Guy friend stopped talking to me?
Ive first met him a few months ago, Im 14 and he's 3 yrs older than me. He treats me like his little sister but sometimes people ask if we were dating or something like that. We don't have any romantic feelings, I've even mentioned while texting him that I wont date him cuz he's like my best friend since I was worried that the rumors would ruin our friendship. When we're hanging with a group of friends, he would walk by my side or sit by me on the bus and always ask me if I was okay. When he found out a had a fever without telling him, he got really protective and told me I can always tell him if I'm having any problems.He walks me home if it's late at night.I told him I don't have anyone to talk to, he told me he cares about me and he'll be there for me. But recently when we met, he didn't talk to me but he walked up and talked to others and I felt like he's avoiding me a bit. But at the end of the day, as he was about to leave, he patted my head and ask me to join him. But since then. He stopped talking to me and ignores me. Ive even asked him why he was mad at me but never returned my text messages.Why did he treat me differently, I don't know if I did anything wrong or annoyed him.What should I do?
My best guy friend stopped talking to me?
From what i know, once a guy gets a girlfriend, she's the one who's supposed to be the best friend, the priority when it comes to friends, etc. I understand how you feel as once, one of my guy friends start dating, the friendship drifts away. I'm pretty sure he wants to avoid confrontation or the chances of his girl friend getting jealous. I don't think its you, cause he still emails you or whatever when he gets the chance. If he didn't wanna talk to you or something, he'd just ignore you at all costs. Guys act on gut feelings like that. But what it looks like to me, honestly, is that you might be putting a lot of thought into his matter (concerning the fact you typed quite a bit), because you still might have some feelings for him.
My guy friend that likes me stopped talking to me because another guy asked me out?
Im 19. Ive been getting to know this guy for the past 4 months (we met in class). We were texting almost every day & hung out on weekends. He found out that another guy asked me out. I didnt flirt with that guy or anything bc Im not interested. I did nothing to provoke that guy. Now, He has completely cut me off & stopped talking to me just bc some other guy likes me. Im REALLY mad. Why does a guy have to act like this?
Why did my guy friend stop talking to me?
HiOkay I had a similar incident. I found a guy via a group and common interests. So we start talking. His girlfriend breaks up with him and he gets and internship abroad. A good break for him to recover. Yes with time, I value him more than I knew. I would know of all his dates and he would know all my weird crushes.Two years later, I found someone. I mean I started dating someone. I decided to inform this friend about the fact that I like someone, subtly. Miscommunication happens and he assumes that I am telling him about my feelings for him. And he said that he knew I had such feelings since long ago. That I was just taking long to speak it out in the open.So, it was my fault for slowly revealing the news and I had to break it to him that I never had such feelings. He stopped talking to me. And told me somehow rudely that he is busy and that I should not contact him . You see, it was the time of demonetization. He was a banker and the pressure on his group had increased dramatically in the whole country. So I accepted that he might be busy. Even if not, things had complicated so much that it was okay for him to distance himself.This went for around 3 months until I faced breakup from my first relationship. I broke up and texted him about what I was going through. He replied, after so many weeks. It was a bittersweet moment because I had just broken up but a really important person had just come back in my life.We start to talk again slowly and he helped me pull myself up from depression. With no one else helping me. So one day I asked why has he not expressed earlier if he had such feelings. His reply makes me respect him so much. He said,- that he had such instances when friendships turn to relationships, but that way he had always lost the friends and that he didnt want to risk it with me.If your friend really is in for your more than his feelings, he would come back. If he would have been behaving okay, then I might have had asked you to consider your feelings. But sounds like he went desperate. Right now, you have to save your dignity and wait. If he was true for the friendship, he will be back. Just give some time. And even if you talk, always make it clear that all you need is a friend. Keep it crystal clear before him. Good luck.
What causes the guy friend to stop talking to you?
8Most will probably say, because they might be afraid of omg falling in love ohhh or something similar. Ill saySometimes you really are annoying as hell girls!Im not pointing at anyone, im not saying im perfect, i could be very wrong, you could be very right, maybe you arent annoying, maybe youre alright. What he h*ll do i know. But from my experience with talking to female friends that, shocking news, i really dont want to sleep with them even though theyre attractive and im not gay, they can truly be ridiculous.Recently i stopped talking to some girl because, well, she not only would stir the whole conversation to something uselessly sexual, saying how great she is, then jump to self deprication. I couldnt have a normal god damn conversation. Everytime “oh i am with this 30 year old and i think he might want to sleep with me and i want as well” or “oh i need cigarettes but im poor ;(((“ or, yeah you get the point.I really dont care, and nobody thats over 20 should ,in my opinion, about complaining all the god damn time about stuff.I stopped talking to some other girls because theyd just bring up from time to time “omgggg school sucks so badly, i hate it so much” or “omggg i have to meet my stupid mom cuz she forgot her keys”.I hate spoiled people, no matter the gender. Maybe your “guyfriends” stopped talking to you because guys dont really care about all the things girls care. We dont care that some chick talked behind our back, we dont care the clothes might not look “perfect” on us, we dont care about a lot. Some guys care, i dont care about those guys.There are lots of reasons why he might stop talking to you. Maybe he just forgot. Maybe hes busy. Maybe, yeah, maybe he might like you. Who the hell knows. Guys are as difficult to understand as everyone else is.
Why has my best guy friend suddenly stopped talking to me?
Spending time asking other people to guess, or trying to sort it out by guessing yourself, is a huge waste of time and energy.First, assume that it he is innocently neglecting your friendship unless he gives you specific reasons to believe there is something more to it than that.I recommend giving him a little time and the space to remember his friendship with you and then, if he still hasn't spoken to you, call to ask him to meet you for coffee or tea.If he behaves as though he is uncomfortable, be direct and let him know that you've missed talking to him and hope everything is okay.How he responds will determine how you should proceed but, if your friendship is with him, show him the courtesy of talking to him about it… not others.
My guy friend suddenly stopped talking to me. We didn’t have a fight or anything. He’s just completely ignoring me and I don’t know why. I’m tempted to cut all contact. Should I do that?
Talk to him, in person.“Joe-Bob, you’ve been avoiding me. It’s rude. If I did something that hurt or bothered you, you know I wouldn’t have done it on purpose! What’s wrong? Talk to me.”Don’t take “No.” for an answer. You can go back and forth for a few minutes, but eventually, you have to give him an ultimatum;“Jehoshaphat-Robespierre !!! I deserve better than this! If you won’t talk to me today, then maybe we don’t need to talk at all? I’ll tell you what - this is me, trying to fix things. But you aren’t! So, I’ll give you til Friday. I will not call nor text you at all. If you want to continue this friendship (or raise it to another level?). then you need to make the next move. If I don’t hear from you on Friday, well, it was nice knowing you.”And walk away.Three things;IS this a matter of Friend-zoning? Does he want more from the friendship than you’re willing to commit to (or unaware of)? If possible, then you need to seriously think things out. Decide how much you want his friendship compared to perhaps more. If he’s been friend-zoned, he’s miserable. And will never be happy as just boyfriend, but leaving will take a tremendous effort on his part - and that may be exactly what’s going on.This can’t be a Bluff. If you go though with this, you have to be prepared for whatever the answer ultimately ends up being.You dating a guy named “Jehoshaphat-Robespierre” is strange. What kind of name is that anyway? Cajun maybe?