I need some advice on texting high school girls?
I'm a junior in high school. I have never had a girlfriend or my first kiss yet. I sometimes feel different that everyone. I'm a pretty shy guy and have trouble starting conersations with girls cause i don't know how to start it without akwardness. If a girl talks to me first, then i don't have a problem. I barely text girls either cause idk what to say. I'm afraid the girl wouldnt want totalk to me or she would think itwould be akward if i tried to talk to her all of the sudden randomly. So i was wondering if girls wait for guys to start conversations and thats why i don't text girls a lot? Or is it something else... Like my looks or something? I don't think its my personality cause i've been told i had a great personality. I'm athletic, i'm a listener, i have a good sense of humor and i love to laugh, i'm pretty smart like a 3.3 gpa. Is it just cause i'm shy or is it other reasons why girls don't text me? How can i start a conversation without it being akward.
Do highschool girls cheat more than highschool guys?
i know that many guys cheat , but their cheating seems to be more of one night stands/random hookups with a girl while he is already in a relationship. it seems that i hear far more stories of girls that try to find another guy than of guys who try to find a second girlfriend. i know one guy who has had many girlfriends and is very outgoing, a lot of girls want him. but he says that most of his exes cheated on him and just one day told him "ive been seeing this other guy for a month or so , lets break up" or somethng. also, my brothers girlfriend cheated on him , she didnt celebrate his BIRTHDAY with a birthday date because it turned out she was with another guy that night. also , there is twice as many results for "girlfriend cheated" on google , than "boyfriend cheated". i also see more men than women on those "private investigator" TV shows trying to see if their girlfriend cheated on them than vice versa
High school, sex, advice needed...?
Minimum age should be 18. That's when a person is legally responsible for the consequences of their actions. Prior to that, your folks are primary responsible...and they shouldn't have to pay one cent toward medical bills for pregnancy or STD treatment for their kid. If a person wants to have sex, they need to be able to handle ANYthing that might occur...physically, financially, and emotionally. If ya can't pay, don't play. Otherwise, it's just irresponsible and should be illegal. Sex not occur before: 1. You are ready to deal with a pregnancy, should it occur 2. You are ready to deal with an STD, should it occur 3. When you know how a woman can become pregnant (all the ways it can occur) 4. When you know what the various STDs are and how they are transmitted and how to help protect against them 5. When you are ready to insist your partner wear a condom (female) or insist that you wear one (male) 6. When you are on a reliable form of birth control and using it properly (female) or ensure that she is (male) 7. When you are ready to deal with any emotional issues that may come from being intimate with another person Until you've got those things covered, you should not have sex.
I’m a girl currently in high school. What advice can you give me about boys?
Males in high school are, for the most part, boys, not men. They are a testosterone driven bundle of insecurity, regardless of the persona they display.For most of them, sex is about the physical, not the emotional. They are not mature enough yet to blend the two into a complex mature relationship.Their brains are wired to think about themselves, their male friends, and then the world.They are highly possessive and irrational once they enter a relationship with a female. They expect commitment, but the commitment may not be a two way street, as the hormones drive them to test the waters as often as possible.So, advice. Don't get in a relationship with one guy while you are in the lower grades of high school. Have boy friends, but not boyfriends. Do things in groups. Learn how to read male behavior from a distance. Then, when you are a bit older, pick a guy with whom you can be friends; a good person. Develop a deeper relationship. It can become sexual, but be disciplined enough to avoid really intimate sexual contact. Don't have sex until you are comfortable enough to discuss birth control with him.Odds are, he will break your heart. This is why it is important to keep your other friends even when you have a boyfriend. Binge eating ice cream to get over him is better if there are 2 or 3 best friends there.
Do girls like Inexpericed guys in highschool or college?
You have nothing to worry about! A good friend of mine never dated a girl until he was 18, and my roommate in college just started seeing a guy who was homeschooled and hadn't don't anything sexual or dated either. Sometimes girls don't mind dating a guy who is a little inexperienced because they can teach the guy what works for them (since everyone is different). Don't rush into anything though. Trust me, it may seem like a lot of people in high school are hooking up and having sex, but the truth is that not everyone is doing it, and the majority really aren't ready to have sex. I'm a rising sophomore in college and several of my friends haven't had sex, girls included! They're waiting for mr right just like you're waiting for the perfect girl. When the time is right, you'll know it. Just take a deep breath and go with the flow. Make friends and enjoy yourself! These things work themselves out how they're meant to be :)
As a sophomore in high school, what is some good advice I should know about girls in general?
Treat people (not just girls) with respect. You don’t have to agree with everything someone believes but that does not make someone a bad person. Everyone has a right to their opinion.Respect when someone (not just girls) tells you something in confidence. That means it is between you and them and not to be shared with anyone else EVER (exception being someone who is going to harm themselves).Smiling is the best way to let someone know that you like them.Manners DO matter !If you are too cool to be seen with a particular girl because of the other friends you choose to keep, then you do not deserve to be with that girl.Don’t ever send anything via a text or email or snapchat or facebook or whatever that you would not want your parents/friends/teachers/siblings/employer to see. Things on the internet NEVER go away. And inappropriate things will come back to haunt you in one way or another, so just don’t do it !Remember when a relationship ends (no matter who ends it) there are often hard feelings and sadness for one or both parties. That often causes people to forget all of the above advice that I can assure you is VERY GOOD ADVICE. So make sure that no matter how/why a relationship ends that it is over and you just need to move on in a way that would make your parents/friends/teachers/siblings/employer proud of how well you have handled yourself during a tough time.Respect…did I mention that one? Oh yes I did…hmmmm….well it gets to be on this list twice because it is that important. If you want something from someone and they are not comfortable giving it (sex, information, photos, gifts, items, etc) then pressuring them to do it is not respectful, it is manipulative. It is not hard to know right from wrong in this world. Choose to do the right thing and girls will treat you with respect, just like you treat them.And finally hygiene…Don’t smell badly, brush your teeth, wash your hands, wear clean clothes and don’t overdo it on the body spray !Wow…I just noticed that almost everything in this answer is not about girls, but rather about you and how you view girls !!! Wonder why that is??? Oh yes, now I know…there is no one answer to understand girls/women…but there is one answer about how YOU can have the best chance of meeting and getting to know them. You can now re-read my post.Good luck !