This guy forced me to kiss him?
DONT LISTEN TO THAT STUPID DUDE THAT ANSWERED HE IS A TOTAL DOUCHE First of all, I would like to recognize you. Lots of times, girls don't second question **** like this. Lots of times, they don't considered calling the police. But you ******* did and I'm so ******* proud of you. I'm really sorry about your friend. This complicates lots of things, and it's totally okay and normal if you didn't see this coming. Tell an adult you trust about this quickly. They know that you did nothing wrong, and as this small scenario didn't get that bad yet could get lots worse, they won't necessarily be that angry at him (this is because you must have some sort of loyalty to him and you would feel guilty if you told somebody and they got angry at him). This is not something you can ignore, though. PLEASE talk to someone. Also, if you feel comfortable doing so, talk to him. Tell him while you are alone (in a public area) that what he did was not okay. If he doesn't take this seriously, say it again and again and again. Say you feel disrespected and hurt and confused and he shouldn't have done that. Hopefully, he will understand and after lots of time and understanding, you guys can be completely normal friends again as if nothing happened. If he doesn't... ditch him. Quick. He is not worth your time and you are better than that. I know this is very hard for you, but I also know that you can do it. I'm so proud of you for caring, and good luck. <3
This guy forced me to have sex?
You did want sex, at the time, at least your BODY did, (maybe your social/moral part of your brain didn't), but you felt guilty afterwards so you are trying to rationalize things to where he is the bad guy and you were innocent. What you need to realize is that this is a lot deeper and more serious than your feelings. When you implicate somebody into a charge of sexual assault or rape,it will literally ruin their entire life and have them thrown into jail for years. So what I'm saying is, just because you feel guilty or uncomfortable accepting the fact that your body drunkenly wanted sex at the time, does not give you the right to rationalize that somehow this guy must have raped you. The idea that you were afraid, yet you were laughing and going along with it and never said anything otherwise, is ridiculous. And even if you secretly did not want it, the fact you acted like you wanted it, showed him you wanted it, and never told him otherwise, and let him do it, is legally you giving consent. How the heck was he supposed to magically know you didn't want it? You let him do it! Your feelings aside, HE didn't commit any crime here. Men are not required to be mind readers – we are simply required to stop if you say no. Which you never did. You were completely free to say no or physically try pushing him off at an time! If you had tried those, then you might have a claim. Unfortunately you didn't do those things. Your body language indicated to him that you wanted it, and you never said otherwise
My best guy friend forced me to make out with him and tried to do other things?
i've been best friends with this guy for a year at least. we're really close. we don't really hug or do any of that physical best friend stuff, but everyone knows we're best friends. i was at a party and everyone started playing truth or dare- kissing and just doing innocent things. then a lot of people left and it was just me and some of my friends, me being the only girl. i should've known to leave, but i thought i was safe being with people i trusted. they dared me to make out with my best friend. making out isn't a big deal to me, but with a guy like my best friend, i knew i couldn't do it. i started begging him and saying that i didn't want to, to the point where i was shaking and about to cry. the people who dared us even said that i didn't have to go through with it. but the guy wouldn't let up, saying it was a dare and we had to do it, trying to kiss me and getting way too close to me in front of everyone. it wasn't the first time a guy has been really forceful with me, but it was a lot more disturbing as this guy was (is?) a best friend. he was getting really aggressive and eventually we ended up in the bathroom with the door shut and me still begging not to go through with it. he forced himself on me, and eventually i gave up and let him. after that, he almost forced me to let him feel me up, but i screamed and he stopped. i asked him why he did it, and he said it was to impress his friends. but with the door shut, we could've faked it. i don't know what to do.
Can a repo guy force me out of my car?
Depends on a few things: if said repo guy is bigger and stronger than you…and whether your door is locked, or if your window is not rolled down too much— (visualize: window-extraction), then Yes, he can.In all seriousness, he will avoid starting physical altercations if at all possible. He may coax you and get in your face, but generally speaking, you trying to plead your case to him is pointless— he simply has been tasked with a job to do. That’s all. All too often folks who find themselves in the situation where their property is getting repossessed take it out on the poor schmo (it’s just a saying. No offense to Tow Truck Drivers here, God knows you’ve saved me plenty of times) who is getting paid by someone with money (usually the legal owner of the asset) to retrieve the property…nothing else.They will more than likely attempt repossession of your vehicle when you are not there— late at night, for instance. They generally tend not to knock on your door and ask for the keys, although that’s not unheard of (think Tax Evasion with IRS/Court-ordered repossessions).Basically if you’ve never seen one of the repo-men in action, their main goal is to get your car on the tow-hitch and be gone with the wind in as little time as possible— all in an effort to avoid confronting you. They’d rather not.Once your car is ‘on the hitch’, i.e., you cannot drive away without causing significant damage to your vehicle, the tow truck, or both, then you’re screwed. At that point there is nothing you can do, short of a felony to get away with ‘your car’. The police will be called, and you may get arrested if you assault the driver or damage his property.Word to the wise: don’t buy above your means, make your payments on time (after all the bank technically and legally owns the car until it’s paid off and you have that title in your hand), work with the lender for more lenient terms if possible, and if life throws you a curveball—as it loves to do— deal with it and don’t do anything that will continue or ignite a downward spiral for you.
My boyfriend forced me to..?
If he will force you to kiss him, what makes you think that he won't force you to do something more later? That's not love or respect, honey. From the time I was in junior high to the time I started teaching it, I've heard and seen guys do some terrible things to girls who took it because they thought it was love. I want you to take yourself out of the situation and think about how you would feel if a guy had done that to one of your friends. Do you feel anger? Any time someone does something to you physically that is against your will, it is an assault. You need to get as far away from him as you can. If you have a good support system at home, it is ok to tell your parents so they know what's going on. They might even be angry, but they will always love you and where there is love, there is forgiveness. But please understand that it is not in your best interest to stay with a boy who doesn't respect your right to say no.
My guy friend tried forcing me to have sex with him?
I've known him for about three years now, we're both 18. I moved here and he was my first friend. I was so grateful to have him...and he always made me smile and was a supportive friend. I knew he is a whore of a guy, I've seen all the girls he's been with, and his lifestyle choices suck (smoking, drinking, etc). Obviously I am not interested in him romantically and he isn't into me. I like him as a sober friend and he was always down to earth with me, but I don't actually associate myself with him so much anymore. When given the choice of another girl and me, he always chose the other girl...but would never talk to her again, and call her a ***** afterwards. I thought i made it clear to him he would never have me like that ever. it is strictly being chill together. He has had sex with one of my best friends, however He and a friend of his came over last night. They stayed until late so I told them to crash on the couches in the living room, and I went to my own room. That night he knocked on my door asking if he could come lay with me. I just assumed he would cuddle and sleep like we have before. Instead he really forcefully tried kissing me in the middle of sleeping. He got really forceful in taking my clothes off when i tried stopping him. He was grabbing at my privates and violently started fingering me and it really hurt. I was telling him to ******* stop and he was taking off his pants and had his dick out saying he want to **** me. He tried getting it closer to me like he was going to shove it in. He was practically raping me!!!!! I told him I was a virgin and was NOT going to have sex with him. He wouldn't stop saying reasons why I should have sex...like he has condoms and he'll be slow and why I've always been the girl he couldn't have, how all the other girls were distractions from me and how beautiful he thinks I am. and I was like NO I like someone and i'm waiting for them and he really really needed to get off me...I wasn't going to be pressured into sex. He eventually got off me and got out of the room. I just cried and thought really hard about calling the guy I liked (who likes me too and respects EVERYONE, not just me) I am so hurt right now that a good friend could've done that....well i guess he wasn't really a friend afterall. I don't know what to think right now. All I can think about is being with my guy.
Someone forced me to make out with them?
I am a 13 year old female, and today a 23 year old male (camp counselor) pinned me to a wall and forced me to kiss him ((at first)). I told him no. That he should stop since I am a minor, and that he can get in trouble for that. I told him that I was going to tell report him. He simply said: "No one has to know." I tried to push him off of me but I couldn't Dx I told him to stop. To leave me alone. He touched me. I kept trying to pull away from him. He then actually kissed me and started to make out with me. I kept trying to pull my lips away from him, but then he tried to force his tongue in my mouth. I ended up pinching him hard, and I was able to push away from him and then I ran away, but he grabbed my arm and told me: "See you tomorrow" and kissed me again. I ran away. What do I do? I never wanted my first kiss like this. I never wanted my first kiss at all. Who should I report it to? What should this be classified as? I don't want to eat anymore. I don't want to talk at all. How can I get over this? I'm going to high school this fall :( and I don't want to start out the school year like this. I NEED to be able to do well these years. Help me?
My girlfriend said she was forced to kiss a guy while she was on holiday but some people are claiming she had sex with him. How do I know if she did or not because everytime I ask her she cries?
LOL…!!! I mean… Are you serious??? If she wanted to open up about whatever happened on the holidays she would have told you … As you saying she starts crying when the topic is opened up she is not comfortble sharing that moment with you. Dont force out her to speak that topic but make sure to support her. Understanding the girl’s psychology is way beyond the limits (:p) but still make her feel by her own so she will open up.KUDOS…!!!
My boyfriend forces me to make out with him?
Okay so I've been holding out on my boyfriend after we did the nasty ahah.. And now he always wants too, I don't mind but it's so excessive now. And sometimes I just do t feel like it and e knows that so now he dosent ask me as much anymore ( he's never pressured me into sex he gets consent but he just asks a lot ) , so lately before im about too leave he always forces me to make out with him , if I want a small peck on the lips he just wants to make out with me, and he holds me there until I do , and it hurts sometimes and I've told him but he still does it , I don't know what too do cause I really love him and we've been together since my freshman year and were in college now. I don't want too break up I just need advice ?
My friend is going to be forced to have sex tomorrow?
Me and my friend are both 16 year old girls. People have always told us we looked older than we actually are and we have always used it as an advantage to talk to older guys and make out with them but that's all we did. We made a new friend who is a 20 year old guy and we hang out with him on weekends and smoke weed and drink. A couple weeks ago we went to his apartment and he had some friends over who were both a couple years older than him and my friend started flirting with one of them. They went to one of the rooms in the apartment and she told me she gave him and handjob and let him take her bra off. I stayed in the living room because I didn't find neither of them attractive. They exchanged phone numbers and they've been texting and talking since then and she agreed to have sex with him because she doesn't want him to stop liking her and stuff. Now she's realizing what she's actually done and she doesn't want to do it anymore and I tried telling her to just tell him she doesn't want to do it anymore but she feels like she has to. I told her I will go with her to his place just in case but I need to convince her to not do this because I know she'll regret it right after.