package. Why would you want some ambition-less lazy inconsiderate fickle little boy? Why don't you spend your time looking for a real man? I guess all in all I'm saying: Why do you give a f*ck? Spend your time trying to get over him and dating around if you truly want to find that guy. Being guarded and making men chase is all well and good if you could take or leave a relationship. If your really trying to find a good guy, you might want to be more open and stop playing games. Not saying to be like the majority of girls and throw yourself at guys *which from what you wrote I see that's not an option anyway*, just be more open to the prospects around you. He seems like the every day average trash, throw him away and don't think twice.